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Ember, 41

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About Me

With much debate, I have decided to try to date... BUT with rules. No pressure for sex please... I can't deal with that pressure along with trying to meet new people... I would rather just go out and have fun... I am a single mom with very little time away from my kids. I also don't talk about my kids for there safety so pls don't ask. I use my cell to go online so be aware that it sometimes says I'm online... but I'm not. Looking to make new friends to help my journey through life. Not looking to commit at the moment as I'm working on myself physically & emotionally so I'm not ready to mess anyone else's life. Friendship is composed to smiles , laughs and comradery. Intimate relationships are confusing, sad and require work... A good friendship is more treasured than an intimate relationship especially at this time in my life.I have posted simple pictures of me. No make-up and exactly how I would look when we hang out, although I have recently discovered minimal makeup can enhance. :) Please understand that I'm not looking for a partner. I'm not interested in getting hurt. I'm not available for sex so don't waste your time. All I want is someone to hang with and re-discover living. We can either grab a beverage & go for a walk... or grab a bite to eat and talk...Break the ice and see if we have anything in common What I do NOT want... Someone that wants to have sex with me on the first date !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Betsy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am awesome and you should message me. If you are normal. I'm just a nice girl, looking for a nice guy.- If you do not have any pictures up you are not the guy for me. I would never date a bodyless cartoon character head.- If you have dancing banana emoticons all over your profile you are not the guy for me.- If you have misplaced your sense of humor or your sarcasm meter is broken we probably won't get along.- If you are a serial online dater and/or are not truly available you are not the guy for me. As entertaining as it can be sometimes, I truly am seeking more than a pen pal or an imaginary text boyfriend. My goal is to not be a troll and get off the www and out into the real world with someone of some substance.- I recently changed my body type on here from average to a few extra pounds. Yeah, I know. It is what it is. Unlike some folks I prefer not to start off as a big fat liar lips should I actually go out on a limb and meet one of you potential serial killers in person. No. Am I in peak fighting condition? No, not at this time. Do I look exactly like my pics? Yes. Even the bikini one? Yes. However, I think by me putting average some of you guys are expecting a human pencil. Never been a stick figure, have always had curves, lovely curves at that, however in fairness I am here to admit on the www that said curves are a little more curvy of late and need attention. It's true. My lame excuse is my 80hr work week schedule of the past year has had me camped at my desk and living on take out food and it caught up with me. It happens. The beautiful thing is that the effects of workaholism are reversible. Anyhoo, just want to make you judgemental judy's aware is all, as photo and profile deceit is never fun, am I right? Now I'm off to go eat some more kale...yay me. What I would not do: ask you for a loan, discuss my ring size, bring along a scrapbook of what our babies would look like, talk about my unicorn collection, etc.

  • Kairi

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    --love animals- the outdoors-working in the yard boating--horseback riding--Walks on the beach or bike riding. Enjoy restraunts on the beach or water with live music..........Ps Please do not get offended if i do not ***!!!!! This just means that I feel you may not be my type......Best of luck to everyone!!!!!!!

  • Bryony

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Love to hike but hate the cold. Love live music, current pop, 80s, classic rock are my favorites but really have a great respect for all kinds. In the summer I have to be outside, beach, garden, hiking, kayaking, beach volleyball, riding my motorcycle, hanging by the pool, road trips....Love to see friends and entertain, family and friends are very important, but also enjoy a balance of down time. I like to travel but have become comfortable being home. I think I am pretty easy going, flexible and really enjoy the experience of life. what is your suggestion?

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