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Caylin, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, Dallastown

Offline, last seen Sat, 25 Oct 2025 18:17:45

About Me

******UPDATE******It's hard to find someone to love when you have been set in your ways for so many years. I have come to find that men my age [***] are looking for the movie style girlfriend/wife. I for one am not. I have lived life by having a great marriage, having children and earning my fat!! I work hard and go to school so I don’t have to be supported by a man. Which means... I’m not here to look for a sugar daddy or someone to control my every action. What I am looking for is a partner in life who enjoys me for being “me”. As someone once said to me, “I’m cute, short and round”. If that sounds good to you, maybe we could chat and hopefully meet. Good luck!! FYI, I enjoy alcohol, love my adult children and my 3 dogs.I currently work full time and go to ODU a few nights a week, working on a double major in Criminalogy and Social Science. I love great conversation and not into the casual one night stand. I'm not interested in getting married I just want to be engaged for the rest of my life, this issue might change with time.My likes and dislikes about him.....1. I am not attracted to long hair, I perfer clean cut or shaven/bald....its the military in me that just won't go away.2. I don't date outside my race, I'm not here to offend anyone it's just the way I was raised.3. I'm not here to find someone who needs taken care of. I have already raised 2 kids, don't need to do it again. 4. A confident man is so HOT HOT in my eyes.5. I play fantasy football and usually watch the games on Thursday, Sunday and Monday when I have time.I am a Telecommunications Analyst for the Navy and Marines. I retired from the BEST NAVY in the world in '09. I've worked in contracting and now I'm a federal employee. I enjoy reading before I go to bed, hiking across the country sides and wildernes, running in the snow (I love the way snow feels when it hits my face), laying back and watching movies cuddled under a blanket or just being lazy in bed for the whole day (as long as all the house hold chores and commitments are complete). My ultimate favorite is sitting under the stars all night on the beach or a camp site. As for my sexual appetite, I consider that a 2nd or 3rd date conversation so please don't bring up on the first IM. I'm really not this up tight....it just reads that way. LOL!!! Just trying to set bounderies.As for what I'm looking for....I want a man to tell me I'm beautiful when I'm having my worst hair day, let me be myself and except me for who I am. I want a man to push and support me to complete my goals and still be there if I don't. I want a friend, confidante, lover and partner in life!!So if my profile interests you and your willing to take a chance with me..... dinner and a movie or just drinks? Let me know!!*****************************YOU MAY COPY AND PASTE TO YOUR PROFILE********************************************PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Blanket on the beach under a clear sky and watch the stars, lots of conversation with a small cooler of alcoholic drinks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Action Adventure Fantasy History Dirt Bike Racing
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