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Arica, 41
United States, Pennsylvania, Drexel Hill

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About Me

Soul-mate searching; Sleeping Beauty in sad and deep slumber - waiting for true love's kiss...Will only settle for the 'one' who also knows that I am the 'one'. Not expecting perfection - no one is perfect; just a man with integrity and a kind heart.Awaiting the one who will cause this site to come down fast and forever!My cards are all on the table I prefer men just a few years younger, but not too young. So younger, yet mature for their age.I am super physical so I need someone who likes to touch, hold and kiss - a lot!If you're not affectionate, then we're not going to blend well.I don't like sports, unless I am the one participating and I only walk, swim, dance and frisbee, so if you're very into sports, it will be a point of contention. :/Need I say it? Yes, I need someone who is uber-loyal and that would be to me and me alone.- dark hair, eyes and skin)I prefer blue collar workers to white collar (most likely due to my father, who taught me his diligent work ethic - utmost respect those who work hard)I need a man who will enjoy talking with me - about everything and comfortable with the subject of 'us'.A man that will value inner and outer character as much as he cares about my cleaning and cooking abilities. :)If you don't care how my day was or don't care to hear my voice often or see me regularly/daily, then please pass on me.I need a man who knows how and when to play with me just right. Make me smile deep enough and you may win my heart.Know just when to protect my heart and I will do anything for yours.I need someone with old fashioned values; I am not compatible with loud, gang-related, 'too cool', player personalities. I have a simple life desire. I want to be with my husband, and the kids (if there are children) and I like being together, hanging at home, cooking, cleaning, talking, working (I do online courses and work full time). I am not looking for someone who doesn't like to be at home or who likes to be out and about all of the time. I need someone comfortable in their own skin - someone who is calm and likes themselves and wants to include me in that loving circle. I'm not superficial, but we all need to like what we see - at least enough of the time.I prefer someone who tries to take care of themselves - I am personally working on losing the rest of my weight and I prefer someone who is at least moderately active (walking, some light gym maybe). I don't need a bodybuilder or anyone obsessed with their physique (although I am sure I could appreciate it myself if they did). I am not perfect and I will always try, but if you want a perfect, fit, firm and 20 year old, please don't bother with me. I am human and I will fit best with a man who can appreciate the inner and outer ways that I am beautiful but who accepts that I am not perfect.A man who still sees me as a woman who deserves love and respect regardless of my flaws. I promise the same in return.I love being outdoors, family oriented activities, I write poetry, sing karaoke, belly-dance, cook & eat vegan. I enjoy gardening, decorating, walking, painting and I love children, the earth and all animals.An important hobby of mine is creating educational games and Biblical games for children. I also write Biblical songs for children.Laughter is a 'must' but never at another persons expense... Honestly it doesn't matter - if we click and we can talk and it's not all about you or not all about me, then it's a good start. I need a good rapport and I need someone who can appreciate that good rapport.If friendship doesn't matter to you; if it's not fundamental to our relationship, then we're not right for each other.I really am looking for my best friend (no need for lots of female friends) who will appreciate my loyalty and enjoy our life together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Archery
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