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Carin, 45

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About Me

I would like to have one man in my life that I can hang out with, have passionate moments with, and still have my space when I need it, because I am somewhat independent and self-reliant. I want a man in my life, but I don't need a man in my life. However, you may be the guy that makes me fall head over heals and want to spend every waking moment with you. Anything is possible. I want to be cherished, as I will cherish you in return; I think that is the most important verb in a relationship. But other than that, what you see is what you get. Yes, I am a curvy, voluptuous woman. I could stand to lose some weight, but it's not a priority for me; love me for what is on the inside and don't expect perfection. I am very forthcoming about what I want in life. I am fully responsible for myself and I expect you to be as well. I am very passionate. I am generous to a fault, even to people that I don't know (I get that from my dad). I am independent and outspoken. I am fiercely loyal and protective of the people that I care about. I hate drama. I love to travel; I like to attend local events like the street fair, a concert, spring training or even the swap meet. I like to go to happy hour, sing karaoke, dance my ass off to a live band, and go to the casino. I love to watch sports, especially the UofA, at a sports bar or a friend's house where we can enjoy a few drinks during the game.What I look for in a man: I am drawn to men that are outgoing and spontaneous; a person's looks will catch my eye but personality is what makes me want to get to know you better. I want someone who is down to earth and treats people with respect and consideration. I want someone that is comfortable in his own skin, that can be the life of the party or mellow and laid back, depending on the situation. Chemistry, spark, whatever you want to call it... that is important, and I will know right away if it is there."Life is short. Break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss SLOWLY, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret ANYTHING that makes you smile." ~ Blige, Patsy Cline, Lenny Kravitz, Maroon 5........ I hate Starbucks, but happy hour would be ideal to get comfortable with each other and take the edge off cuz I get nervous, or maybe even a sporting event where the atmosphere is casual. Somewhere that we can flirt and have fun and not have to worry about which fork to use with which dish.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Arica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Soul-mate searching; Sleeping Beauty in sad and deep slumber - waiting for true love's kiss...Will only settle for the 'one' who also knows that I am the 'one'. Not expecting perfection - no one is perfect; just a man with integrity and a kind heart.Awaiting the one who will cause this site to come down fast and forever!My cards are all on the table I prefer men just a few years younger, but not too young. So younger, yet mature for their age.I am super physical so I need someone who likes to touch, hold and kiss - a lot!If you're not affectionate, then we're not going to blend well.I don't like sports, unless I am the one participating and I only walk, swim, dance and frisbee, so if you're very into sports, it will be a point of contention. :/Need I say it? Yes, I need someone who is uber-loyal and that would be to me and me alone.- dark hair, eyes and skin)I prefer blue collar workers to white collar (most likely due to my father, who taught me his diligent work ethic - utmost respect those who work hard)I need a man who will enjoy talking with me - about everything and comfortable with the subject of 'us'.A man that will value inner and outer character as much as he cares about my cleaning and cooking abilities. :)If you don't care how my day was or don't care to hear my voice often or see me regularly/daily, then please pass on me.I need a man who knows how and when to play with me just right. Make me smile deep enough and you may win my heart.Know just when to protect my heart and I will do anything for yours.I need someone with old fashioned values; I am not compatible with loud, gang-related, 'too cool', player personalities. I have a simple life desire. I want to be with my husband, and the kids (if there are children) and I like being together, hanging at home, cooking, cleaning, talking, working (I do online courses and work full time). I am not looking for someone who doesn't like to be at home or who likes to be out and about all of the time. I need someone comfortable in their own skin - someone who is calm and likes themselves and wants to include me in that loving circle. I'm not superficial, but we all need to like what we see - at least enough of the time.I prefer someone who tries to take care of themselves - I am personally working on losing the rest of my weight and I prefer someone who is at least moderately active (walking, some light gym maybe). I don't need a bodybuilder or anyone obsessed with their physique (although I am sure I could appreciate it myself if they did). I am not perfect and I will always try, but if you want a perfect, fit, firm and 20 year old, please don't bother with me. I am human and I will fit best with a man who can appreciate the inner and outer ways that I am beautiful but who accepts that I am not perfect.A man who still sees me as a woman who deserves love and respect regardless of my flaws. I promise the same in return.I love being outdoors, family oriented activities, I write poetry, sing karaoke, belly-dance, cook & eat vegan. I enjoy gardening, decorating, walking, painting and I love children, the earth and all animals.An important hobby of mine is creating educational games and Biblical games for children. I also write Biblical songs for children.Laughter is a 'must' but never at another persons expense... Honestly it doesn't matter - if we click and we can talk and it's not all about you or not all about me, then it's a good start. I need a good rapport and I need someone who can appreciate that good rapport.If friendship doesn't matter to you; if it's not fundamental to our relationship, then we're not right for each other.I really am looking for my best friend (no need for lots of female friends) who will appreciate my loyalty and enjoy our life together.

