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Merla, 37

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About Me

I am a fun loving single mom, looking for a real honest guy, no games. Love to cook, camp, bike, movies, and fun with family and friends. I make jewelry, crochet blankets, and baking. Just trying to be me, in a world of pretenders. Wanting to find someone to enjoy life with, who is willing to be there 100% for me as I will be for him. Love to snuggle, buffers a must. Just hanging out getting to know each other over coffee or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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