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Gary, 45

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About Me

Busy with life, but looking to find someone fun and optomistic to enjoy the chaos with.Yes I like my career , yes I have a home , like my children most days , love them always . I have three almost awesome teenage girls (actually totally awesome but they are teenage girls .....ugg another grey hair ..lol )that I have always had on my own full time. i have had a very busy schedule with work and their school and sports . Seem to live in car n hotels sometimes ...but things appear to be slowing and I find myself home alone ....so guess it really is my turn. I am looking to get out and laugh a little , looking for great conversation with someone intelligent, thoughtful, funny etc....no different than most. I ultimately am looking for a relationship with someone i cant wait to wake up with every day and say ..wow life is good ..what memory or miracle will today hold. I value a man who values a woman and her strength, a man comfortable in a suit , jeans or a tiera if necessarry for a small childs tea party. i am really not Iinterested in younger men and good or bad really do want to only date taller men. I am not looking to "hook up" although I do know that the right guy will be happy in that area cause after all it is the ultimate encounter when love n trust are at the root !!!life is a journey .....what a view!!!*note* I consider all of these a small commute and with my career i drive to all of them often. some consider this a potential long distance....but for me that is fairly local...you decide..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nam

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Im looking for someone that wants to be with me and has no need to look other places when with me someone who is honest caring and who likes to do things together...rather than apart ive been hurt one too many times and wanna find someone thats gonna make me happy

  • Maureen

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a co-dependent, needy, mentally unstable person with low self-esteem who has tons of issues and lots of drama to offer the right guy. I've been in therapy for years and although we've made some headway, my shrink says I'm fine as long as I stay on my meds and consider a lobotomy sometime in the immediate future. I sure love that special jacket they give me to wear sometimes-it's so comfy. I just wish it came in pink. And I love the goose bumps the electric shock therapy gives me! Sometimes I act out just for the jolt.I have a job that's boring-when I do work and I complain about it all the time. Can't order anything- (Darn! I really wanted those tanzanite shell earrings and that retractable ladder was pretty awesome too!) I don't even know where they'd send something I ordered-I don't even have a home. Family means little to me-they are just as dysfunctional as me and the few friends I have-have a loose moral compass like I do. They say the greatest things about me: I lie, I cheat, I'm not trustworthy or dependable and I'm boring and have no personality. I'm just a terrible friend. They say I have no integrity. I can't even spell it. They also say I am the unfunniest person they know. (Thank gosh for the meds!)I have a terrible diet, am over-weight and rarely go to the gym. I find it just takes too much time from my other hobbies like basket weaving and channel surfing.I have numerous children by many different men and I don't even know where the kids are-but there's tons of baby daddy drama and other complications to go around. I will make your life way more complicated than it needs to be and will constantly add more drama to the mix with my *** play games just when you get your bearings.I have no goals in life other than to land a man who will financially support me and he better have lots of money because my therapy is damn expensive. (The dental work I need is going to be super-expensive too!)Overall I'm a pretty good catch-depending on which personality you are talking to at the time. : )If you held out to the end, and laughed-you're probably my soulmate and we should just skip dating and go right to the happily, ever after! ; )And yes. My smartass attitude gets me into trouble all the time. : ) If you'd just come take me for a walk around the grounds of the mental hospital I'm in-that'd be great. Visiting hours are ***pm daily. ; )

  • Avelina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I have lost faith in Guys in St.Louis even the "so called nice ones,do not exists"Here has been my dates here:1.My Wife has an agenda for me next week , while having coffee.2.After dutch lunch what are those pills vitamins?.."; it must mean he needs help in more ways then one I was sitting and thinking!3.Out of nowhere..."your after my money!:" yet I was not. To my knowledge he did not have much.4.Shared the cost of a show/food/drink ..while sitting there ."I could have paid for the whole show, We COULD'VE WORKED IT OUT!" later ask for a kiss ..Not!5.Texting to another chick while on a date... later "I 'm sorry I could not help myself , I am obsessed" Funny one here asked me earlier why woman are so negative in their profiles. I left out the one I am ok friends with and two danish guys I speak ***almost everyday......Lets see can you figure out what the hell is wrong with St.Louis guys??? Please let ,me know.Maybe its Denmarks Jante law where everyone is equal in their eyes. Maybe it is because Danes treat people better as a whole or perhaps they just respect woman more across the seas.... I think the people I have met here are pretty dam pathetic.....If your not and you want to rise above the above ***let me know. No games.no lies,treat me how you want to be treated..If you want to judge me ,then I will be strait forward and judge you as well.If you have been warned. From now on I treat you guys like a piece of whatever you treat woman like..Good luck! We can decide at the time.

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