  • Paulette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    "IN ORDER TO BE IRREPLACEABLE ONE MUST ALWAYS BE DIFFERENT." - Coco ChanelI am a ***concoction of French and Italian ... some people think its a volatile combination ... I tend to prove its an extremely passionate one.Travel is my passion. [], love backpacking and being simple when it comes to travel...no agenda...just roll. I also enjoy riding Harleys, journalism, photography, pottery, tattoos, dabbling in graphic/web design, buying and selling on Ebay, watching movies, shopping for antiques, skiing, decorating, painting, playing volleyball, coaching my son's soccer team(s), hiking, camping, mountain biking, getting lost on back country roads...and letting it take me to some "other place"...What else am I forgetting? Oh yeah... Skinny dipping, sitting outside on cool autumn nights in front of bonfires, listening to the crackles and sounds of nature, having water gun and water balloon fights on hot summer days, flowing in, out and around the warm breeze of a warm summer night, rain sprinkles, thunderstorms, hot tubbing in the middle of winter while the snow is falling on me, staying up late, watching more movies, Chinese take-out, chicken curry, having sex, traveling all over the world, laughing, joking and living life!Dancing: I was born with an eternal beat in my blood.Oh, and I can't forget...hanging out with my good friends!-- through and through! Immersing myself in the beauty of nature refreshes and enlightens my Spirit. I am a very sensuous person and I indulge myself, freely. I'm sensitive to Energy in all forms. I'm just really taken with beauty in all forms, and I appreciate the details.I love to have fun and wander though life finding new things to see and do! I enjoy seeing live music around the Twin Cities. I have a wide network of friends in many well known local bands...so it's nice to get out and listen (and dance) to them all!I like browsing thrift stores, book stores, loitering in coffeehouses and bars, exploring interesting restaurants/bars, riding Harleys, speeding down the highway, breaking all of the rules, dancing, hanging with friends, meeting new and fun people, being sarcastic, great humor, watching movies, and lastly, being cute and living WILD!I'd love to meet more fun and interesting people......truck drivers, cowboys, lounge singers, geeks, freaks, rockers, burnouts, bikers, boaters, Elvis impersonators, spys, frys, nerds, people in marching bands, prom queens, drag queens, roadies, carnies, rappers, writers, artists, librarians, sailors, crooners, puppeteers, professional sunbathers, yodelers, vampires, tap dancers, drunks, firemen, chimney sweepers, private i's, pirates, the headless horseman.Well, actually, I delight in anyone with an active sense of HUMOR who makes me LAUGH. Intellectually engaging discussions stimulate me. I'm drawn toward genuine, trustworthy and honest people. Twinkly eyed smiles, astute WIT, authentic character, clever, independent thinkers, creative minds, people with unique and insightful points of view to offer, and open, engaging ease of conversation.I also have a special appreciation for thoughtful consideration. I'm allergic to uptight people and I'm utterly repelled by negative energy and chronic complainers. People that aren't afraid to be themselves, are non-judgmental, who love to laugh, have a good time and let their inner true self come openly out! Laid back people who enjoy life, love to smile, joke and laugh, and who want to experience new and exciting things! Open to discussion as we talk more...

  • Etsuko

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a single mom of 2 girl, they are my life. No I am not looking for a father for them so you don't have to worry. My girls have been put through to much misery and won't let that happen again. So this makes me more cautious on my decitions, so if you don't care for kids, bye. What I am looking for is someone that may have old fashion moral, kind, funny and knows what he wants. Someone that won't try to control me, been there done that don't care for that. No double standards, if you can go out and have fun with friends I can go out with friends. I am starting to speak whats on my mind so don't be to surprised what you might hear. I am always willing to answer any questions! well, cheaper the better. A nice picnic, talking getting to know each other, maybe a walk. My dream date is a picnic and talking and this is a little wierd but going to an amusment park. There is the romantic part intiment part and some fun. Mainly an easy quiet way to get to know each other.

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