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Haidee, 39

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About Me

I'm sarcastic, witty, direct, and sometimes pessimistic depending on the type of glass and what's in it. I'm professionally driven and accomplished, but I'm not married to my job. I have a beautiful 9 year old daughter, who has made me a better person.I enjoy traveling, watching sports, going to concerts, and sleeping in whenever possible. I just recently discovered stand-up paddleboarding (SUP) and am hooked for life. I love baseball and football, with loyalties to 2 teams in each: Nationals, Red Sox and Redskins, Patriots. People always try to trip me up with the "what if they play each other" question, but the answer would be simple. I can't lose in that scenario. Like everyone else, I want someone who can be my best friend and partner in life. I want someone educated, funny, accomplished, confident, honest, loyal, hard-working, and capable of being ***of a complete relationship. I want someone with whom I can share my interests, but who will also introduce me to new activities and places. I'm pretty open-minded and adventurous and will try most things at least once. My ideal partner will develop a natural friendship with my daughter and be someone with whom she (and I) feels safe and comfortable. I require that he be a ruthless spider killer, willing to do certain caveman jobs around the house, and will be the big spoon.I have a lot to offer in a relationship, but it has to be a two-way exchange. One that doesn't involve me deciding where, when, and how, and hopefully ends with a hug and a chance for a second date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Glenna

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm 39 years old and I'm not into playing games or big drama...I don't know what I'm looking for exactly but I am a downTo earth person and I am open minded.I like to have intelligent conversation and I love to laugh!Life is too short to be miserable!:-)Perverts,serial killers,milf's seekers,and psycho's please stay away... If it would be summer I'd say :Basket ball court!!!

  • Chantell

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a confident girl that is always smiling. Five words to describe me are smart, funny, loyal, sensual and honest. I have a wicked sense of humor and I love to laugh - but not at the expense of others. I love sports - especially the Mighty Gators- and I adore my black lab. I am pretty laid back and nonjudgmental and admire that quality in others. I am very direct and as far from passive aggressive as they come. I am a self- I am very natural, do not like a lot of make-up and enjoy things that men talk about more than women. I hate getting my nails or hair done and abhor shopping. Picking one of those words above in the list to describe me was difficult but I love coffee so much I have to say I am very particular about it so I guess that makes me a coffee snob. I love chocolate too- could just live on the two. I do not play games and treat people the way I want to be treated, which can be my greatest fault. My motto to life is: "The first time someone shows you who they are believe them"-Dr. Maya Angelou. Another is finding a dear friend.I am always reading several books at a time- don't care what genre- when I was young I ran out of books at the library. I can never have enough. I prefer a real book to online even though I have iPads, iPhones, iPods, etc...my condo looks like a bookstore (or library!). I don't keep books when I'm done (unless technical or research material) as I feel others should benefit. Some favorite all-time movies are Office Space, Swingers, Top Gun, Shawshenk Redemption, American History X, Gladiator, The Hurricane, Kill Bill Part 2. For tv: Loved the British Office, Law and Order:SVU (DA DAM!), 24, Scrubs, Louis C.K., NCIS, Eastbound and Down. Am now into Scandal. Not a huge expensive dinner, easy going, coffee or a glass (or 2) of wine, or a football game.

  • Lanelle

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I like to take long drives in the country. I love to go out on the lake in a boat and my favorite time in a boat is when we take it up on plane and go skimming over the water, it is almost like flying. I love to travel, but I also love to come home. I like to BBQ in the summer, but it is not unusual for me to pull the cover off my grill in the winter and have BBQ in the middle of January as well. I like to try out different recipes and I have considered taking a cooking class (I just have to find the time, lol). I love to be able to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie, or cuddle in front of a fire on a cold night outside cuddled under the same blanket.(not too often, remember that cold toosh, lol) I am looking to join an gym and start a new workout routine, anyone want to help me figure one out? Family means everything to me, family includes those that are blood as well as those we choose. What I am looking for, I am looking for my best friend, a man that is good with children, a man that is even tempered, a man that is goal oriented, a man that sees what he wants and goes after it, A man that is faithful, takes responsibility for his own actions and does not blame others, communication, trust, and honesty in a relationship are a necessity for me.I am looking for FRIENDS ONLY(for now), I do not believe in casual sex, if you read above, I am only separated, not yet divorced. That being said, please do not message me if you want to have a quickie, please do not message me if you need a sex buddy, I truly am looking for friends and like minded people. I refuse to start a new relationship until the old one is completed. I do not want, nor am I ready for any commitment. So the question that I get is why a dating site for friends, well, lets be honest, no one wants to be alone, I have no intention of being alone for the rest of my life, this site does not give one the option of, "Hey, lets start out as friends and if and when the time is right maybe we can be more." Yes, eventually I will be looking for a relationship but not right now. However, I believe that any good, strong relationship should start out as friends. I don't like drama and I don't play games. Anything you want to know feel free to ask and I will be more than happy to answer. Are we in my fantasy or reality?

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