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Gary, 45

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About Me

Busy with life, but looking to find someone fun and optomistic to enjoy the chaos with.Yes I like my career , yes I have a home , like my children most days , love them always . I have three almost awesome teenage girls (actually totally awesome but they are teenage girls .....ugg another grey hair ..lol )that I have always had on my own full time. i have had a very busy schedule with work and their school and sports . Seem to live in car n hotels sometimes ...but things appear to be slowing and I find myself home alone ....so guess it really is my turn. I am looking to get out and laugh a little , looking for great conversation with someone intelligent, thoughtful, funny etc....no different than most. I ultimately am looking for a relationship with someone i cant wait to wake up with every day and say ..wow life is good ..what memory or miracle will today hold. I value a man who values a woman and her strength, a man comfortable in a suit , jeans or a tiera if necessarry for a small childs tea party. i am really not Iinterested in younger men and good or bad really do want to only date taller men. I am not looking to "hook up" although I do know that the right guy will be happy in that area cause after all it is the ultimate encounter when love n trust are at the root !!!life is a journey .....what a view!!!*note* I consider all of these a small commute and with my career i drive to all of them often. some consider this a potential long distance....but for me that is fairly local...you decide..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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