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Lexie, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Vian

Offline, last seen Tue, 30 Jun 2026 14:20:22

About Me

Really do appreciate kindness, security, honesty, mutual r-e-s-p-e-c-t...a guy with a good sense of humor....who is open, non judgemental, easygoing, goal/health orientated, positive, diverse, intelligent and family geared, comittment-able into old age.. Too much to ask? :-) lol. Seems like it. Nobody's perfect. Did I mention I'm competitive ;-) and a bunch of other stuff.These are the ingredients I like to give and receive in any relationship of mine:I want the opportunity to share laughter, interests, values, great chemistry and never ending adventures? Ideally I have a big family and would love to have a family of my own soon and get married eventually. I am an awesome cook ! :)That said, I am always happy to meet new people and make new friends and if this involves getting out and having fun outside somewhere anywhere I'll be happy and have fun. Life = Fun. Trying new things out and appreciating old..learning always learning. I do work a lot right now so its hard to date but I love my job (mental health,end of life,palliative care) & excited that I am meeting my goals and can feel continually awed & inspired on a daily basis by the little things.This forum doesn't lend itself well to constant online banter. It seems like a waste of time. I would rather get to know someone in person where there is that whole 3D chemical element going on...***... Texting is awkward and ruins the chemistry before it even starts.....***..This is just a great way to introduce yourself...If I don't respond, please don't take it personally. Thank you, I read every single message (nice compliments). But, I'm not desperate. I only need one guy, and I know exactly what I want :-) No, I am definitely not a 60 yr old man. Stop asking that; if you have no faith and can't let anyone in, what are you doing on the shore anyway? ....Step up. I dare you. Unless you send hook up messages. Yuck. Like, really? Did-ya even read my profile, did-ya? Whatever...I'm not picky. Simpler the better for a meet & greet :) But please..no coffee shop interviewers.There's a fine line between fishing and just standing on the shore like an idiot -

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro German Korean Portuguese Turkish Fantasy Martial Arts Western Pets
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