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Heide, 37

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About Me

I am going to try this again, and before I say anything about myself I would like to say this...if you are on here looking for a relationship then make sure that is really what you offer anyone you meet on here. In otherwords be true to the words you type. If you have things going on in your life and don't have time for a relationship then DONT go looking for one. NOW, about me I am a single mother of three(2 teens and 1 preteen) they are a handful but I will NEVER put a man before then. Like any adult I do need time away from them, it is only natural. I am not getting any younger and want to find that special someone that can put a smile on my face. I am pretty much a homebody but do like to get out the house from time to time. I am a huge NKOTB fan, you cant deal with it then you cant deal with me, LOL. I am a United States Army Veteran just trying to survive and take care of my family. Any other questions please do not hesitate to ask. Yes I said back (ikr) I grew up in KV and I wanna come back, there must be something wrong with me, LOL I cant really say how a perfect first date could be because it really depends on the person your on the date with and how they make you feel. One person could make you never want to date again and then the next guy could do the same thing on another date and it be totally different. It is just how they present themselves and if they are truly sincere and what they say and how they treat you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joaquina

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am recently divorced and slowly re-entering the dating scene. It's a bit trickier than I remembered it! I am a bartender. I fancy myself a writer but, let's face it, a gals gotta eat! I have two English Bulldogs that rule with an iron paw! I value humor over almost all else and have a fairly wicked sense myself. I've tried standup before and intend to do so again. I like to write, paint, sing karaoke (but only if everyone listening is plastered.) I am kind to everyone and really can't tolerate hateful or overly morose people. I'm cheerful and would prefer to be around other cheerful folks! I am an avid reader and digest information well. I'm intelligent, witty, friendly and I seem to put people at ease. I'm trying to break out of my social scene "rut" to meet new people and it's been pretty fun so far. I want to finish a book I started and stalled on. I want to get more editing experience. I want to take up boxing and I want to know where I put my damned keys! I am extremely lucky to have a great number of friends. If we meet, they are likely to give me the third degree about you so, just be prepared to answer a few questions! One of my friends was freaked that I'd try the online dating thing. We were sitting at a bar and she was getting pretty blustery saying " but they could be a serial killer!" I pointed to a dude a few seats down and said "so could he. What difference does it make where I met them?" I'm fairly certain the guy wasn't a serial killer. At least not at this point in his life. I would very much appreciate if you weren't either! ;) Not to sound like a barfly but my first encounter with you will likely be in that setting. It's a comfort issue. There are people around but they will generally leave you alone and it's less intimate, which for a first meeting takes the pressure off! Now if we like each other and want to go on a real date, I enjoy long dinners with good wine, easy conversation and laughing. As for destinations, I'm pretty much game for anything. I like the zoo, for example! That being said, I don't handle excessive heat too well, so the next few months of summer agony should probably be spent in a pool or central air condition.

  • Loree

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am not your "ordinary" woman. Hence my heading "UnOrdinaryOne". I like to do a lot of things that your average woman doesn't. I love to fix things, build things and get dirty, but at the same time I love to dress up and wear my heels for a night out with that special someone! I treasure my family & my friends, and I love spending time with them as family is important to me. I enjoy photography, hot rods, boating, waverunners, NASCAR, Sprint Car Races, NFL, college football, the Hawkeyes, the ocean, bike rides, fun in the sun, music, concerts, camping, bbq's, bonfires, riding go-carts, I aspire to run a 5K this fall. I'm still in the process of writing a more articulate description of myself, hobbies, goals, why I'm unique and the music that inspires me. More pictures to come! After thinking about this first date senario, I have a different point of view. I think it's hard enough to put yourself out there and go meet someone. So, the "first date" per say, should be somewhere comfortable and causal; say like happy hour, coffee, dessert....ect. But I'm open to suggestions! What's your idea?

  • Cherish

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am the mother of two amazing kids. They are my life! I have decided that ***is my year. The kids are getting older and it is time to try and find someone special to share my days with. My kids keep me busy as they are active in many sports. I do not miss any of their activities or games. I do work full time as well!I enjoy going to sporting events, concerts (country is my favorite), walks on the beach or through the woods, long drives with no destination, movies, board or card games with the kids, bonfires, and many other activities. I am not a drinker and I do not like the bar scene...never have. If you drink ocassionaly I do not see that as a problem. I am honest, sometimes to a fault, and I am looking for someone special I can trust. I am fun loving, outspoken, big hearted, and extremely loyal. All I am missing is that special person to share these activities with, Don't get me wrong, I love my kids, but with two teenagers at home I need adult conversation.

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