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Reilly, 43
United States, Pennsylvania, Gettysburg

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About Me

If I say, "progressive feminist with a penchant for healthy eating" and you don't immediately think of a butch third baseman on an over 40 women's league, we could probably have drinks.I'm not going to tell you that I like sports and that I'm totally cool spending hours watching them because that would be disingenous. I do bike, ski, hike, and run, and probably could kick some serious ass playing dodgeball, but I'm going to be honest, I suck at laser tag. Apparently, my desire to eat clean doesn't appeal to their middle school sensibilities. That said, when they are in college, the FIRST thing they will miss is their mother's cooking. Plural. As in twins. I'm very efficient. And of course they are fantastic, brilliant, thoughtful, and killer athletes, but let's keep it real, they can also be complete ***holes (I did mention that they are 12, right?). Gratefully, I have one of those jobs that when people meet me at a dinner party and find out what I do, they never leave me alone. Ultimately, I live most days in a state of gratitude, I surround myself with people who make me laugh, think or both, and I accept that my life is a work in progress. As for you, if you could be a tad smarter than me, equally as funny, and show some signs of evolution in mind, body and soul, I think we might have something worth pursuing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish Portuguese South American Spanish
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  • Dalene from Gettysburg | Woman | 43 years old | Scorpio
    Dalene

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    So, like many of us, I have left and returned to this site a number of times.I can't say with any authority that I think this time might be different or yield different results, but there is a very hesitant optimist somewhere in my head that says it might be worth the chance.I am always drawn to much more elaborate and revealing profiles that really show some effort and an attempt to present oneself in a more complete way. But, that's me; and I have not found that most people care to take the time to really read these; so this round, I am going to give the seriously abridged version.I am a geeky, intelligent, well-read, well-traveled, devoted Mom of one, who loves music (singing, flute, harp, bass, didgeridoo, Irish whistle), reading (my Kindle goes everywhere with me), environmentalist, deeply fluent in sarcasm, open-minded, gaming (Horde only ;), writing, so Irish I burn in the moonlight, red-haired, politically involved, non red meat eating, volunteering, passionate, loyal, loving and devoted and very affectionate woman who isn't looking to be "completed."Oh; and for the record, being honest, I had selected the dreaded "BBW" as my body type. I felt compelled to downgrade it, however, as I am not one of those woman who *thinks* "Big is Beautiful." I couldn't disagree more. But, I selected it because I will not misrepresent myself to anyone. That being said, my body is changing every day: Stronger, leaner, healthier. I have drastically changed my way of eating, do strength training, intense cardio and intend to be at my ideal weight aka "smoking hot" (yes, you can quote me), within a year. So, if you have an issue with my "current" size; no harm, no foul and I understand. IF however, you see the woman inside and are interested in seeing her get healthier and hotter every day, then by all means, say hello. :) A really low-pressure meeting to visit, talk and see if that elusive spark is there.

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  • Hillary from Gettysburg | Woman | 43 years old | Pisces
    Hillary

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I want to meet someone, and I want to want to share everything with him. Trust him with all of me. Know each other better than anyone else. This will take time. Are u willing to take the time? f this. we meet and there's either a connection or there isn't. message me if u want to know more. I'm just me, straight up, but me...If in all of your pictures u are wearing sunglasses and I cant see your eyes, post another or please be prepared to send one without sunglasses.iI currently do not have a car. I am not looking for friends with benefits or a man to take care of me. last year. I miss having friends to simply hang out with, do things together. Aren't people friends anymore?Please don't message me for sex.If, however we meet & we click, I'm not opposed to checking that out.

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  • Alethea from Gettysburg | Woman | 43 years old | Aries
    Alethea

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I’m not that conceited. It’s seen daily through humility, patience, perseverance. I love life and I work every day to be a better human. Search for awesome people to love and to be loved by.

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