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Kendall, 40

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About Me

I am 40 years old. I was married for almost 20 years.I lost my husband 3 years ago to cancer. I am experiencing the empty nest syndrome alittle early considering I had my children early, and they are now 19 and 23. I miss having day to day companionship and having someone to come home to. I'm ready to start the next chapter in my life and just want to find someone to share it with.I am a very independent person. But at the same time , I have old fashioned values, and still believe in taking care of the person I'm with. I believe a relationship is a two way street and you have to give as much as you get.I consider myself to be a very honest,thoughtful and caring person. I always put others feelings into consideration. I think sometimes I can be too nice to a fault. But I am not naive. I have been through a lot, and now I basically just live for today , and realize that we aren't guaranteed tomorrow. I don't sweat the small things in life, I've seen that things can be much worse. I really have no room in my life for drama or games. If you're looking for someone with a perfect little body, then I'm not your girl. But if you're looking for a genuine, loyal, honest woman (like most of you claim to be), who knows how to treat a man, then maybe you can look past a couple of extra pounds.You might be surprised. I have a great personality, so I've been told,and I have to admit, I think I can be pretty hilarious,lol. I also recently discovered a fitness bootcamp, and started working out on a regular basis, and really enjoying getting fit,so if you like me with a few extra pounds, it can only get better. I'm totally new to this dating thing, but since I'm not into the bar scene, I thought I'd give this a shot. Doesn't look too hopeful so far, but only time will tell. Coffee, lunch or dinner

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Why are they still having large families when they are living on the streets, wearing rags and eating out of dumpsters??? Hopefully, this information will reach the developing world -hopefully some sense will evolve and cause people to start thinking and have one or no children if they can give them the love and nourishment these young people deserve.Pet Peeves: common nonsense, "phones"Hitler took Austria using the red herring strategy. This is a warning. America is truly is the greatest country in the world. Don’t let freedom slip away.I am interested in MEETING men to see if there is chemistry. A quick meeting over a drink, etc. makes sense. I don't drink afternoon or evening coffee. A glass of wine at a nice place where we can get to know eachother is enjoyable. If you can't meet a week or two after contacting me, it won't be necessary to contact me. It is a senseless waste of time for both parties to text/email each other back and forth *** meeting. I don't chat.Show me you are a good guy by your actions. Talk is still the cheapest commodity on earth.It's not ladylike to chase a man, so even if I like a guy, I won't chase him; it's demeaning.I am blessed to have a vast network of friends and enjoy lots of fun events and activities, so if I don't meet a respectable gentlemen, it's not a big deal. If you are not looking for a relationship, I am not looking to meet you.To sum up, I am concerned about the future and the quality of life (and survival) for animals as well people.Thank you! I would like to date an intelligent, educated, sophisticated, thoughtful gentlemen who knows how to treat a lady. I would like a date that includes conversation so we can get to know eachother. I will not go on a first date to a sports bar. If I really like the gentlemen, I am open to a relationship. I like to go to new places and do new activities - variety is the spice of life!I am single and will only date a single man. 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