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Caylin, 45

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About Me

******UPDATE******It's hard to find someone to love when you have been set in your ways for so many years. I have come to find that men my age [***] are looking for the movie style girlfriend/wife. I for one am not. I have lived life by having a great marriage, having children and earning my fat!! I work hard and go to school so I don’t have to be supported by a man. Which means... I’m not here to look for a sugar daddy or someone to control my every action. What I am looking for is a partner in life who enjoys me for being “me”. As someone once said to me, “I’m cute, short and round”. If that sounds good to you, maybe we could chat and hopefully meet. Good luck!! FYI, I enjoy alcohol, love my adult children and my 3 dogs.I currently work full time and go to ODU a few nights a week, working on a double major in Criminalogy and Social Science. I love great conversation and not into the casual one night stand. I'm not interested in getting married I just want to be engaged for the rest of my life, this issue might change with time.My likes and dislikes about him.....1. I am not attracted to long hair, I perfer clean cut or shaven/bald....its the military in me that just won't go away.2. I don't date outside my race, I'm not here to offend anyone it's just the way I was raised.3. I'm not here to find someone who needs taken care of. I have already raised 2 kids, don't need to do it again. 4. A confident man is so HOT HOT in my eyes.5. I play fantasy football and usually watch the games on Thursday, Sunday and Monday when I have time.I am a Telecommunications Analyst for the Navy and Marines. I retired from the BEST NAVY in the world in '09. I've worked in contracting and now I'm a federal employee. I enjoy reading before I go to bed, hiking across the country sides and wildernes, running in the snow (I love the way snow feels when it hits my face), laying back and watching movies cuddled under a blanket or just being lazy in bed for the whole day (as long as all the house hold chores and commitments are complete). My ultimate favorite is sitting under the stars all night on the beach or a camp site. As for my sexual appetite, I consider that a 2nd or 3rd date conversation so please don't bring up on the first IM. I'm really not this up tight....it just reads that way. LOL!!! Just trying to set bounderies.As for what I'm looking for....I want a man to tell me I'm beautiful when I'm having my worst hair day, let me be myself and except me for who I am. I want a man to push and support me to complete my goals and still be there if I don't. I want a friend, confidante, lover and partner in life!!So if my profile interests you and your willing to take a chance with me..... dinner and a movie or just drinks? Let me know!!*****************************YOU MAY COPY AND PASTE TO YOUR PROFILE********************************************PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Blanket on the beach under a clear sky and watch the stars, lots of conversation with a small cooler of alcoholic drinks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Apparently I will be successful on meetville if I tell you about my hobbies, my goals and aspirations, what makes me unique and what kind of music I like.I would actually rather have most of that conversation in person!!As you are deciding if you would like to meet me or not, here are some things you may want to consider;my divorce is not yet finalized but I have not lived with my ex for over 2 years.I have three kids who will always (well, almost always) take priority for me.I am not a HUGE risk taker, but I am looking forward to trying new things and having new experiences. I am trying to default to "yes" and then figure out how to do it from there.Sitting still is not my strong point, but I do like to watch a football game on a Sunday afternoon.I have a pretty good sense of humor.If none of these things makes you say "eeewww", send me a message. But please know ahead of time that I am not interested in messaging or texting for days or weeks on end. The point is to meet people, right?If you do say "eeeewww", thanks for reading and best of luck!! something low key. coffee or drink. no pressure. we can either walk away with no hard feelings or head out from there.....

  • Marilena

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Looking for a nice man who shares the same qualities as myself, which includes being very loyal, family orientated & passionate about the issues & people I care for. I've got two children who are very active, 19 & I do own a home and keep busy with that but enjoy my free time as well.. I love going to concerts, socializing with friends either out for dinner or home by the camp fire having a good time. I have worked in the medical field for over 20 years and love the challenges that go along that profession, I'm extremely social and kind-hearted and find the good in everyone that I cross paths with. I'm looking forward to meeting someone who is my partner and wants the same things as I do! Any good relationship has honesty, humor and a strong attraction to each other.. Well enough of that, if you're interested in the same, just message me. Whatever we choose, something casual

  • Phyllis

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    well, hello!! this is my second time around on this- i ended up in a relationship for about a year( not from this site) so i cancelled my membership. Last time around, i was easing into this whole new world, and wanted to date, but nothing serious. Having been down that windy road, i want to be forthright: i would like a relationship that is intended to be long term.First and foremost, i am a mom to wonderful sons who are getting older all the time! amazing to see these men in the making and who they are becoming as individuals... i am also a nurse, and work quite a bit in a few different specialties, and put in alot of hours. I would like to meet someone who is also like minded.- works hard, focused on family, and is looking to build a life with someone.sarcasm and .witty repartee are immeasurable..!I tend to be low key and drama free.hobbies- love going to the beach house and kayaking in the ocean with the kids. camping is a big one as well.enjoy antiqueing, and riding on the back of a bike- havent owned one in a long time.. love to read anything i can get my hands on- except horror, not really my thing. my taste in music is very broad, from blues and jazz to whats currently being played over the radio.i love, love , love anything acoustic. also, my genre is the eighties, so , alas, it will always have my heart:***not a fan of rap or death metal- had to interject that!) think that should do it for now, i think:-) easy- something low key, no stress- grab a tea/ coffee, take a walk, grab a bite, whatever fits into both of our schedules.

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