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Aleah, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Tishomingo

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About Me

Before you read any further please do not contact me if you are a smoker of ANY kind as it's not a trait I'm willing to negotiate on...thanks.Confident, independent (not to the extreme though) woman who has a heart of gold to offer the right man. I am an affectionate person, but not the smothering clingy type of gal. I have a great sense of humour and am not afraid to laugh at myself...which I often end up doing. I like to go out, but do enjoy a slower paced life, always making time to stop and smell the roses. I have pre-teen daughter who lives with me full time so I am not able to go out without a little advance notice. If someone doesn't understand that or wishes a woman to be able to take off at a moments notice then I'll have to say that I wouldn't be a good match for you. I do not do the party bar scene, however like to have drinks or coffee on a patio or perhaps a pub. My friends describe me as a vibrant woman who has the utmost emotional strength to conquer anything life may throw my way. I have a positive outlook on life, treat others the way I'd like to be treated and am not into any mind games.LOVE being on the back of a bike....motorbike, not bicycle :) Have my own helmet that is collecting dust and being used as a hair scrunchie holder :( I'm not a neat freak, but I do like a clean and organized lifestyle. I like to have quiet time to myself to reflect and relax for those moments I need a time out :) Yes, a quiet cup of coffee first thing in the morning is a definite must for this girl...at least I admit it :) I don't watch many sports on tv except for boxing and UFC, but I don't mind a partner who enjoys watching sports...as I may read a book curled up beside him. I do though like watching any sport event in person regardless what the sport is...except something like ping pong :) I am a woman who will express myself and isn't afraid to speak up if I need to. I wish to find a genuine gentleman, someone who knows how to treat a lady properly and I'd like to treat him back the same way (as a man, not lady lol). I am not interested in being a serial dating and going out just for the sake of getting out of the house as that would be pointless if there doesn't seem to be any interest that is sparked before that initial meeting in person. I'm not much into camping for the sleeping in a tent on the ground thing as have done far too much of that in the past...though I could be brided if there are roasted marshmallows and a cot to sleep on. No I don't get dolled up to run to the grocery store...in fact I'll most likely be wearing a ball cap and Nike flip flops. (but I do enjoy spending time getting ready for a nice evening out...I just have to find a nice man to do that with :)Why do soooo many males post pics of themselves taken in a washroom? For the love of god at least put the toilet seat down when you *** :/ First date (it really isn't a date ...it should be called a "meet") should be as comfortable and easy going as possible for both of us. Meeting for a drink or coffee somewhere would appeal to me for that first initial meet...so it would be easy if one of us had to make a quick get-a-way ;) I may be a bigger girl but hell I can move quick if I gotta LOL (how about putting that cell phone away for as long as it takes to drink a coffee.....after all good manners go along way)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Italian Japanese Korean Middle Eastern Animation Horror Mystery Sci-Fi Thriller Archery Cricket
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