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United States, Pennsylvania, Gettysburg

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About Me

So, like many of us, I have left and returned to this site a number of times.I can't say with any authority that I think this time might be different or yield different results, but there is a very hesitant optimist somewhere in my head that says it might be worth the chance.I am always drawn to much more elaborate and revealing profiles that really show some effort and an attempt to present oneself in a more complete way. But, that's me; and I have not found that most people care to take the time to really read these; so this round, I am going to give the seriously abridged version.I am a geeky, intelligent, well-read, well-traveled, devoted Mom of one, who loves music (singing, flute, harp, bass, didgeridoo, Irish whistle), reading (my Kindle goes everywhere with me), environmentalist, deeply fluent in sarcasm, open-minded, gaming (Horde only ;), writing, so Irish I burn in the moonlight, red-haired, politically involved, non red meat eating, volunteering, passionate, loyal, loving and devoted and very affectionate woman who isn't looking to be "completed."Oh; and for the record, being honest, I had selected the dreaded "BBW" as my body type. I felt compelled to downgrade it, however, as I am not one of those woman who *thinks* "Big is Beautiful." I couldn't disagree more. But, I selected it because I will not misrepresent myself to anyone. That being said, my body is changing every day: Stronger, leaner, healthier. I have drastically changed my way of eating, do strength training, intense cardio and intend to be at my ideal weight aka "smoking hot" (yes, you can quote me), within a year. So, if you have an issue with my "current" size; no harm, no foul and I understand. IF however, you see the woman inside and are interested in seeing her get healthier and hotter every day, then by all means, say hello. :) A really low-pressure meeting to visit, talk and see if that elusive spark is there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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