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Alayah, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Sulphur

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About Me

I love to go out and have a good time. I'm pretty easy going for the most part. I'm adventurous to a point, but I'm not crazy. If you want me to respond you need to be creative. Do NOT waste my time or yours by sending me a 1 word message. If you can not take the time to read my profile and put some effort into a message to me; I will not put effort into responding to you.You must be driven, respectful, mature, funny, and grown. I prefer intelligence over the airbrushed media version of attractive. If you can hold a conversation and have a wicked sense of humor, we will get along just fine.I'm a real woman not a little girl and expect to be treated as such. I have curves and am very comfortable in my own skin. I don't mind looking like an average soccer mom on a daily basis, however I love to look nice when I'm going out on the town.I love to laugh and have a good time. I love music. I tend to prefer old school gangsta rap, R&B and Rock. I like the water, love to travel and try new things. I do a lot of charity work and enjoy helping people that are less fortunate. I can be a goofball and I love sports. I like to run with my dog but dont work out. My dog is niether cute nor fluffy. He is a beast but he is my best friend.For the most part I dont concern myself with the unpleasant or mundane. Which may make me mildly irresponsible when it comes to tasks I dont like. I despise drama but understand at our age we all have a past and life doesn't equal drama.My kids come first. 2 of my 8 children are adopted african americans so you must not be racist or intolerant. 4 of my kids still live at home but only 3 of them are underage. They already have a Father, and I dont introduce men to my underage children. My adult children do enjoy hanging out with me and are old enough to join me for a night out and tend to do so often. If some of my profile sounds harsh its because some creeper already went there in the few days since I posted my profile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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