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Elfleda, 37
United States, Pennsylvania, Chester

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About Me

If I had to describe myself, I'd say I tend to be more of a homebody. I'm more laid back and mellow, and I'm perhaps not as girly as some would like. I do not doll myself up in make up or spend hours on my hair. I think some times this hurts me, but I like simple...I'm ok with simple. I'm not big into drama, and I'm content without having to knock others down to make myself feel better. I'm not perfect, and I never will be. I am tall and overweight, and I will never be short and slender. I do not expect my dates to be perfect, nor do I want them to be. All I want is someone who understands life itself isn't perfect and it's ok to be flawed just as long as you have a good heart and soul...as the expression goes, "Life is too short..." In conclusion, I am a pretty simple person, but I have a pretty good sense of humor...I don't like to take everything too serious if I don't have to, but still be able to know when humor is inappropriate. I love animals, nature and I am content staying home and watching a good movie. Some times it's fun to go out too, but in moderation. If I had any real goals or aspirations, I suppose just working on being a better person, creating a good life and continue learning as I go. I don't need fireworks and explosions every waking moment, but a few here and there never hurts. :) I can be pretty shy and quiet, which makes it difficult for people to get to know me, but I think when you meet the right one...shy and quiet somehow work, simply because when it's right...you don't need all the static, it just all falls into place.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Kristen from Chester | Woman | 36 years old | Scorpio
    Kristen

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Good day. Thanks for stopping by. I grew up in a small town, and with that i grew up learning how to work hard and I've followed that through my life. I'm very independent, some would call me stubborn and I'd have to agree to a point but I believe that if you don't try you won't succeed in life, so try anything and if you succeed great and if you don't at least you gave it a shot. Life is a game of chance so grab the life and embrace it. Live everyday as though its the last, life is to short to walk around with a frown on your face, a smile goes a long way. I've raised 2 kids on my own an they are the greatest thing in my life and their one of my greatest accomplishments I've ever done in my eyes. Kids, family and friends are great gifts and should be treated like they are always. Well thanks for stopping if there is anything else you'd like to know just drop me a message. I'm not looking for anyone-who does drugs-that's the same age as my parents-that is a lier or cheater-that doesn't take care of themselves -that doesn't have goals-that doesn't have a job

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  • Kristina from Chester | Woman | 40 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am just a real, normal, hard working woman looking for a good man to share life with. Would like to be friends first and just see where things go. I like all kinds of music and about any outdoor activity. Easy going but not a push over. Im a very happy person and I love laughing and making others laugh. If you're currently in a relationship or only separated, close that door before you try to move on. Hard to say. Guess it depends on what fits our schedules. Somewhere to sit and chat.

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  • Whitley from Chester | Woman | 38 years old | Gemini
    Whitley

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    If someone told me a year ago that I'd be on this site trying to find Mr. Right for the second time, I would've told them to piss off. Well..whatever.I'm a down to earth, go with the flow type of girl. I'm a little shy at first, but once things start to thaw out I'll be fine. I love to laugh and have fun as we all do. I tend to put everyone ahead of myself as I am a very compassionate person. I'm a great listener.I have a very witty 5yr old son that has rocked my world since he was born. I love sports, mostly baseball, hockey and college football..GO BUCKS! I pretty much like to do anything..bowling, movies (the scarier the better), etc. I love evenings out as well as in. I like any type of music especially live.Anything else that I may failed to mention will just have to be asked later..I'll fill you in. Coffee, drinks, whatever

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