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Shebah, 41

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About Me

I am a happy person with three great kids, (my hearts). Divorced for several years and have had a relationship since. I get along well with my exes and have very little remorse. I enjoy being able to look at myself in the mirror and be proud that I try to be better every day at every role I hold in life. Sooo not perfect and not trying, just trying to be the best me and find someone that fits. To describe me..Easy going at home, funny and laid back. At work am very professional.I care about how I look, but not obsessed. I wear makeup on dates, but not afraid to go to the store without any. I am comfortable in my own skin and do not need to inform anyone of my achievements. Humbleness is a quality I find very attractive. I do not care how much money you make, as long as you pay your bills and take care of your kids if there are any involved. When a man *** and calls me "babe" or "princess" it is a turn off for me. I do not date anyone in their sixties or twenties. I am a romantic at heart and love small, kind gestures. (opening doors, etc..) Honesty is huge..I am so easy to figure out because I don't play games. If I need something from my partner, I tell them and do not make them guess. In a relationship I tend to prefer the men take the lead, but will make plans at drop of a hat. I am very old fashioned gal that was raised by strict Catholics. Was a little wild child in hight school( bless my parents heart's). but got serious during higher education. I have a great family and am very close with them, but are scattered throughout the states, save for a sister nearby. God is a very important part of my life and I go to church weekly. Anyone I dated I would need them to have a relationship with Him as well or we would never be a match. He has helped me through all my hardships and I am so in awe of Him. If you are not a Christian I do not think it could work out with you, but wish everyone luck in their search for that special person they seek. The pic in the black dress is 8 years old from a sorority reunion..others very recent.( know that pretending how u look is an issue for both genders)! Anything romantic, Sporting event, BBQ, Coffee and Conversation, truly, am easy to get along with and enjoy just about everything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Andri

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My close friends describe me as footloose and fancy free,fun, quick witted, very outgoing, great personality, a total goof ball at times. Im a sports junkie, love to scuba dive, any and all water sports. I love golf watching and playing it. I was in a long term relationship for quite awhile before a big heart break. Im not bitter or jaded at all and I know my soulmate is out there for me somewhere. I have been divorced since 04. I have alot to offer that certain someone. I enjoy the finer things in life and the not so finer things in life. I tend to spoil the one I'm with! Im financially secure, have a great job, great credit, I own my own home and im very well traveled throughout the U.S. and Europe.I enjoy being a great mom to my daughter and my furry kids aswell they are my everything. I believe in family values.Being a second generation German, Im a fantastic cook and Im great at nurturing those I love, and being a great companion, lover, best friend to that special man. Im passionate, compassionate, Im confident and very comfortable in my own skin. I have a heart of gold, and very affectionate. Im not desperate for a date Im not going to settle for less, and Im far from being lonely....all kinds....from Van Halen, to Frank Sinatra. Even Hip Hop,..(I have to keep up with my daughters kind of music).If you want to know anything more just ask. Im not a liar. Im open and honest. Best of luck **Be kind and gentle to animals they are gods creatures**!! Surprise me!!!!!

  • Fae

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I work a lot, looking for a distraction. I like to travel, anywhere with water is good with me, and I have a small addiction to penny slot machines. I feel like I've become a bit boring these days, just looking for someone fun that has a great sense of humor.

  • Elaina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Life is good and I'm looking to share it with somebody. Are you that guy? Are you:--> Creative? --> Bright?--> Fun?I'm creative, have a wicked and somewhat warped sense of humour, get along with most everyone (but little tolerance for fakes), have managed to keep maybe 90% of my plants alive and a roof over my head. Like so many profiles must say, family is important to me and I am very loyal to a diverse group of friends. Got the travel bug - need a cure! Always dreaming of the next trip, big or small. Love adventures, too. ASIDES: 1. I don't really use the Meet Me feature. Pop me a message *** I have a great picture of me as a mermaid, but it seems the owner of meetville doesn't like it, even as a non-main picture. Maybe if we hit it off, I'll show ya'.3. Go ahead a post your bathroom mirror selfies...but if your mirror is streaked and dirty, um...LOL LOL Let's do something fun - have a good time. Yeah, yeah....Meeting for a no-pressure coffee is OK, too. :)

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