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Ileen, 42
United States, Pennsylvania, Gettysburg

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About Me

I would say I'm pretty laid back and like to laugh alot, so personality and a sense of humor is huge for me. Obviously, chemistry is a must, and I feel it's either there or it's not. I love animals, especially dogs, and I grew up riding horses, so animal lovers are a definite plus.I love to workout often and stay in shape. I try to live as healthy as I can, not to say I don't enjoy a glass of wine or an occasional "cheat" day of food. I am extremely close with my family and enjoy spending time with them often. I do enjoy watching T.V. and love seeing movies as well. While I'm very comfortable on my own, I would like to find someone that is right for me and makes me feel like I can always be myself or aspire to be better! Really not interested in dating just to date, but rather finding that person that is the perfect fit for me, where we compliment each other, and it just works naturally. Sure, everyone has had relationships, good and bad, but I feel it's all about how you see the next step of your journey going, and I am always thinking anything is possible! I would have to say that first, meeting for coffee or a drink to see if there is any chemistry, is a good idea! Once it's established that there's a mutual spark, I think a great first date is a nice dinner, then maybe a walk (weather permitting, we do live in Wi....LOL..), just spending time talking and hanging out together, getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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