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Jude, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Stroud

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About Me

I know exactly what I want in life. I'm at a very good place in my life and I'm ready to settle down with that special person....as long as the chemistry is there. :) However, I'm looking for a very sweet, very nice and great guy. I'm looking for my best friend, as well as a long term relationship that could turn into more if it is right. I have two kids, who are now 18 and 20. My kids are older, but they are my still my world. However, I'm very open to someone who has younger children. I love kids of all ages. I love to laugh. Laughing and smiling are very important to me. And I believe communication is key for any and all types of relationships. I really believe in being able to share and talk about almost everything.I'm looking for a very honest, funny, very sweet, loving, caring, romantic and dependable guy who knows exactly what he wants. I'm not looking for a guy who needs me to help them get over their ex or is indecisive about what they want. And please, no users, liars, cheaters and players. (Please see additional comment recently added below.)A great quote I read once I truly believe - "People won't rememeber what you said; People won't remember what you did; People will remember how you made them feel." That is so true!UPDATE - After some experiences I've encountered on this site, I've realized it's time to update my profile. I am looking for a honest & faithful type of man who is also hoping to find his last first date. I am not, and never have been, attracted to liars, players, cheaters, serial daters and men who hop from one woman to another. I know some women find these men as intriguing and are attracted to the challenge. However, I am not one of these women. I see these men and behavior as a turn-off. So, if you are one of these men as described here or if you are seeing and/or talking to multiple woman on this site & others, then you are not the man for me. Also, if you currently have a girlfriend and you're on a dating website, then shame on you. But, if you're single and you're looking for your special someone too, then I would love to hear from you. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Running / Jogging Music Mystery
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