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Jettie, 41

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About Me

(Pics - My hair switches btw blonde and brown)I will try keep this short and sweet... I am 41, I have a 21yr old son, great job, great friends... Can be active or lazy (depending on the day - nothing like a good movie on the couch on a rainy day!).. Love a great glass of wine with a delicious steak or a beer & nachos! Hard to really define "who I am" - I like to keep things different when I can.. I do not like too much redundancy.. And refuse to settle - I want to have fun with the person I am with. I think at this age, we know what we want from someone so why not get it? Overall, have done pretty good for myself - but as stated in my headline, change is constant - well, except for one thing which is me being single.. So, time to change that now at this stage in my life :) I am looking for someone FUNNY with a great sense of humor!!.. I truly think someone is most attractive based on their personality.. I don't like narcissistic people with ***naked selfy photos! Altho amusing - not my thing! I am not looking just to hook up so don't think you will get laid after a few****ails! BUT, I am certainly open to having fun dating with no pressure on a commitment too soon.. I think that type of stuff will just happen with out setting any expectations.. OK.. Not too short but, that will sum it up for now.. A lot more to know about me so if you are interested in what I have said so far, I look forward to hearing from you! Meet for a drink or two.. If we have a connection, then who knows what will happen from there..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maureen

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a co-dependent, needy, mentally unstable person with low self-esteem who has tons of issues and lots of drama to offer the right guy. I've been in therapy for years and although we've made some headway, my shrink says I'm fine as long as I stay on my meds and consider a lobotomy sometime in the immediate future. I sure love that special jacket they give me to wear sometimes-it's so comfy. I just wish it came in pink. And I love the goose bumps the electric shock therapy gives me! Sometimes I act out just for the jolt.I have a job that's boring-when I do work and I complain about it all the time. Can't order anything- (Darn! I really wanted those tanzanite shell earrings and that retractable ladder was pretty awesome too!) I don't even know where they'd send something I ordered-I don't even have a home. Family means little to me-they are just as dysfunctional as me and the few friends I have-have a loose moral compass like I do. They say the greatest things about me: I lie, I cheat, I'm not trustworthy or dependable and I'm boring and have no personality. I'm just a terrible friend. They say I have no integrity. I can't even spell it. They also say I am the unfunniest person they know. (Thank gosh for the meds!)I have a terrible diet, am over-weight and rarely go to the gym. I find it just takes too much time from my other hobbies like basket weaving and channel surfing.I have numerous children by many different men and I don't even know where the kids are-but there's tons of baby daddy drama and other complications to go around. I will make your life way more complicated than it needs to be and will constantly add more drama to the mix with my *** play games just when you get your bearings.I have no goals in life other than to land a man who will financially support me and he better have lots of money because my therapy is damn expensive. (The dental work I need is going to be super-expensive too!)Overall I'm a pretty good catch-depending on which personality you are talking to at the time. : )If you held out to the end, and laughed-you're probably my soulmate and we should just skip dating and go right to the happily, ever after! ; )And yes. My smartass attitude gets me into trouble all the time. : ) If you'd just come take me for a walk around the grounds of the mental hospital I'm in-that'd be great. Visiting hours are ***pm daily. ; )

  • Richendra

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi. I have a lot to offer in my head and my heart. But, we all know its kind of about the pictures and look, for the most part. At least at first. :) Sooo, if I've made it that far... Here is a look at me in a paragraph...For the short version guys:I'm super fun, laid back, support myself, and rarely bit*h. Lol. I have always had a boyfriend/husband that his friends would say..."ya, bring her out with us" even when they didn't want their own gf/wife to come out. (That's probably all the short version guys need. Lol) Long version guys: lol I am easy going. I laugh a lot at myself or you (but not meanly). I have a bit of sarcastic playfulness and can dish it out just as well as taking it. I communicate very well. I don't think I can be upset with someone unless I have expressed previously that it bothers me. I don't like to play detective with feelings and I won't make you either. I'm super honest and have never cheated. I think a man kissing the back of my neck is more valuable then the necklace he wants to put around it..... I will accept both tho, I'm not stupid. Lol. ;). I work in an open heart ICU, do some legal nurse consulting, have a side photography business and am currently pursuing my nurse practitioner degree. Soooo..... I'm very independent and motivated. But... I'm not over the top here. I still love to be taken care of and my hair played with. Lol. I have plenty of time and space to make room for what I want to fit on my plate. I just like to keep my plate full. :) I am currently teaching my son on how a women should be treated just as much as I am teaching my daughter on how a man should be treated.... thats equally a two way street. I can have just as much fun going out as I can staying in, it's about who you're with, not what you're doing. I like trying new things and love the app where you can just shake your phone and it picks a new place to try. I am also able to put my phone away and love a guy that can for a little bit too. Just looking for an honest, nice ,affectionate ,good hearted man. If you have a buddy from highschool/college that you still talk to or hang out with, that is a huge bonus to me. It means you know how to take care of a friendship..... Which is basically the foundation of what we are all looking for. :)I am a size 14 with a DDD chest. I am not petite nor could I ever be with this chest.lol. That being said I am proportionate and do not have anything to hide. :) Thanks for taking the time to read about me. If you think we are a fit, message me. Have a great day! Surprise me

  • Cathryn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I enjoy travel, great food and wine, sports, finance, music, & celebrating special occasions. I am confident, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. I want to meet someone who will introduce me to new things, adore (or put up with) my wacky moods and keep me in line. The man I'm hoping to meet has a laid back attitude but is active, confident and athletic enough to keep up and maybe even give me a run for my money. That kind of balance along with the positive energy that he surrounds himself with will supply us with endless laughs, adventures, and opportunities to broaden our horizons.I'm looking for a guy who likes to play but can keep it real. Not a player. A man that is intelligent, funny, handsome, patient, responsible, loyal and that makes me feel safe. I like a guy that will surprise me every now and then. A man that will support me, yet still tell me if I'm wrong and will want me to do the same for him.If this sounds like you, then send me a note. I don’t think it matters what we do on a first date as we get to know each other, so a coffee and walk would be just fine.

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