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Elfleda, 37
United States, Pennsylvania, Chester

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About Me

If I had to describe myself, I'd say I tend to be more of a homebody. I'm more laid back and mellow, and I'm perhaps not as girly as some would like. I do not doll myself up in make up or spend hours on my hair. I think some times this hurts me, but I like simple...I'm ok with simple. I'm not big into drama, and I'm content without having to knock others down to make myself feel better. I'm not perfect, and I never will be. I am tall and overweight, and I will never be short and slender. I do not expect my dates to be perfect, nor do I want them to be. All I want is someone who understands life itself isn't perfect and it's ok to be flawed just as long as you have a good heart and soul...as the expression goes, "Life is too short..." In conclusion, I am a pretty simple person, but I have a pretty good sense of humor...I don't like to take everything too serious if I don't have to, but still be able to know when humor is inappropriate. I love animals, nature and I am content staying home and watching a good movie. Some times it's fun to go out too, but in moderation. If I had any real goals or aspirations, I suppose just working on being a better person, creating a good life and continue learning as I go. I don't need fireworks and explosions every waking moment, but a few here and there never hurts. :) I can be pretty shy and quiet, which makes it difficult for people to get to know me, but I think when you meet the right one...shy and quiet somehow work, simply because when it's right...you don't need all the static, it just all falls into place.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Japanese Middle Eastern Portuguese Vietnamese Adventure Animation Family & Kids Sport Western
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  • Manda from Chester | Woman | 40 years old | Cancer
    Manda

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I’m a simple girl who enjoys the simple things in life. I am single parenting a 4 year old son and I’m just as happy digging in the sandbox as I am going to the ballet and dining out at a fancy restaurant. I’m not looking for someone to play father, however it’s probably best if kids don’t frighten the life out of you. I am a fairly private person, however, in the interest of getting to know one another, let me share a few superficial things about me to get the ball rolling. I prefer coffee to tea, Starbucks to Tim’s, red wine to white, dark rum to white. My taste in movies runs to sci fi and fantasy with LOTR being my all time fave movie. I like to follow food blogs, but can’t cook especially well. I do keep trying, though. I like to *** friends. My vacation preferences run more to a hotel with room service and a pool boy over camping. Summer is my favourite season. I like to read, walk, bike, swim (well, frolic) and travel. I love to organize. My perfect date would probably be a nice dinner followed by taking a walk along a picturesque street sipping a coffee. Perhaps by the lake. Maybe even organize your closet at the end of the night if things go especially well :-) Doesn’t that sound wonderful (okay, not that last bit)?

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  • Luvenia from Chester | Woman | 36 years old | Pisces
    Luvenia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    would like to meet someone who is not looking for one stand. Would be nice to meet someone with similar interests to date. I'm honest, caring, sarcastic, and overall like having a good laugh. I'm big into music and concerts, fishing, nature Not into games or drama. Also not into talking/ texting and never meeting. What's the point of being on a dating site then Also I have two dogs who I love more than anything so I would prefer someone who is a dog lover. On a side note due to many people asking since I've been on here...if we start talking via text or whatever do not ask for pics please ( meaning naughty ones) it will just turn me off from talking to you

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  • Marilee from Chester | Woman | 39 years old | Cancer
    Marilee

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I like to laugh! And I like to have someone to go do things with, I work out at least 3 times a week and have a wonderful relationship with my trainers. I have a great family and wonderful friends whom I love and cherish.So a few things I am searching for.. I want to be able to have good conversation. Compassion and caring - Be good to me, your friends, family, and those around you. Someone who knows what he wants out of life and is financially stable and is close to his family. Would meet in a public place for drink or dinner to talk and get to know each other and see if there is a connection.

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