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Lael, 38

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About Me

Back to give this site a 2nd try hopefully with some better luck. I'm not your typical female and am well worth the time to get to know. Even though I didn't find a relationship here before I have made some great friends out of it. I love my job, I'm a full time student and I have 3 kids. I play softball once a week and love it. In my free time I enjoy spending time with my friends and relaxing. Love to be outdoors.... The lake, camping, Pismo dunes.... Just about anything. I'm a social person so I do enjoy having a few drinks with my friends when I get the chance. I'm a very genuine person and don't play games, I expect the same from others. I am the type that would do anything to help those I care about. I don't take things too seriously, love to laugh and am a bit of a smart ass at times. I like just about all types of music, like to dance and concerts are always fun. Would love to meet someone who really values the meaning of being friends first and getting to know eachother. Not looking to jump into anything serious too quickly but also not looking for a physical relationship without a good foundation first. So don't waste your time or mine unless you feel the same. I do prefer men who are tall 5'***'3 since I live in heels but would never pass up someone with an awesome personality. Something casual, maybe lunch or coffee. Something that gives us a chance to talk and see if there is any connection. I really do prefer that a man plans the first date..... Says a lot about his character.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am adventurous, motivated, successful woman with a huge heart. I am a mixed breed of sorts....comfortable in pretty much any environment. I like my quiet time and being casual, but also enjoy getting glammed up for a night on the town:) I am educated and was raised on the east coast. I love to scuba dive and would love to meet a man who is up for adventure. I like anything that makes me think....creative arts, photography, music, and literature. I am a creative person and I enjoy my own hobbies. I have a job that I love, but it can be a high stakes, high stress job too. I have lived and learned some hard lessons about how important leading a balanced is. I would like to meet someone who understands the importance of leading a balanced lifestyle. Spirituality is an important part of my life. The spirit is just one of many components of who were are as individuals.I have high hopes that I will find the right relationship...when the time is right. I am not in a rush and I am not a serial dater. I love to travel. Ideally, I want someone in my life who is both emotionally and physically available. That said, I must emphasize that I have my own life and I fully expect my man to have his. I have been an independent woman for a long time and I don't have the patience for clingy, needy behavior. I am hoping to find that healthy mutually giving relationship. A relationship that is based on what we can offer to each-other and has a balance of strengths and weaknesses that work in harmony. There is that word "balance" again. :)Please note that I am a woman of integrity. I will not date a man who is "married, going through a divorce, separated, or any other version of split but not "final". Final means final. Please do not send me mean messages or try to make an argument as to why I should date you if you happen to fall into my DEAL BREAKER category.I should also mention that my children are older. Ages 21 and 14. My oldest is going to be graduating from college next year and no longer lives at home. My youngest is home part-time. I worked hard raising my kids and I am looking forward to exploring some new found freedom now that they are older and more independent. First dates can be tough, but don't have to be. Lets take it slow and see if there is chemistry. How about something simple to see if we connect? We can talk about dream dates later... :)

  • Patria

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a single mother. .a teacher ..a student..and a soldier. I put ***% into everything that is important to me. I am straight forward and honest to a fault. I enjoy everything from cinderella tea parties with my 2 year old to skiing and country concerts with my 17 year old. I live a completely drama free life and intend on keeping it that way..:) Im not on here looking for a quick hook up or someone just to pass the time with. So if thats your game plan..please ..keep walking..I would enjoy meeting someone who is of a similar mind set at this stage of the game. I have absolutely no regrets..and Regardless of life experiences..I am right where I supposed to be!!!

  • Madelyn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hi there, well I figured I should re-write some of this since things have not been working out very well. So here I go; I would like only real men to message me!!! I don't want to be messaging for months, then texting for months to then just go out on one date and realize that we don't have any chemistry. I am a very young 38 year old woman but I don't want to be wasting my time or yours. I'm looking to date and if something clicks, great!!! If it doesn't click, lesson learned. I like to have fun where ever I am, just being silly and laughing. I like hanging out with my friends and family. I enjoy camping, hiking and really anything outdoors. I pretty much like all kinds of music. Drinks.

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