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Arlinda, 45

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About Me

I am independent & happy with my life. I hope to find my mate who must be indepenent as well. There must be physical attraction, chemistry, someone I get along with and have common interests & goals, someone to grow old & travel with. Someone to be my best friend. I moved to St Augustine for a job in ***with my son, now 18. Been divorced for 16 yrs. I believe in and love God, for HE has really blessed me with my life and I have so much to be thankful for. I am a hard rock/metal fan and like to catch live shows when I can.. I enjoy supporting local Jax rock bands, and I occasionally get on stage to sing. Not into the country/ cowboy thing whatsoever.I have my interests but definitely open to trying new or different things! Show me Your world. :) I like to go to the gym or walk the beach a few times per week. I enjoy camping. Beach sunrises are nice to share with someone. I would love to someday tour the castles of Europe.If you write me you should have some VISIBLE photos...not ones from a distance or sunglasses that hide half your face. If I can't clearly tell what you look like, I will not respond. Thanks!***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***Account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or Whom May Be Suffering From It Meeting in a public place for coffee or drinks. A short first meeting would be best. Then if there is chemistry a real date can follow...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adella

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi! I have two teenage kids (one still at home and one in the Army), a good career and great friends. I own a big goofy dog who behaves badly and a b*tchy cat that hates us all. I think about the times in my life that I've felt completely connected and in love and I miss it. There's something comforting about knowing someone has your back and I miss having someone to come home to. Plus, I need someone to run the grill and lift heavy sh*t. I'd prefer to date someone who lives fairly close. And while we're on the subject of what I prefer.... I'm not interested in black men and usually date younger guys. And without getting into any debates, I am not ***friendly. To each his own, but I don't want it in my life. I'm pretty much out of the party scene these days. I still enjoy catching local music or going out for a few drinks, but it's doubtful you're going to find me crawling in at 6 am anymore. I got it out of my system and am content only reliving it through "remember that time we..." stories. I'm realistic about relationships and don't expect the elusive "knight in shining armor" to come sweep me off of my feet. Who wants to be kidnapped by a guy clad in metal anyway? I keep a loaded .38 in the house to prevent things like that from happening. I'm looking for a normal guy for a lasting partnership based on mutual attraction, honesty and support of each other. God willing, we're all going to get old, wrinkly and start wearing pants with elastic waistbands. I'm hoping that the one I'm with by that point can still make me laugh so hard that I wet my Depends a little. One last thing... I recently got braces and have a long way to go, so if this bothers you, check back in early ***. Since everyone seems to be off walking the beach for their first date, the restaurants around here should be pretty empty. Let's grab a burger and a beer, maybe some nachos and a margarita. See how easy that was?

  • Avril

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Life won't Wait!! I'm 45, I have 2 wonderful boys, love animals and most music. Hanging out with family and friends, spending time on the coast, watching a good movie, cooking!! Lunch or dinner or maybe just a cup of coffee to get to know each other...

  • Voncile

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have tried this site before so to you who are still here, Hello ;)I could say i am divorced as that as the truth, but after almost 15 years of being divorced, I'd likely now say I am single, don't you think?I sure hoped by now I would have found the love of my life that understands what the word committment means, but I haven't so I am still looking and hopefully I will meet you.I listen well, have a quirky sense of humor, can find the good in almost anyone, happy for others' accomplishments, enjoy diversity, like trying new things, etc.I own my own home, worked myself to the bone the last year to save for it, so I am happy to have something of my own again. I am self-employed.I am honest to the core, but I promise to always be considerate and not hurt your feelings. I live by a strong set of morals and looking for the same or pretty close to the same in a person. I won't like it if you are cheating others in any kind of way, it always has a way of showing me whats really going on. With that said, I am not here to fix your ways, I am looking for someone similar to me & unique in his own way.My daughter is 17, my son is 20. Only my daughter lives with me. I enjoy biking/long walks/sun bathing/flowers-gardening etc. I can enjoy boiled crawfish/crabs/shrimp/tuna pretty much any day :)I am educated, have done many things in life and enjoy diversity. I guess you could say i get bored at jobs so I look to do new things that I can learn. The mundane is just not for me. Again I am diverse, enjoy coffee, cappuchinno, movies, a nice restaurant, the theatre, casino, etc. I try to avoid smokey environments, it makes me sick, so for you that are smokers, pls. understand its not you, its my nose, lol. I try not to hang around smokers as I don't want to change you, I am looking to enjoy your company. So I hope we all find those special people to make our lives as happy as could be.

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