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Cathryn, 43

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About Me

I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I enjoy travel, great food and wine, sports, finance, music, & celebrating special occasions. I am confident, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. I want to meet someone who will introduce me to new things, adore (or put up with) my wacky moods and keep me in line. The man I'm hoping to meet has a laid back attitude but is active, confident and athletic enough to keep up and maybe even give me a run for my money. That kind of balance along with the positive energy that he surrounds himself with will supply us with endless laughs, adventures, and opportunities to broaden our horizons.I'm looking for a guy who likes to play but can keep it real. Not a player. A man that is intelligent, funny, handsome, patient, responsible, loyal and that makes me feel safe. I like a guy that will surprise me every now and then. A man that will support me, yet still tell me if I'm wrong and will want me to do the same for him.If this sounds like you, then send me a note. I don’t think it matters what we do on a first date as we get to know each other, so a coffee and walk would be just fine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lanora

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Good hearted, responsible, self sufficient, Ephesians woman that enjoys deep conversations, comedy, sports spectating (football, basketball, boxing, MMA, soccer, etc.) and loves to fish for her supper. Yes, I can bring it home and "fry it up in a pan"! LOL! I'm an identical twin but we couldn't be more opposite in life. I am of the artistic nature and love to paint and create art out of almost anything. Traveling is a wonderful hobby and I go when I can.I like the "different kinda guy". I love dark skin. (My preference). Charming in his own unique way. A man that knows how to be a man, responsible, adventurous and realizes that there are some of us special ladies out there that are not gold diggers or always a damsel in distress. I wish everyone the very best in your search. A first date is all about expectations. You are expecting what "what you see is what you get" from photos posted. Men are visual, without a doubt. That's normal. I expect good conversation, a little ol' school charm and my heart to flutter (just a bit). A first real date should (in my opinion) be after a first initial meeting (a glass of wine or cup of coffee) to determine if there should be a first date. Do you agree?

  • Maureen

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a co-dependent, needy, mentally unstable person with low self-esteem who has tons of issues and lots of drama to offer the right guy. I've been in therapy for years and although we've made some headway, my shrink says I'm fine as long as I stay on my meds and consider a lobotomy sometime in the immediate future. I sure love that special jacket they give me to wear sometimes-it's so comfy. I just wish it came in pink. And I love the goose bumps the electric shock therapy gives me! Sometimes I act out just for the jolt.I have a job that's boring-when I do work and I complain about it all the time. Can't order anything- (Darn! I really wanted those tanzanite shell earrings and that retractable ladder was pretty awesome too!) I don't even know where they'd send something I ordered-I don't even have a home. Family means little to me-they are just as dysfunctional as me and the few friends I have-have a loose moral compass like I do. They say the greatest things about me: I lie, I cheat, I'm not trustworthy or dependable and I'm boring and have no personality. I'm just a terrible friend. They say I have no integrity. I can't even spell it. They also say I am the unfunniest person they know. (Thank gosh for the meds!)I have a terrible diet, am over-weight and rarely go to the gym. I find it just takes too much time from my other hobbies like basket weaving and channel surfing.I have numerous children by many different men and I don't even know where the kids are-but there's tons of baby daddy drama and other complications to go around. I will make your life way more complicated than it needs to be and will constantly add more drama to the mix with my *** play games just when you get your bearings.I have no goals in life other than to land a man who will financially support me and he better have lots of money because my therapy is damn expensive. (The dental work I need is going to be super-expensive too!)Overall I'm a pretty good catch-depending on which personality you are talking to at the time. : )If you held out to the end, and laughed-you're probably my soulmate and we should just skip dating and go right to the happily, ever after! ; )And yes. My smartass attitude gets me into trouble all the time. : ) If you'd just come take me for a walk around the grounds of the mental hospital I'm in-that'd be great. Visiting hours are ***pm daily. ; )

  • Dolanna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    OK - Time for another update... ***Hi There! I'm Lisa! I'm reentering the dating world... Again!.. haha!! My pictures are all kinda recent! I added a couple new ones today, the rest are May ***I'm sorry the kids are in all of them, but that's the way it goes when you're a mom! I'm a mom above and beyond all else. Three great boys, 22, 13 and 9, who depend on me to be there for them... After that, I'm a woman... cute, fun, sexy, smart, upbeat, optimistic, energetic, and independent. I've been divorced for almost 10 years... Can you say FREEDOM!?! :-) I've dated off and on over the divorced years, but I really just prefer to be in a monogamous relationship with someone that I enjoy spending time with (and hopefully they enjoy me too!!) I'm on Plenty of Fish because I just don't seem to meet enough people in real life that cause that 'SPARK!!' And the initial SPARK is ever so important!! I love kids and have such a kid-friendly lifestyle, I expect that the next man I get involved with will have kids of his own and I hope that we'd eventually have the 'blended family' relationship. I think that, as long as you surround yourself with good people, the more people that love your kids, the better!Career wise - I'm a freelance bookkeeper/accountant/mortgage processor. That makes my time really flexible! I can meet for a weekday lunch, or an afternoon rendezvous, that just means I'll have to burn the midnight oil later to make up for it. I'm looking to meet someone who is comfortable in their own skin, Comfortable in their career, comfortable in their finances, and who can be comfortable in a new relationship. I'm an open book and I really hope for the same in a relationship. I need to be able to trust and be trusted, to communicate, to feel like we're 'on the same page' and understanding of each others wants and needs. Physically Fit is also important to me! Willingness, Ability and Desire to get out and PLAY are important to me! I like to be out Boating or Diving, Hiking or Biking, Skiing or Swimming, Sunrises and Sunsets, Theme Parks and State Parks, Travelling or Exploring!.. I'd love someone, besides my kiddos, to share it all with! I'm not a non-stop hyper spaz, though! A nice rainy day, inside on the couch watching fave movies on Netflix or chillin by a fire on a cold evening are both pretty cool, too!Basically, I feel like I'm NORMAL! Not Boring, Not Crazy, Not Lame, No Drama... Just NORMAL - Looking for NORMAL. I just want to be loved and appreciated. And I just want to love and appreciate the right man... And hopefully, share the rest of my life with him... Now, with all that said... I just gotta find him!!XO XO ~ LisaOld Profile - Still Valid - Just added alot more above... Lookin to have some FUN! Life is short - Meet new people - Open your heart and see what comes in... That's my new philosophy! I'm 41 years old, physically fit, with an upbeat attitude. I've been divorced for several years... I put a lot of time into my kids, 3 boys, 19,11 and 7. They're getting bigger and more independent now, so I feel like I can have a little fun of my own. I'm hoping for a relationship that starts from friendship, fun, honesty and trust and grows into something wonderful. No hurry, no pressure. I'd like to take my time, find the right guy, and enjoy myself along the way. First MEET should be simple, a coffee or lunch, maybe a quick casual dinner... Just enough to see if there's any 'SPARK!'And if you make it to a first DATE it should be fun, Special, MEMORABLE! Cause you never know, It could be your LAST 'first' DATE!!

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