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Gary, 45

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About Me

Busy with life, but looking to find someone fun and optomistic to enjoy the chaos with.Yes I like my career , yes I have a home , like my children most days , love them always . I have three almost awesome teenage girls (actually totally awesome but they are teenage girls .....ugg another grey hair ..lol )that I have always had on my own full time. i have had a very busy schedule with work and their school and sports . Seem to live in car n hotels sometimes ...but things appear to be slowing and I find myself home alone ....so guess it really is my turn. I am looking to get out and laugh a little , looking for great conversation with someone intelligent, thoughtful, funny etc....no different than most. I ultimately am looking for a relationship with someone i cant wait to wake up with every day and say ..wow life is good ..what memory or miracle will today hold. I value a man who values a woman and her strength, a man comfortable in a suit , jeans or a tiera if necessarry for a small childs tea party. i am really not Iinterested in younger men and good or bad really do want to only date taller men. I am not looking to "hook up" although I do know that the right guy will be happy in that area cause after all it is the ultimate encounter when love n trust are at the root !!!life is a journey .....what a view!!!*note* I consider all of these a small commute and with my career i drive to all of them often. some consider this a potential long distance....but for me that is fairly local...you decide..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shebah

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a happy person with three great kids, (my hearts). Divorced for several years and have had a relationship since. I get along well with my exes and have very little remorse. I enjoy being able to look at myself in the mirror and be proud that I try to be better every day at every role I hold in life. Sooo not perfect and not trying, just trying to be the best me and find someone that fits. To describe me..Easy going at home, funny and laid back. At work am very professional.I care about how I look, but not obsessed. I wear makeup on dates, but not afraid to go to the store without any. I am comfortable in my own skin and do not need to inform anyone of my achievements. Humbleness is a quality I find very attractive. I do not care how much money you make, as long as you pay your bills and take care of your kids if there are any involved. When a man *** and calls me "babe" or "princess" it is a turn off for me. I do not date anyone in their sixties or twenties. I am a romantic at heart and love small, kind gestures. (opening doors, etc..) Honesty is huge..I am so easy to figure out because I don't play games. If I need something from my partner, I tell them and do not make them guess. In a relationship I tend to prefer the men take the lead, but will make plans at drop of a hat. I am very old fashioned gal that was raised by strict Catholics. Was a little wild child in hight school( bless my parents heart's). but got serious during higher education. I have a great family and am very close with them, but are scattered throughout the states, save for a sister nearby. God is a very important part of my life and I go to church weekly. Anyone I dated I would need them to have a relationship with Him as well or we would never be a match. He has helped me through all my hardships and I am so in awe of Him. If you are not a Christian I do not think it could work out with you, but wish everyone luck in their search for that special person they seek. The pic in the black dress is 8 years old from a sorority reunion..others very recent.( know that pretending how u look is an issue for both genders)! Anything romantic, Sporting event, BBQ, Coffee and Conversation, truly, am easy to get along with and enjoy just about everything!

  • Jaime

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    For someone who is artistic,articulate & extremely creative, words just don't come easily when your trying to summarize the essence of yourself in a few paragraphs,Aimed at attracting the man I dezire.I am a true old fashioned romantitic,I am a mans women,and a 1 man women.I have no drama,and dont do GAMES!I was married 13 yrs and divorced 8 yrs.; life & to spend some quality time with my mom,Shortly after I lost both my parents(The only family I had!)a peacfull place where i can fish,camp,hike,paint..(JUST A DREAM)So i have been told many times i do not look my age,I take very good care of myself,stay thin and in shape.& I have been told I look much better in person!I promise i WONT show up looking like shamoo or 10 years older!I have experienced that from a few men believe it or not..And heard some crazy stories!!It is a different world here,Women are very Snobby,Plastic,The men around my age are either PLAYERS,married,taken,scared of commitment, just recently divorced & looking for a lil fun,old enough to be my father,or young enough to be my son!I am abit picky and know what i want and DONT want.I never thought it would be so incredibly difficult to meet someone I connect with. never in a million yrs thought I would have to resort to Internet dating!!I don't put a distance on potential love,I will travel anywhere for the right man,I have no ties here!I am looking for a man between the ages of 39-& Hopefully fall in love build a great relationship & 1 day be happily married again..If that scares you,YOU AREN'T FOR ME!!!!!!I do love Goe-tees(I know kinda silly but they turn me on!;Muscular arms are a big plus!" Confident Men,The Rugged type,men who don't mind getting there hands dirty,Mr fix it type,A man who isn't afraid of love,or showing me it!* if you have anger issues and a bad temper,please move on!!!!!*If you get off on smacking or strangeling, or into sick fettishes MOVE ON!!*If u don't have a job or live with a bunch of roommate's you aren't for me.*If you live at home with your parents i am sorry but you aren't for me!*If you are the type of man who asks me out to dinner ON THE FIRST DATE and then expects me to pay then I am not the girl for you.*If you don't drive your aren't for me...sorry*If you are scared of commitment,don't have a clue what u want,date more than 1 women at a time,or are a serial dater you are not the man for me!!! * don't fake a future with me just to get what you want in the present!!!! If you are a player and your only intentions are to get laid,MOVE ON!!* If you don't believe in sex before marriage I am not the girl for you!!!!* I am looking for a man who is thoughtful and considerate .Chivalry goes a long way with me!I adore children but unfortunately I don't have any of my own. if you have very young children that you have full custody of & have little or no time to get to know me then I am probably not the girl for you.......I am a huge animal lover.I am Adventurous,A very hard worker!I put 110% into everything i do! Affectionate,Honest,Considerate,Caring,Thoughtfull,giving,& Very Romantic.Some of my interests include Hiking with my dog,Movies,I am a great cook,Taking long rides on the back of a motorcycle,The Beach,Fishing,Camping,Target shooting,Jet skiing,Rollerblading,Nascar,Drawing,I am a great pool player,I love gardening.I also enjoy woodworking,(I refinish old furniture..)I love old muscle cars.Car shows,Bowling,Mini golf,Comedy Clubs,flee markets & yard sales.Rock -N- Roll is my choice of music,but i also like a lil Country..I am one of those few women who can have fun & excitement in any situation,I am that girl you can take out with your buddies and have a great time,I don't mind getting my hands dirty!I love to light some candles,and cuddle up to a great movie..I am in great shape 5'7" ***lbs.Thin,Athletic,So if i peek your interest, say hello,I am abit shy at first,and rarly send any first *** lets get to know each other,...P.S.if you are going to put me on your fav list at least say hello!I don't even know half of these guys!It is not at all what u may think.Good luck in your search.. First off i am not the type to *** forth for weeks, If we have interest lets exchange #"s..& talk on the phone one or twice(I do love to text but its not a way to get to know someone,the written word can be misunderstood and taken way out of text!!!)so i can hear your voice,We can see if there is some kind of a connection, similar interests.(Unfortunately that connection may not be there in person!; you get those little butterflies in the tummy,(been a LONG while since i felt those!)Then you plan a real first date!I like when a man takes charge and plans something nice!.lol)maybe a nice ride on the motorcycle (if you own 1)that way i can see what it feels like to hold you;)& *** the end of the nite maybe a lil kiss, I am extreamly passionate & affectionate,and need that in a man!I am abit shy at first.Everyone and every situation is different.

  • Karine

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Me: Curious...Cheeky…Self-Assured…Loves museums,Art galleries,Mad Men,Going out for breakfast,Arrested Development,Mark Rothko,and sundae’s from the Sicilian Sidewalk Cafe.You?

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