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Jon, 37
United States, Oklahoma, Snyder

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About Me

NORMAL – I’m a normal girl, I’m simply looking for someone who can grow to love me and all of my quirks, I’m looking for someone who is faithful and honest, someone who will put the work it takes to pull off the greatest long-term relationship in history with the expected hope of possibly getting married again down the road, or at least a committed one. I’m a relationship type of girl and that's what you should be.. minus the "girl" part. Yes, I want kids someday, but my focus isn’t on kids .. it’s on having a love that I can’t live without. If I can get that, kids will naturally come. And if they don’t, I will still feel fulfilled.GIRLIE – I’m girlie – yes, that means romantic movies, manicures/pedicures, and thinking of those darned dandelions in the yard as flowers. I have a SUPER fluffy cat that I curl up to and who keeps my feet warm in the winter. I like when my guy picks me flowers (especially flowers you find in nature as it takes more effort to do that). I like the thought that people put into things. I like the color pink (but yellow is my favorite color, followed closely by red). I will go out of my way to look nice for my guy. I will smile at the thought of him and think of him often throughout the day, although I may not tell him until I’m comfortable with him. I take care in how I look for him. Sometimes, I will do funky things with my toe polish and I have my “wild woman” times – I am cutesy and giggly sometimes. SELF-SUFFICIENT – Yes, I like manicures, pedicures, getting my hair done and every other girlie thing on the planet. NO, I do not want/expect you to pay for it. If I can’t pay for it, I will do without it. It makes me a tad bit uncomfortable to take things from people because I provide for me. It also makes me feel indebted, which causes me shame. SO, I don’t need you for money. I work for what I want. As such, you don’t have to be rich. But, you need to be able to afford your own life’s choices and support your own lifestyle separate from me. JOKER – I laugh a lot! I laugh at me and everything around me. I’m always laughing, joking around, I’m playful and light-hearted and silly… BUT, it may take me trusting you to get me to be that way around you. This leads me to my next point …GUARDED - I’m kind of guarded at this point. I’d love nothing better than to let my hair down, but I need to build trust first. I don’ I do tend to give the benefit of the doubt.PASSIONATE – I’m a very passionate person. I like intimacy, I like being close and feeling close to someone. I give massages, I love to hug and cuddle, and I adore kissing. And when I love, I go ALL IN and focus all of my energy at that person (because LOVE is first and foremost on my life map – everything else is secondary). I don’t hold anything back and I am looking for the same. If you don’t open yourself up and let yourself be vulnerable to someone, you won’t let them near your heart. CAREER-MINDED/SMART - I’m focused, driven and achievement-oriented. I’ve now got my MBA in both Finance and Management from RIT. Admittedly, I’m not where I want to be with my career, but I’m actively working on it. I want someone to be working on their career if they don’t like where they are. You have a choice about how you live your life: own the choices you make or make better choices.SELF-IMPROVEMENT – I’m focused on making myself the best I can be. This means, I’ll always be trying to make my body (read: workout) and mind (read: life experiences, books, whatever it takes) better and it’s important to me that I meet someone who has the same mentality. Yes, I have lazy moments and I get tired, but I try my best. I like to curl up with my kitty and watch TV some nights when I’m feeling lazy. :)DEDICATED – When I’m in a relationship, I don’t turn tail and run at the first sign of hardship. If something is not working, I WORK on it, I don’t BAIL. I try to understand the other side, even if I don’t agree with it, and I try to make sure he has what he needs in the relationship to feel good about it. I’m attentive, giving and I love to do nice things for the guy in my life. I’m hoping to find someone who can do the same, to be a friend and a partner.ROMANTIC – I love slow dancing, holding hands, long kisses, touching, etc. I daydream about the guy, I send “I’m thinking of you” texts, I try to give small surprises frequently, I try HARD to make him smile… INQUISITIVE – I ask a ton of questions at first. I like to see how you respond to my questions, how you word your answers, and of course, I like to know what the answers are! All of these things help me get to know you. MUSICAL – I sing loudly in the car, I love to dance (there’s no greater freedom for me than dancing), I can’t play an ***, but I’DOWN TO EARTH – I fish with my dad (I don’t eat them because I don’t like fish, nor do I bait the hook – see “girlie” from above). I like to go camping with my family (camping and bike riding are a couple of my favorite things! WOO HOO - bonfires, smores & hobos!), I love my niece and nephews and playing Twister with them. I adore kids and playing with them.OPEN TO EXPERIENCES - I want to see new things, make life fun and discover my purpose. I want someone open to doing the same. Please do NOT be:o Closed-minded or mean, or feel you have the patent on truth (can't listen or consider another's opinion or are overly opinionated or c o c k y)o "That guy" with responses like “whatup,” men who can’t spell or form a sentence (we learn language, English, writing, spelling, etc. for K-12o Someone who still lives at home at age ***with no plans for your life)o Someone on welfare or social services (I support myself and put myself through school)o Too serious (can't laugh or be happy)o Someone who can't commito Someone who can't be openo Someone who lacks values/moralso Insensitive/jerkisho NOT family orientedo A serial dater with no long-term objectiveo Someone who bails at the sign of hardship o Someone who hates kidsDEAL BREAKERS:o If you're a LIAR, do NOT contact me. o If you are a CHEATER, do NOT contact me. o If you are a PLAYER, do NOT contact me.Most other things are negotiable. Coffee or tea.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Spanish Turkish Golf
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