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Kenda, 44
United States, Pennsylvania, Dallastown

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SERIOUSLY IF UR NOT GOING TO GO SHOPPING WITH ME AND HOLD SOME OF MY BAGS WHAT ELSE IS THERE TO SAY??? I am who I am....I like me... Im fun, funny, smart, witty, energetic,honest, classy, sexy, confident, , however we dont always see ourselves as others see us....my flaws makes me who I am. ..I like live music..dancing..people watching..I can cook and enjoy doing it...Im pretty social..very family oriented,I like traveling and plan to do alot more in the future..as far as camping goes Im not a roughing it kind of girl...tenting omg no way..tried that once..hated it...Ill take a camp or a hotel room anyday....looking for someone I have things in common with. I'm looking for the whole package chemistry..emotional..financial....to date someone... find that 1 person that I have a strong connection with.. to build a bond... chemistry....intamacy.,.....someone u feel comfortable enough with to walk around naked in front of...Iol ...lol..lolLike I stated ... Im a nice person, I treat the person Im with well, Im affectionate, Im a giver.... Id rather have an average looking guy who treated me like a queen then a model who treated me like a door mat....Im the kind of woman that speaks her mind...Im just saying I want a man who wants to take care of me not that I need a man to take care of me there's a different..and I want a man who wants me to take care of him not a man who needs me to take care of him...yes again there's a difference..lolDon't you love it when they match you with people who wouldn't give you the time of day if you bumped into them on the sidewalk..lol lol lolOk Im adding this cause Im tired if getting asked this...I understand that many people accidently hit the average button *** the afew extra pounds or large or BBW or whatever else the list that is a larger size than average....Im not going to lie because I believe that nothing good comes from a lie..there has been times in my life I have been all of the above and my mom has pics to prove it, and I cant say I want gain afew extra pounds in the future but Im going to try not to Im healty and Im happy..I will eventually get around to posting a body pic when I get one so till then ull jus have to take my word for it that in avegage...size 10. Im realistic to know that if Im going to have a serious relationship with someone I will be willing to relocate for the right person.Why do people have to play games with others why cant people just be real....say what they mean and mean what they say..if I say it I mean it....it's that simple...I remeber the days when the man used to pursue the womanI know times have changed ...however it would be nice for a change to be pursued by a man not stalked dont confuse the 2....with that said ...let me say this if I have contacted u a few times and u have kind have brushed me off and said that u r busy doing something at the moment and can not chat but wll get back to me...do not worry ill leave u alone...the ball is in ur court Im not a stalker ...and if u take to long to get back to me and I see u online all the time ill just figure ur more interested in everyone else and not me and Im ok with that.....just know Ill problably brush u off them..lol..Hey Im being honest here... It says Im looking for a relationship that is true, however I am not going to jump into 1 and I am not actively looking for 1...Im looking to date until I find someone who is the right fit..I am not desperate...I amlooking to get married again to the right person so if ur not looking for tha then Im not for u........Im working on myself...finding myself so to speak...this being said.....I also like a guy who takes charge sometimes however do not let this confuse you...I am no way submissive...but what Im saying here is say hi take a chance ask me on a date see if we click.Im looking for someone with things in common with me....like I said Im not into playing games , but for some reason alot of people on this site seem to be on here for that reason...you think when you reach a certain age you'd be over that but I guess not....another thing I am not interested in the size of ur package..or seeing you naked on cam thank you very much...Sometimes Im just to honest Im sorry about that..if you cant handle that you cant handle me. Im looking to date someone see where it goes.. looking for 1 guy looking for 1 girl... but hey I like to go on dates so till I find someone I likeIm willing to go on Ill dates along the way.Wouldn't t be great if the person u was attracted to lived right next door....that's just not how the world goes around..Im ok with a along distance thing, traveling back and forth, whatever it takes if it's the right person the right combination.Afew of my beliefs:I believe in the law of attraction............possitive gets possitive...negitive gets negitiveNothing good comes from lie.Grass is grass no matter where it grows.... there is brown spots on the other side of the fence just like on this side.A picture is 1 dimensional a flat piece of paper that does not tell you anything about the person in the picture...lets go dancing..OR...............

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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