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Merla, 37

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About Me

I am a fun loving single mom, looking for a real honest guy, no games. Love to cook, camp, bike, movies, and fun with family and friends. I make jewelry, crochet blankets, and baking. Just trying to be me, in a world of pretenders. Wanting to find someone to enjoy life with, who is willing to be there 100% for me as I will be for him. Love to snuggle, buffers a must. Just hanging out getting to know each other over coffee or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    i am looking for someone to date and c where it leads. I dnt want someone who wants me to do it all. I like going out just as much as sitting at home and enjoying the company of tht special person. Im tired of games iv played enough! I like attention so if ur interested message me!! Meeting and tlking and then deciding what should come nxt. Im not hard to please!!

  • Sybilla

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a fun, energetic, woman. Very happily busy being a mom, student, teacher, friend, etc. I have one child, a daughter almost 13 years-old. I teach during the day and I am currently in Grad. school getting my Masters Degree in Special Education. I love Disneyland and aspire to travel EVERY summer when I am done with school. I am a Martial Artist and a runner. I train ***days a week doing Martial Arts Tricking, Parkour, Tumbling, and training for half and full marathons. Would be great to find someone who would like to train with me. Martial Arts and running are my outlet...my spiritual, physical, and even my mental outlet. So of course I love the UFC (as well as other fighting organizations). I also like football and baseball. It's the Chargers and Dodgers for me. I love hanging out with my amazing friends, going to movies, and having a very occasional drink. By the way...I am a huge animal lover. I have cats, dogs, and a bunny, so if you are not into pets or are allergic, I am sad to say I am probably not the right girl for you.I am looking for a down to earth normal guy as I am just a down to earth normal lady! I am interested in a very easy slow moving relationship. I have a very busy, active life, so a homebody is not for me. I'd like someone who is not clingy, can do his own thing and let me do mine, but he needs to be as trustworthy as I am. I need to be with someone who is goal oriented, he doesn't have to have his life completely in order, but he must have a plan and be headed in the right direction. Basically I would like to find someone who's in the same place as myself so that he understands where I am coming from. I really just want someone to have fun with. Someone who has a good time no matter where he is. A trip to Disneyland, a nature hike, a quiet night in, whatever. Versatility is key. I would also love to find a person who can keep my on my toes. I tend to get bored easy so someone who can leave me guessing or is full of surprises would be more than I could ask for! If you want to talk or meet, message me...I hate the "Meet me" button on here. I can be quite shy to approach you, but I will likely respond if you message me. First dates are so awkward! A good first date might be as simple as a cup of coffee, or just hanging out and having dinner or a drink. If things go well, then it's good to have a back up plan to make the date last a little longer.

  • Lanelle

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I like to take long drives in the country. I love to go out on the lake in a boat and my favorite time in a boat is when we take it up on plane and go skimming over the water, it is almost like flying. I love to travel, but I also love to come home. I like to BBQ in the summer, but it is not unusual for me to pull the cover off my grill in the winter and have BBQ in the middle of January as well. I like to try out different recipes and I have considered taking a cooking class (I just have to find the time, lol). I love to be able to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie, or cuddle in front of a fire on a cold night outside cuddled under the same blanket.(not too often, remember that cold toosh, lol) I am looking to join an gym and start a new workout routine, anyone want to help me figure one out? Family means everything to me, family includes those that are blood as well as those we choose. What I am looking for, I am looking for my best friend, a man that is good with children, a man that is even tempered, a man that is goal oriented, a man that sees what he wants and goes after it, A man that is faithful, takes responsibility for his own actions and does not blame others, communication, trust, and honesty in a relationship are a necessity for me.I am looking for FRIENDS ONLY(for now), I do not believe in casual sex, if you read above, I am only separated, not yet divorced. That being said, please do not message me if you want to have a quickie, please do not message me if you need a sex buddy, I truly am looking for friends and like minded people. I refuse to start a new relationship until the old one is completed. I do not want, nor am I ready for any commitment. So the question that I get is why a dating site for friends, well, lets be honest, no one wants to be alone, I have no intention of being alone for the rest of my life, this site does not give one the option of, "Hey, lets start out as friends and if and when the time is right maybe we can be more." Yes, eventually I will be looking for a relationship but not right now. However, I believe that any good, strong relationship should start out as friends. I don't like drama and I don't play games. Anything you want to know feel free to ask and I will be more than happy to answer. Are we in my fantasy or reality?

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