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Shebah, 41

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About Me

I am a happy person with three great kids, (my hearts). Divorced for several years and have had a relationship since. I get along well with my exes and have very little remorse. I enjoy being able to look at myself in the mirror and be proud that I try to be better every day at every role I hold in life. Sooo not perfect and not trying, just trying to be the best me and find someone that fits. To describe me..Easy going at home, funny and laid back. At work am very professional.I care about how I look, but not obsessed. I wear makeup on dates, but not afraid to go to the store without any. I am comfortable in my own skin and do not need to inform anyone of my achievements. Humbleness is a quality I find very attractive. I do not care how much money you make, as long as you pay your bills and take care of your kids if there are any involved. When a man *** and calls me "babe" or "princess" it is a turn off for me. I do not date anyone in their sixties or twenties. I am a romantic at heart and love small, kind gestures. (opening doors, etc..) Honesty is huge..I am so easy to figure out because I don't play games. If I need something from my partner, I tell them and do not make them guess. In a relationship I tend to prefer the men take the lead, but will make plans at drop of a hat. I am very old fashioned gal that was raised by strict Catholics. Was a little wild child in hight school( bless my parents heart's). but got serious during higher education. I have a great family and am very close with them, but are scattered throughout the states, save for a sister nearby. God is a very important part of my life and I go to church weekly. Anyone I dated I would need them to have a relationship with Him as well or we would never be a match. He has helped me through all my hardships and I am so in awe of Him. If you are not a Christian I do not think it could work out with you, but wish everyone luck in their search for that special person they seek. The pic in the black dress is 8 years old from a sorority reunion..others very recent.( know that pretending how u look is an issue for both genders)! Anything romantic, Sporting event, BBQ, Coffee and Conversation, truly, am easy to get along with and enjoy just about everything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jettie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    (Pics - My hair switches btw blonde and brown)I will try keep this short and sweet... I am 41, I have a 21yr old son, great job, great friends... Can be active or lazy (depending on the day - nothing like a good movie on the couch on a rainy day!).. Love a great glass of wine with a delicious steak or a beer & nachos! Hard to really define "who I am" - I like to keep things different when I can.. I do not like too much redundancy.. And refuse to settle - I want to have fun with the person I am with. I think at this age, we know what we want from someone so why not get it? Overall, have done pretty good for myself - but as stated in my headline, change is constant - well, except for one thing which is me being single.. So, time to change that now at this stage in my life :) I am looking for someone FUNNY with a great sense of humor!!.. I truly think someone is most attractive based on their personality.. I don't like narcissistic people with ***naked selfy photos! Altho amusing - not my thing! I am not looking just to hook up so don't think you will get laid after a few****ails! BUT, I am certainly open to having fun dating with no pressure on a commitment too soon.. I think that type of stuff will just happen with out setting any expectations.. OK.. Not too short but, that will sum it up for now.. A lot more to know about me so if you are interested in what I have said so far, I look forward to hearing from you! Meet for a drink or two.. If we have a connection, then who knows what will happen from there..

  • Armida

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Have made this change because i realized life is too short to wait for someone to appreciate you. Looking to meet a nice man that is looking for something deeper and more meaningful. And worth the effort! I love music, dancing, karaoke, car shows, and much more . A stimulating conversation is important. And having things in common is the foundation of a good relationship. I have experienced being in an unequally yoked relationship and choose not to go down that path again. Those of you that have made it this far keep in mind I am a very open honest person and am looking for the same. I don't mean to be rude but if you are not sure how tall you are get out the measuring tape please because I will notice and starting off by lying to me about even something small like this is still starting off on the wrong foot. Please respect me enough to understand the minute we meet I will know you lied to me. A first date could be anywhere as long as the conversation is great and there is a chemistry between us that is indescribable!

  • Lucretia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love to spend time with my kids they are first in my life. I am a hard worker. I do work a lot of hours, but when I am not doing that I like to go to the movies or out to dinner. I also like to stay at home and relax and watch a good movie. I am a clean freak so my house is very clean. I enjoy having fun and don't mind having a few drinks here and there, but don't like to go out to bars that often. I like all kinds of music. My kids are 14,16, and 17. They are very good kids. They help me out a lot. For my first date I would like to meet for dinner and then maybe go to the movies. I don't want to meet at a bar or anything like that.

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