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Lael, 38

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About Me

Back to give this site a 2nd try hopefully with some better luck. I'm not your typical female and am well worth the time to get to know. Even though I didn't find a relationship here before I have made some great friends out of it. I love my job, I'm a full time student and I have 3 kids. I play softball once a week and love it. In my free time I enjoy spending time with my friends and relaxing. Love to be outdoors.... The lake, camping, Pismo dunes.... Just about anything. I'm a social person so I do enjoy having a few drinks with my friends when I get the chance. I'm a very genuine person and don't play games, I expect the same from others. I am the type that would do anything to help those I care about. I don't take things too seriously, love to laugh and am a bit of a smart ass at times. I like just about all types of music, like to dance and concerts are always fun. Would love to meet someone who really values the meaning of being friends first and getting to know eachother. Not looking to jump into anything serious too quickly but also not looking for a physical relationship without a good foundation first. So don't waste your time or mine unless you feel the same. I do prefer men who are tall 5'***'3 since I live in heels but would never pass up someone with an awesome personality. Something casual, maybe lunch or coffee. Something that gives us a chance to talk and see if there is any connection. I really do prefer that a man plans the first date..... Says a lot about his character.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Di

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a very outgoing person that tends to take life as it comes. I'm very versatile...I can hang with guys watching football or I can glam up for a night on the town. I have a 13 yr old son that I have shared custody of as well. I'm hoping to meet someone that will turn into something long term, so if you only have intentions of playing field then please move on. I don't have time for pen pals so if you're over an hour away, that's not gonna work for me. You can't build a relationship if you're only able to see someone periodically. I’m not looking for a sugar daddy, I have my bills covered. Which means, if you don't have your ducks in a row as well, you're not for me. My biggest pet peeve is dishonesty. We're all adults...say what u feel...tactfully if the situations renders it, but say it. Dating shouldn't be a guessing game. Neither person wants their time wasted.

  • Kaitlin

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Alright well here goes nothin! I'm not one to really talk about myself so I don't know how well I'm going to do but I'm gonna take a shot at it. I am a single mom of 7 kids. 3,5,10,11,15,17,20 I have been a stay at home mom all of their lives. I enjoy being a kid myself so it's been the biggest blessing to me. My kids are my world. I will say one thing about me that I dont usually say is i have a huge heart and will do just about anything for the people i care about. its my best AND worst quality. I am a very kick back chill person with a ton of patience (most of the time) lolI love the beach, going to the desert quad or mx riding. We also spend a lot of time at the pool or the park. I love most any kind of music and just being silly. I truly am a big kid at heart. I'm the mom all the neighbor kids love being around. I take all of them to scary movies and places like knots scary farm. That's my kind of fun. I have a soft spot for guys with tattoos. I find them so sexy. I have a few myself. So the reason I'm on here is because I would love to meet and get to know people and possibly start a relationship. It all comes with time and I believe there is someone out there that is my soulmate. I just need to find him. So message me if you want to talk or just say hi =) So many options. I'm pretty simple so let's talk :)

  • Jannah

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am eccentric, passionate, intelligent, honest, hilarious, and deeply moved by the world. I do everything intensely, which tends to both fascinate and scare the people around me. If you have led an interesting life, I'd love to talk with you. Bonus if you're from the south, having grown up there myself.Hobbies: art. I do both fine art and make masquerade masks. I study esoteric subjects, religion, tarot, kabbalah, alchemy, psychology, mythology...you get the point. I read! I love trying new foods, movies (huge film buff) korean drama, japanese game shows, martial arts movies, horror, so much to say here! I LOVE music, the old classics like Charlie Feathers and Beethoven, to current music, even dubstep and reggae.I am looking to make friends with interesting people who will be brave enough to be real! History favors the bold. I will be open to more for the right man. He wrote, "There is no passion in nature so demoniacally impatient, as that of him who, shuddering upon the edge of a precipice, thus meditates a Plunge.” Ask me and I'll tell you all about it! Getting something to eat at a new joint, seeing an obscure horror movie at the Grand Illusion theater, seeing a concert, or just getting coffee if that's your speed.

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