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Elaina, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Skiatook

Offline, last seen Mon, 18 May 2026 10:36:55

About Me

I don't like drama or playing games. I am honest, affectionate, patient, giving, and caring. I appreciate people who have similar qualities. I am also serious, silly, quiet, talkative, uncomplicated, complex, unpretentious, sophisticated, predictable, and spontaneous. I am always told I'm easy to talk to and comfortable to be around. I love unconditionally and am unequivocally loyal to those I love.I am not interested in casual dating. I'm not even interested in making friends. I'm looking for the right person to share the rest of my life with. I'm looking for a man who has a relationship with God and puts God's will above his own. A man who is strong in character, but at the same time has a tender heart. Someone who is able to put aside his ego, pride, and fears and communicate with me on the most intimate level. And last but not least, a man who truly knows how to love, and believes, like me, that love is not just a feeling. It is an action and often it is a conscious choice that we must make. You can "love" someone (feelings) and never "love" (actions) them. In order for a relationship to work, each person must do both and the only way to truly do that is to keep God at the center of it.I am at a happy, healthy point in my life emotionally and otherwise. Though ultimately I am looking to get married, that does not mean I want to rush into anything. I would love to have someone to share life with now, but I am willing to wait until I find the right person. P.S. I am a full-time single mom, have a full-time job, and soon will also be a full-time graduate student. I have a profile on another dating site as well. I receive dozens of responses each day from this one alone. It is not possible for me to respond to every one. So, please be understanding and don't be offended if you message me and I don't reply. Also, because I use the meetville app on my phone, I am often NOT online when it says I am. I realize most people find it rude not to respond, but the messages I've been receiving due to my lack of response, are far more rude in my opinion. So, I'd like to thank you in advance if you message me. And best wishes to everyone in your search :) I am not into the bar/partying scene whatsoever. I do, however, like coffee shops, restaurants, lakes, the beach, parks, museums, etc. Seeing a movie is definitely not ideal for a first date, in my opinion, as I would like to be able to talk and get to know you. FYI... For those of you who say no one ever reads profiles, you're wrong . If your message catches my attention, I will read your profile before I decide to write you. It's disappointing that most of the time there is nothing to read. ***temporarily taking a break from this site***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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