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Kanesha, 36

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About Me

Me: genuine, honest, caring, loving, fun, silly, good sense of humor, sarcastic, sincere, kind, generous, responsible, selfless, strong, active, adventurous, respectful of myself and others, energetic, courageous, friendly, secure, independent, happy, good listener, upbeat, positive, determined, dedicated and loyal. Having been through some really hard stuff in life I try my best to maintain a positive attitude...life is short and If I don't live it I'm wasting it. You: hopefully a lot of the above, and RESPECTFUL, mature, kind to others, not selfish, not a liar, not a cheater, not a total weirdo / psycho, not controlling, not a serial dater, not possessive...You should want to have fun, want a real relationship, have your own friends and want to remain somewhat independent while gaining mutual friends as well. I have a lot to offer, know what I want and deserve and what I'm looking for...and YOU should too! Just want a nice, happy, healthy relationship with someone who wants the same!! I'm very giving and will give all of myself to the right person, w/ out ever losing myself. I know I will find it / him when the time is right! PLEASE NOTE: 1) If I could be your mother OR you could be my father.. I'm not interested! Mean? Maybe. Honest? Definitely!! 2) I'm not interested in learning your "size" in a first or 15th ***! Not attractive. At all. 3) I'm not here looking just for sex... I'd be in far worse shape than I ever imagined if I needed a website for that! No less this one!!! In addition to # ***above- Please do NOT contact me if: You enjoy dating several girls at once, can't seem to get over your exes b/c you feel bad, or if you are rude, obnoxious, selfish, angry or unkind to others. There is help for all of those things...OR if you have several shirtless pictures and it is NOT because you are on a boat, in a pool, or at the beach but bc you are flexing in your bathroom mirror taking self portraits with your phone. Really creeps me out and leads me to believe several things, none of them good! Also, I giggle at the profiles stating you are "looking for normal girls who are not psychos". I hear you!!! I too am looking for a normal non psycho guy! I have been on / off this and other sites over the years in between meeting and dating some great guys!...However, I have come across dudes with more issues, crazy histories and baggage than all the girls I know combined!! So lets be real here! Do contact me if you are looking for a real, genuine, fun, positive and upbeat chick who knows what she's looking for ;-) Cheers to meeting some great people, and maybe the right "one" and to you NOT making yourself a chapter in the dating book I'm writing :-) Anything casual...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Yazmin

    Online

    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hello there, I decided to give this a try since it is so difficult for me to meet a good guy. I think that most good guys go to work and go home making it impossible for us to meet..or we are just not in the same place at the same time....timing is everything as they say...I am a fun- loving, thoughtful, and loyal person. Anyone who knows me would describe me as a beautiful person inside and out. I am very caring and my friends tease me about being a " hopeless romantic". I am very outgoing and lots of fun to be around. I also have a good sense of humor.I am not a serial dater. I have no emotional baggage. I am not damaged nor bitter towards men. Just thought I should point this out since so many females are these days. I am happy and full of life. Every day is a beautiful day through my eyes.I am a sun lover and enjoy being at the beach or near the water. I love the Yankees....BoSox fans need not apply!! I like to unwind with a good book and also love to garden. I recently started taking golf lessons and am having a lot of fun with it.I am looking for a man who is loving, caring, and loyal. He should be driven in all aspects of his life; ambitious and hard working. Also at some point should be looking for marriage and children.I should mention...POF only keeps 1 month of messages in my inbox so unfortunately there are many I have received but never had opportunity to read. Therefore I am putting a few guidelines out there so as to limit the messages coming in who are not going to be a good match. So if you are in your 20s or live far away..particularly out of state....please do not message me. I am sorry but I prefer men around my age or a little older, and I am not looking for a long distance relationship. And I think I made the Red Sox thing pretty clear lol. Also i do not usually respond to *** only 1 photo or no face closeups or body shots. Thanks:)AND I haven't added anyone to my want to meet option. meetville is adding people automatically for some reason. I'm sorry about that . I am open to anything....I prefer the man to make the plans. But a first date should be low pressure ....so I would say meeting for a drink in a nice restaurant. If it is going well, can always grab a small bite together.

  • Kira

    Online

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm very ready for a commitment to the RIGHT guy. Described as a passionate, sometimes stubborn, very creative person with a huge heart and a lot to offer. I work hard and am very active. Hoping to meet someone who loves to workout as well and eats healthy, enjoys the outdoors, dogs and the Arts, and can have fun being anywhere. Looking for a great communicator, a best friend and so much more. Someone who can be open minded to new things and also just be spontaneous. Not much to say until we speak and go from there! "Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy it." Be adventurous and be different... Don't plan it just go with it.

  • Hadassah

    Online

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hello! I am a woman who is looking for someone to share adventures with. I am quirky, I love to laugh, compassionate, honest, and open minded. I love to travel, to be active and have fun, and to try new things. Recently divorced from a 15 year marriage, I am just now beginning my road of cultivating my career and life's professional work. I decided to go into to nursing because I have always felt drawn to helping and comforting those around me. Family and friends are very important to me, which brings me to my 2 amazing sons. They are the light of my heart and life, and they have a great dad with whom I share ***custody, so I am not looking for a "father figure" for them. To be blunt, they are not exposed to my romantic social life in any way. In essence, my time is my own to share, but my children come first. On the topic of children, please reconsider putting your children's faces on a public dating site. I understand being a proud parent..believe me...but it is unsettling AS a parent to see kids on these adult sites... I actually feel very strongly about it. I am enchanted by nature, and I love to be outside, especially near the water and in the middle of the woods. I am good at appreciating the humor in life, listening, laughing, being a dork, enjoying music and good times, being a mom and loving passionately. I had to take a physical hiatus from my beloved running, but I am building my endurance slowly back up. I am not so good at painting, photography, shooting pool and dancing, but I love to do them! On any given Friday night, I am either with my kids, working, or enjoying a night out dancing, listening to music, playing pool, enjoying a social beverage...etc. I enjoy many activities, but I am also wanting to enjoy the occasion night in with dinner, wine, and a movie...and someone to cuddle with. I can be silly or serious at the drop of a hat, my thoughts and interests are aide and varied, and I enjoy the quiet as much as I enjoy the wild and crazy. I am thirsty to learn more about spirituality and creative expressions. I love to kiss and be kissed passionately. A hike in the woods or time on the beach is as romantic to me as candlelight. I love to challenge and be challenged. I am also really hoping to meet someone/people who can inspire/help me to get back to a great healthy lifestyle...exercising and eating well. If you can keep up...then let's talk! (However, please do not message me with just a "hi". I will not respond, unless there is an actual message to respond to. ) So many options, but it would be one where we could actually talk and have some fun. Generic answer, but the truth.

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