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Lesley, 39

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I can be a little shy and reserved at first, but before long I'll be joking and laughing up a storm. You'll find I am a good listener, honest communicator, supportive friend, and I surround myself with people who are as well.I'm driven by intellectual pursuits and my career, but I also enjoy being active, working out at least 3 times a week (mostly Zumba). Nothing is more important than friends and family.- the neighborhood festivals, the restaurants, the theatre, the virtual absence of snow! What's not to like? (Don't say "the traffic"!)In my free time I enjoy watching movies, tv, and live theater, Zumba, Pilates, swimming, trying new restaurants, going to baseball games, playing trivia games, cooking, golfing, and reading. Favorite bands - Ben Folds (Five), Weezer, 10,***Maniacs, Matt Nathanson and the like. Also gotta love the classics like The Beatles and Stevie Wonder!Movies - Mob movies and comedies! The Godfather and Anchorman are both brilliant in their own rights!TV -Sports - Baseball and basketball for watching. (Go, Cubs, go!) For doing it's cycling, hiking, and swimming. My ideal match will share most of my interests, broaden my horizons with additional interests, and challenge me intellectually. He'll appreciate that I'm independent, successful and grounded because he is, too. We'll have both witty banter and serious talks as we get to know each other. Ok, I've thrown a lot out there - probably too much - so I'll leave you with this:Overall, my friends describe me as being smart, funny and compassionate. If that's the type of person you're looking for, write to me! The actual activity of the first date could be lots of things - bar trivia, baseball game, museum visit, bowling, etc. What's important that it allows for conversation but also provides an activity to take off any pressure. If we're a good match, we'll have fun doing just about anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Reese

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I would like to find a good guy. To me, that means someone that is sweet, considerate, attractive, giving, and fun. He is also open to a full time relationship and sharing his life with someone special. He is a person that is respectful, and confident in himself and WHO HE IS. He stands up for me and doesn't believe in drama. And, if we become serious, he will put our relationship first. He will want to be my friend AND lover. I am responsible; however, I can still be very goofy and funny. I would like my mate to play along with me. Playful & intelligent banter is stimulating. I love to be flirtatious with my guy and find it very alluring if he is secure, open, and classy. I am outgoing around my friends & family and can't find too many strangers. However, I truly believe in quality over quantity. I am looking for someone who will want to go out and DO things... I want to go out and have some fun!!! I can even be caught listening to the likes of Aerosmith to Bob Marley!! The music choice depends on the moment and the atmosphere. (Anything that calls for little white lights, a view of the water, and a bottle of good wine is my type of atmosphere.) My interests range from cooking & baking; to decorating; working out; pottery; painting; drawing; reading; entertaining & grilling out with friends; shopping; and home improvements. I am respectful to those around me and expect my mate to be the same.; mountains, and outside festivals & concerts. I am really open for any type of adventure; or, just staying in and cuddling on the couch while watching a good movie. I even like drinking a few adult beverages with friends at a bar and going dancing!! The more friends the merrier!Thank you for reading my profile. Please send me an e-mail to say "hi" if you are looking for similar things. Someplace where we can talk and get to know each other to see if there is chemistry. Maybe dinner and/or a few drinks.

  • Shirley

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm an extroverted european social butterfly (ENTP) and match well with men that have same kind of personality. If it's Wednesday and you don't know what to do Friday we are not a good match. I have passion for live music and shows, big cities, mountains, ocean, people, summer, bikini, tiki bars, kids, adrenaline kicks and great bodies. I am very "say it as it is", if you are sensitive we won't fit. I am busy and I like it like that. ***I'm not looking for a NSA or fwb relationship. I'm not against them, but it's a time for everything. If we fall in love that would be fantastic! (and you will have a sexy woman forever ;- I like to know your personality first, but not pen pals that's just waste of time. I might delete you if you just want to *** I like to be nr.1, the center of attention. Nothing like the real thing baby!My kids are 5 & 13 with shared custody. I do not want more kids, but it is fun and easier if you have kids too. If you aren't into being fit and eating healthy we won't get along since you will die of starvation if I choose the food. We all like visual attraction. I like my man fit, because it is sexy and healthy to me. My philosophy is that if women can stay in shape after giving birth to a couple of kids then men can definitely do it. Sooooooo if you read all that and looked at my pictures, you should have an idea of my personality.....***WHAT I LOVE: -fun -beaches -Coco Nut Joe's -Thievery Corportation -kids -fruit -vegetables -an active life -live music --NYC -sex -people -e&a -entertainment(entertain me :~) -white wine -happy hour -six packs -dancing -mountains -airshows -horse back riding(yee ha) -girls night out(dancing on the tables) -skiing -new people(new stories) -science -psychology -museums -Asian Food -9:30 club -MUSIC -events&adventure -echostage -to party "It's possible," said Pride"It's risky," said Experience "It's pointless," said Reason"Give it a try," whispered the Heart.AnonymousI prefer to do a first date doing something fun. This way if we decide that we are not a great romantic match, we both can have fun anyway. I think you see people's personality better when you do activities.

  • Dori

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Summer has come and gone. Sad to see it go but am looking forward to fall and all its glory. Looking for someone to enjoy the fall weather, walks in a park admiring the colors of our surroundings, quiet romantic dinners, or a competitive game of some sort. Someone who can keep up with sarcasm and dish it out as well will help keep me grounded. Snuggling under a blanket at a bonfire or at a football game also would be a bonus. I am a tom boy at heart but can clean up pretty well. I enjoy sports so you need to make room for me on Saturday afternoons for the college game! I am fortunate enough to have been teaching in the same district for 18 years. I love my job, love my students and am very dedicated to impacting the youth in a positive way. Raising my kids to be honest, caring, productive members of society is also important to me. Looking for a guy who is willing to be honest about who they are, what they are looking for and has the integrity to be honest with me. If something changes your interest after we have been talking, tell me...I CAN HANDLE IT. I am not some psycho chic that is gonna hunt you down, just be real. Things change, people change, people meet other people...I am a grown up and can handle it. Sick of the men saying they don't want drama or games but then turn around and would win the most drama award. Just keep it real, please!!

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