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Aleta, 41

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About Me

Looking for my perfect match! That was my initial line a few weeks ago until someone played me really good. So with that said I will tell it like it is and willing to try this site again. If your here visiting my profile and are not wanting to be honest from the beginning and want to base it on lies.... MOVE ON I'm not interested in playing games. Tired of that!!! I'm dedicated and loyal and give it my all. Like previously mentioned honesty is a must for me. Don't tell me what you think most women are wanting to hear. If you say it mean it. I'm a smart cookie, will figure it out sooner or later and will call you out on it!I'm usually easy going and love to laugh and look for the same in my man. I'm very adventurous and love to try most things once! I'm looking for my best friend who also wants to jump out of a plane with me, doesn't mind getting a tattoo together or at least stand by when I do. But I also enjoy the very simple things life also has to offer, such as picking strawberries and then going home and making jam together. I love being silly and am very often, and hope my man can just look at me and say "that's my girl". I'm normally the first to say yes when a friend calls for help and I'm an excellent listener.... but can also chat your ear off too! I want him to ask me about my day and care. Family is important to me, so is communication, trust and passion. I'm a very touchy and love to cuddle... lots. I'm not looking for a sex partner and want to base my relationship on that. But I do promise you this, when the time comes it will be beautiful, passionate and you will not regret waiting and if your wondering yes I do love it! I can be very shy until we get to know each other better, as my guard is up very high. I hate fighting and drama, so please leave it at the door or don't bother messaging. But I do believe in giving and getting answers if something is wrong and to the point. I'm a genuine girl who takes care of herself and is looking for her perfect match and build an amazing life together. I Love to travel short and far distances. I'm very spontaneous with last minute weekend trips and love to surprise my man. So be ready for that. I'm not afraid of hard work and getting my hands dirty. I choose to have a man, I don't need one. If you can respect that, send me a message :) Yes I can be a little intimidating at times as I can be a little direct and I'm very independent, but once you've won my heart I'm the most loyal and loving person you will ever meet. I would love someone who can take the reigns make me feel safe and take care of me as I will do the same in return. P.S. Please note my age.... and NO I do not want anymore children. I do have one boy who is my life. He is part of the deal or don't bother. If you do have children of your own, I welcome them. :) I also have a few tattoo's and might get a few more, they are all very beautiful and discreet. I don't like smokers so would prefer someone who doesn't. Drinking socially I'm in but if you're a heavy drinker don't even bother.I have more pics available! :) Being opened to anything, and spending time together so we can get to know each other a little better.On our second date.... maybe we can jump out of a plane or get our first tattoo together! :) lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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