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Lanelle, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Tishomingo

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About Me

I like to take long drives in the country. I love to go out on the lake in a boat and my favorite time in a boat is when we take it up on plane and go skimming over the water, it is almost like flying. I love to travel, but I also love to come home. I like to BBQ in the summer, but it is not unusual for me to pull the cover off my grill in the winter and have BBQ in the middle of January as well. I like to try out different recipes and I have considered taking a cooking class (I just have to find the time, lol). I love to be able to cuddle on the couch and watch a movie, or cuddle in front of a fire on a cold night outside cuddled under the same blanket.(not too often, remember that cold toosh, lol) I am looking to join an gym and start a new workout routine, anyone want to help me figure one out? Family means everything to me, family includes those that are blood as well as those we choose. What I am looking for, I am looking for my best friend, a man that is good with children, a man that is even tempered, a man that is goal oriented, a man that sees what he wants and goes after it, A man that is faithful, takes responsibility for his own actions and does not blame others, communication, trust, and honesty in a relationship are a necessity for me.I am looking for FRIENDS ONLY(for now), I do not believe in casual sex, if you read above, I am only separated, not yet divorced. That being said, please do not message me if you want to have a quickie, please do not message me if you need a sex buddy, I truly am looking for friends and like minded people. I refuse to start a new relationship until the old one is completed. I do not want, nor am I ready for any commitment. So the question that I get is why a dating site for friends, well, lets be honest, no one wants to be alone, I have no intention of being alone for the rest of my life, this site does not give one the option of, "Hey, lets start out as friends and if and when the time is right maybe we can be more." Yes, eventually I will be looking for a relationship but not right now. However, I believe that any good, strong relationship should start out as friends. I don't like drama and I don't play games. Anything you want to know feel free to ask and I will be more than happy to answer. Are we in my fantasy or reality?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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