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United States, Pennsylvania, Gettysburg

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So, like many of us, I have left and returned to this site a number of times.I can't say with any authority that I think this time might be different or yield different results, but there is a very hesitant optimist somewhere in my head that says it might be worth the chance.I am always drawn to much more elaborate and revealing profiles that really show some effort and an attempt to present oneself in a more complete way. But, that's me; and I have not found that most people care to take the time to really read these; so this round, I am going to give the seriously abridged version.I am a geeky, intelligent, well-read, well-traveled, devoted Mom of one, who loves music (singing, flute, harp, bass, didgeridoo, Irish whistle), reading (my Kindle goes everywhere with me), environmentalist, deeply fluent in sarcasm, open-minded, gaming (Horde only ;), writing, so Irish I burn in the moonlight, red-haired, politically involved, non red meat eating, volunteering, passionate, loyal, loving and devoted and very affectionate woman who isn't looking to be "completed."Oh; and for the record, being honest, I had selected the dreaded "BBW" as my body type. I felt compelled to downgrade it, however, as I am not one of those woman who *thinks* "Big is Beautiful." I couldn't disagree more. But, I selected it because I will not misrepresent myself to anyone. That being said, my body is changing every day: Stronger, leaner, healthier. I have drastically changed my way of eating, do strength training, intense cardio and intend to be at my ideal weight aka "smoking hot" (yes, you can quote me), within a year. So, if you have an issue with my "current" size; no harm, no foul and I understand. IF however, you see the woman inside and are interested in seeing her get healthier and hotter every day, then by all means, say hello. :) A really low-pressure meeting to visit, talk and see if that elusive spark is there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok well it's very hard to describe me because I have no big thing in my life that stands out but I will try..... I have just in the last year or so started what I guess u call "hobbies"... and i fault pinterest 100%... and its just about anything from building patio furniture to making lampshades!!! so much fun.. well enough of that boring bio... but if you feel you would like to endurer any more of that painful not exciting at all biography then just ask and I will try to accomadate you. Well I've had a few of these first dates unfortunately and I like to limit my first dates to just a drink or coffee, usually only about 1 hr. That way if it's not a connection we are only miserable a hour

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  • Mab from Gettysburg | Woman | 45 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello!To sum it up....I am a very easy going person that loves family, friends, and enjoys a clean healthy lifestyle.

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I know I sound like a smartass but I really am a nice girl. I just say what I mean and I shouldnt have to apologize for that. I am single by choice and don't need a man out of desperation. At this point, I don't believe "The One" exists. Oh well, the hunt for him is always entertaining. “Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” Marilyn MonroeIt's a shame that truth and respect are dying virtues!! Is there anyone out there that is normal?I'm a funny girl. Maybe a bit too sarcastic for some. I'm a little ornery and am always making those around me laugh. I'm an ER nurse so I think that has somehow warped my sense of humor. I see people at their very worst and sometimes it is difficult. I'm purty smart by some standards and can carry on a conversation. Let's leave politics and religion for a future date. I'm not looking for the perfect man but the perfectly imperfect man. I like TALL men!! That means over 6 foot. I love 5 inch heels and I prefer not to look like Tom and Katie! Looks are a plus but personality goes a long way. I am not a skinny girl but not fat either. I like to eat! I'm not a Barbie Doll so I don't really want a Ken. I believe in being honest and mutual respect. I have been to Starbucks but I think paying $5 for coffee is stupid. I will just have a Diet Coke. My job has shown me that one can never be too clean. I can be jaded at times but for the most part I am happy. I am high maintenance but I maintain myself so what does it matter? I rarely drink and smoking is gross!! Pink is my favorite color. Imagine that!I love music.Random Thoughts:1. 2. 5 foot 8 inches and ***pounds isn't probably considered athletic by most. 3. I, too, believe in the right to bear arms but I'd rather see pictures of you *** ALL your weapons. 4. If you have all these women in your pictures why are you in search of another? 5. You drink occasionally but yet you are holding an alcoholic beverage in almost every picture. Hmm.6. Are you trying to find your dog and car dates? Show more pictures of you!!7. Why is my bra size of such importance? I don't ask the size of your little guy. :-/8. I know I'm not all that nor do I pretend to be I'm just a girl who would like to find a normal guy. Honestly, some of you really need to get over yourselves.9. Which one are you in the group picture? Damn you sure have some good looking friends. Are any of them single?10. What's with all the dead animals?11. If I send you an *** about something in your profile it means I actually read your profile and I'm probably giving you a compliment. 12. Stop being so serious! This all just a game. Haven't you figured that out by now?13. I hate when people drop the F bomb every other word! Just saying. So that's what it's called nowadays?Don't message me for random booty call! Won't happen. Have a little respect for us both.

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