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Shebah, 41

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About Me

I am a happy person with three great kids, (my hearts). Divorced for several years and have had a relationship since. I get along well with my exes and have very little remorse. I enjoy being able to look at myself in the mirror and be proud that I try to be better every day at every role I hold in life. Sooo not perfect and not trying, just trying to be the best me and find someone that fits. To describe me..Easy going at home, funny and laid back. At work am very professional.I care about how I look, but not obsessed. I wear makeup on dates, but not afraid to go to the store without any. I am comfortable in my own skin and do not need to inform anyone of my achievements. Humbleness is a quality I find very attractive. I do not care how much money you make, as long as you pay your bills and take care of your kids if there are any involved. When a man *** and calls me "babe" or "princess" it is a turn off for me. I do not date anyone in their sixties or twenties. I am a romantic at heart and love small, kind gestures. (opening doors, etc..) Honesty is huge..I am so easy to figure out because I don't play games. If I need something from my partner, I tell them and do not make them guess. In a relationship I tend to prefer the men take the lead, but will make plans at drop of a hat. I am very old fashioned gal that was raised by strict Catholics. Was a little wild child in hight school( bless my parents heart's). but got serious during higher education. I have a great family and am very close with them, but are scattered throughout the states, save for a sister nearby. God is a very important part of my life and I go to church weekly. Anyone I dated I would need them to have a relationship with Him as well or we would never be a match. He has helped me through all my hardships and I am so in awe of Him. If you are not a Christian I do not think it could work out with you, but wish everyone luck in their search for that special person they seek. The pic in the black dress is 8 years old from a sorority reunion..others very recent.( know that pretending how u look is an issue for both genders)! Anything romantic, Sporting event, BBQ, Coffee and Conversation, truly, am easy to get along with and enjoy just about everything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maureen

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a co-dependent, needy, mentally unstable person with low self-esteem who has tons of issues and lots of drama to offer the right guy. I've been in therapy for years and although we've made some headway, my shrink says I'm fine as long as I stay on my meds and consider a lobotomy sometime in the immediate future. I sure love that special jacket they give me to wear sometimes-it's so comfy. I just wish it came in pink. And I love the goose bumps the electric shock therapy gives me! Sometimes I act out just for the jolt.I have a job that's boring-when I do work and I complain about it all the time. Can't order anything- (Darn! I really wanted those tanzanite shell earrings and that retractable ladder was pretty awesome too!) I don't even know where they'd send something I ordered-I don't even have a home. Family means little to me-they are just as dysfunctional as me and the few friends I have-have a loose moral compass like I do. They say the greatest things about me: I lie, I cheat, I'm not trustworthy or dependable and I'm boring and have no personality. I'm just a terrible friend. They say I have no integrity. I can't even spell it. They also say I am the unfunniest person they know. (Thank gosh for the meds!)I have a terrible diet, am over-weight and rarely go to the gym. I find it just takes too much time from my other hobbies like basket weaving and channel surfing.I have numerous children by many different men and I don't even know where the kids are-but there's tons of baby daddy drama and other complications to go around. I will make your life way more complicated than it needs to be and will constantly add more drama to the mix with my *** play games just when you get your bearings.I have no goals in life other than to land a man who will financially support me and he better have lots of money because my therapy is damn expensive. (The dental work I need is going to be super-expensive too!)Overall I'm a pretty good catch-depending on which personality you are talking to at the time. : )If you held out to the end, and laughed-you're probably my soulmate and we should just skip dating and go right to the happily, ever after! ; )And yes. My smartass attitude gets me into trouble all the time. : ) If you'd just come take me for a walk around the grounds of the mental hospital I'm in-that'd be great. Visiting hours are ***pm daily. ; )

  • Imani

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi there ..... Back on here again... What am I looking for?? Well honesty, fun, commitment (scared yet :) hard working and a great smile... There is no such thing as perfection I'm far from it and so are you I imagine but we could be perfectly imperfect together...:) isn't that a song line?? No movies

  • Dodie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I like going on long trips

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