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Cathryn, 43

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About Me

I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I enjoy travel, great food and wine, sports, finance, music, & celebrating special occasions. I am confident, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. I want to meet someone who will introduce me to new things, adore (or put up with) my wacky moods and keep me in line. The man I'm hoping to meet has a laid back attitude but is active, confident and athletic enough to keep up and maybe even give me a run for my money. That kind of balance along with the positive energy that he surrounds himself with will supply us with endless laughs, adventures, and opportunities to broaden our horizons.I'm looking for a guy who likes to play but can keep it real. Not a player. A man that is intelligent, funny, handsome, patient, responsible, loyal and that makes me feel safe. I like a guy that will surprise me every now and then. A man that will support me, yet still tell me if I'm wrong and will want me to do the same for him.If this sounds like you, then send me a note. I don’t think it matters what we do on a first date as we get to know each other, so a coffee and walk would be just fine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Do you like women who are smart? Sexy? Sensitive? Sassy? Sensual? Then look no further!I have exploratory taste buds and absolutely love a decadent dessert. If you are a coffee drinker, love red wine, dark chocolate and seafood - we are off to a great start :) Basically, I work out just so I can eat. I need someone who savors good food.I am at my happiest when I am learning new things, exploring new places, meeting new people.I am very feminine and am most attracted to a metro sexual guy. I would describe my sense of style as classic yet sexy. Oh, and if you have hair I can run my fingers through - bonus!My two favorite activities are volleyball and inline skating. I also enjoy mountain biking, hiking, traveling, dancing, bowling (yes, bowling) and even people watching. Care to introduce me to some other activities? Some other things I like are: amusement parks, showing the boys on the volleyball court that you don't have to be tall to spike the ball, kissing (it's a lost art), the smell in the air right before it snows, a summer rainstorm, finding a good parking spot in the city, finishing a project, planting a garden, playing in the snow, spooning, consignment shops and flea markets, wine tasting, reading, the theater, live music (I love to dance) and costume parties (Halloween is great!). I'm looking forward to sharing my life with a man who will not only allow me to engage in my favorite activities but challenge me to join in his or want to try some of mine. I crave intellectual stimulation-great conversation is the prelude to so many other things - that and a great kiss. Commonalities should include affection, romance, respect, commitment, need for independence but the desire to spend as much time as possible together, love of food and a great cup of coffee and putting each other first - before anyone else.You should know I love animals, especially cats (please don't be allergic).Sometimes it is good to be single. But mostly I feel like there is a part of my life that is not complete. I have great friends, good health, a flexible job, a nice house, great cats and I can do pretty much whatever I want. But I would like a great guy to make memories with, share experiences with, learn from and grow old with. I refuse to settle and I am prepared to search endlessly to find that perfect man for me. When I am in a healthy committed relationship I am romantic, communicative, compromising when necessary, passionate, patient when I need to be, selfless when I am not taken for granted or being taken advantage of and always up for trying something new.Please be 5"10" or taller, be a non-smoker and have no children. I'm 5'4", ***lbs so I don't think my expectations are unrealistic when I expect to only date men in great physical shape. Distance is not an issue. If you'd like a response from me your profile must have clear, recent photos where I can actually see what you look like (wearing a baseball cap and/or sunglasses - you might as well be wearing a mask) oh and please no photos of you taking photos of yourself. Please have a valid passport- I need a man who can travel anywhere in the world - sometimes at the spur of the moment.If your profile is basically bare - please don't write me. I took the time to write enough about myself to paint you a picture of who I am and what I am looking for - please do the same. Something that allows us to get to know each other.

  • Gary

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Busy with life, but looking to find someone fun and optomistic to enjoy the chaos with.Yes I like my career , yes I have a home , like my children most days , love them always . I have three almost awesome teenage girls (actually totally awesome but they are teenage girls .....ugg another grey hair ..lol )that I have always had on my own full time. i have had a very busy schedule with work and their school and sports . Seem to live in car n hotels sometimes ...but things appear to be slowing and I find myself home alone ....so guess it really is my turn. I am looking to get out and laugh a little , looking for great conversation with someone intelligent, thoughtful, funny etc....no different than most. I ultimately am looking for a relationship with someone i cant wait to wake up with every day and say ..wow life is good ..what memory or miracle will today hold. I value a man who values a woman and her strength, a man comfortable in a suit , jeans or a tiera if necessarry for a small childs tea party. i am really not Iinterested in younger men and good or bad really do want to only date taller men. I am not looking to "hook up" although I do know that the right guy will be happy in that area cause after all it is the ultimate encounter when love n trust are at the root !!!life is a journey .....what a view!!!*note* I consider all of these a small commute and with my career i drive to all of them often. some consider this a potential long distance....but for me that is fairly local...you decide..

  • Lyssa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a traditional and classic extrovert. Enjoys maintaining social circles, entertaining, and intelligent conversation. Loves to garden and attend opera, theater, movies, and read. Travel is a passion - especially different cultures. Church and community involvement are very important to me. International finance background, include living and studying abroad. People close to me often say being around me is like a breath of fresh air - with my bubbly personality and vivaciousness. Proper manners and etiquette matter to me. Lunch or coffee to see if we click.

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