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I like to hang out and do a lot of "normal" things. Bowling, going to movies, eating out, cooking and enjoying a nice bottle of wine, walking around our many lakes too. In the summer I tend to hang out at my neighborhood pool a lot with my three kids and go fishing also at my family cabin.I hope to eventually find someone who I can be with in a committed relationship again. I am happy being single too but I also do look forward to being part of a couple again. When I am with someone I like to spend time a couple days a week with them too - even if just for a couple hours each time. It makes me feel like we are still connected even when we're apart - to remember the fun we had when we were together. Texting is a fun way to stay in touch when we're apart as well, but still nothing like being in the same room with someone you really like.Things I'm looking for in a guy I guess would be first and foremost honesty - I've dealt with a couple that weren't and it just end badly when you can't be up front and honest. I would like whoever I am with to have a good sense of humor and not take life too seriously either. I am not looking for someone that has to be at the gym every day but also knows how to take care of themselves and takes pride in their appearance, but hasn't "let themselves go" either. Someone who has good family values and knows how to treat a woman he's with - how to make her feel cherished and loved. And knows how to treat his kids and my kids right (if a relationship gets to the point where I introduce them to my kids).I tend to like just about every kind of music except extremely heavy metal or rap - I just don't get either of those types of music. Other than that my range is pretty wide -I do like to let whoever I am in a relationship with at the time know that I appreciate them and like them to do the same to me. A lot of times its the little things that let each other know that you appreciate them and love them too. I have been described by friends as a great listener and friend who is there for them whenever they need me.FYI about me...I'm severely allergic to cats and dogs, so if you have one or the other we probably won't be a good match. A lot of people don't pay attention to this paragraph and end up *** anyways. Its not that I don't like cats and/or dogs - its that I cannot be around them for more than an hour without my throat starting to close up on me and it gets tough to breathe. Sorry if this is a deal breaker for anyone. but its just part of who I am. Also, I do consider myself conservative too...so if you consider your political beliefs more on the liberal side we probably wouldn't get along too well either. I'm not outspoken about politics at all but its hard to have a relationship with someone who feels so differently than you do about some pretty big things in life.If you have any other questions about this just ask away - I will answer just about anything you ask. Well depending on what type of date it is it can differ. On a typical first date I'd tend to just meet either for lunch or for coffee or drinks - possibly dinner if we hit it off. From there we'd have to see how we get along and on future dates try to plan them out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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