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Elfleda, 37
United States, Pennsylvania, Chester

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About Me

If I had to describe myself, I'd say I tend to be more of a homebody. I'm more laid back and mellow, and I'm perhaps not as girly as some would like. I do not doll myself up in make up or spend hours on my hair. I think some times this hurts me, but I like simple...I'm ok with simple. I'm not big into drama, and I'm content without having to knock others down to make myself feel better. I'm not perfect, and I never will be. I am tall and overweight, and I will never be short and slender. I do not expect my dates to be perfect, nor do I want them to be. All I want is someone who understands life itself isn't perfect and it's ok to be flawed just as long as you have a good heart and soul...as the expression goes, "Life is too short..." In conclusion, I am a pretty simple person, but I have a pretty good sense of humor...I don't like to take everything too serious if I don't have to, but still be able to know when humor is inappropriate. I love animals, nature and I am content staying home and watching a good movie. Some times it's fun to go out too, but in moderation. If I had any real goals or aspirations, I suppose just working on being a better person, creating a good life and continue learning as I go. I don't need fireworks and explosions every waking moment, but a few here and there never hurts. :) I can be pretty shy and quiet, which makes it difficult for people to get to know me, but I think when you meet the right one...shy and quiet somehow work, simply because when it's right...you don't need all the static, it just all falls into place.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Middle Eastern Portuguese Vietnamese Adventure Animation Family & Kids Sport Western
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  • Taren from Chester | Woman | 39 years old | Scorpio
    Taren

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Well where to start..I would like to meet someone who has the same interests as me. I like to do a variety of things. I do not smoke, I will have a drink once in awhile....ummm what else..music, I like all kinds, I enjoy watching movies. I hate these questions, I never know what to say!! I would like to meet someone who enjoys cooking, only because I don't!??Love the Walking Dead!! Would like to meet a guy who has a sense of humour and knows how to treat people right!!The idea of dating kind of freaks me out because I don't know what to expect. Basically, if you can treat me good, and you're a good person, then message me.Profile pic would be great.Not looking for an intimate encounter.I am a real woman, and yes your kids come first.. as do mine. Depends......go for drink, see if we have anything in common. Maybe go check out a comedy night.

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  • Avalina from Chester | Woman | 39 years old | Aries
    Avalina

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hello to u all thanks for peeking in on my profile...Looking for some new friends and possibly someone to spend some time with, so if u want to get to know me drop me a line.. we can go from there :-)...must be kid friendly Coffee and a walk perhaps..

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  • Kandi from Chester | Woman | 39 years old | Virgo
    Kandi

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I like to laugh and I think I have a great personality. I work at a peanut factory. I am 7 years cancer free, unable to have kids but I would have a house full if I could. I have six tattoos. Flowers and cute animals are my thing. I am waiting to get a tat in memory of my dad bc I want it to be perfect. I have a cat, I am independent and managing taking care of myself after being spoiled from being my daddy's only daughter. Looking for friends and possible relationship, am not in a hurry to be married though. Life is great in my world. meet, hang out and see if we click

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