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Stella, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Skiatook

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I like to hang out and do a lot of "normal" things. Bowling, going to movies, eating out, cooking and enjoying a nice bottle of wine, walking around our many lakes too. In the summer I tend to hang out at my neighborhood pool a lot with my three kids and go fishing also at my family cabin.I hope to eventually find someone who I can be with in a committed relationship again. I am happy being single too but I also do look forward to being part of a couple again. When I am with someone I like to spend time a couple days a week with them too - even if just for a couple hours each time. It makes me feel like we are still connected even when we're apart - to remember the fun we had when we were together. Texting is a fun way to stay in touch when we're apart as well, but still nothing like being in the same room with someone you really like.Things I'm looking for in a guy I guess would be first and foremost honesty - I've dealt with a couple that weren't and it just end badly when you can't be up front and honest. I would like whoever I am with to have a good sense of humor and not take life too seriously either. I am not looking for someone that has to be at the gym every day but also knows how to take care of themselves and takes pride in their appearance, but hasn't "let themselves go" either. Someone who has good family values and knows how to treat a woman he's with - how to make her feel cherished and loved. And knows how to treat his kids and my kids right (if a relationship gets to the point where I introduce them to my kids).I tend to like just about every kind of music except extremely heavy metal or rap - I just don't get either of those types of music. Other than that my range is pretty wide -I do like to let whoever I am in a relationship with at the time know that I appreciate them and like them to do the same to me. A lot of times its the little things that let each other know that you appreciate them and love them too. I have been described by friends as a great listener and friend who is there for them whenever they need me.FYI about me...I'm severely allergic to cats and dogs, so if you have one or the other we probably won't be a good match. A lot of people don't pay attention to this paragraph and end up *** anyways. Its not that I don't like cats and/or dogs - its that I cannot be around them for more than an hour without my throat starting to close up on me and it gets tough to breathe. Sorry if this is a deal breaker for anyone. but its just part of who I am. Also, I do consider myself conservative too...so if you consider your political beliefs more on the liberal side we probably wouldn't get along too well either. I'm not outspoken about politics at all but its hard to have a relationship with someone who feels so differently than you do about some pretty big things in life.If you have any other questions about this just ask away - I will answer just about anything you ask. Well depending on what type of date it is it can differ. On a typical first date I'd tend to just meet either for lunch or for coffee or drinks - possibly dinner if we hit it off. From there we'd have to see how we get along and on future dates try to plan them out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ...Intotheocean! ...Playacar, my little home away from home!Une naturelle, sweet, fun woman enjoying life and looking for my best friend-lover to share our values, some activities and great chemistry. Outdoor week-ends (mainly for hiking) and travelling in other countries (pour l'aventure, les différentes villes et cultures, les paysages et etc) are activities I enjoy the most. Et un tout-inclus de temps en temps, why not! Un homme aimant le plein air et ayant une passion semblable pour les voyages is greatly welcome.Une bonne santé (à tous les niveaux), les valeurs humaines fondamentales et la richesse des expériences dans la vie (relations/loisirs/voyages) ont plus d'importance pour moi que les biens matériels. I can be happy with little, I'm very grateful for simple pleasures and sweet moments of life. Je profite de la vie maintenant et en accordant une grande place à ma vie privée (famille, amoureux, amies, loisirs, projets personnels/rêves à réaliser). To me, there's much more to Life than things and work, and a person has a beautiful value by her inside qualities. J'aime prendre le temps de vivre. Je préfère travailler moins (4 jours/sem) pour avoir une meilleure qualité de vie/ un bon équilibre entre mes différentes activités. J'habite en ville pour la proximité de tout mais j'aime me retrouver en pleine nature les week-ends. Le respect, la considération, la communication et l'humour caractérisent mes relations. I'm mostly attracted by a man who's honest, genuine (not superficial), intelligent and open-minded. Un homme well and happy by himself, easy-going et affectueux. And he will mostly get my attention by talking about his values, activities/passions and experiences.Thanks for letting me see your pics,Au plaisir d'échanger!Quelques pensées..."Le plus grand bien que nous puissions faire aux autres n'est pas de leur communiquer notre richesse mais de leur révéler la leur. "A person is rich in proportion to the number of things she can afford to let alone.""Be the change you want to see in the world" For many reasons, I do not put time on: chatting, *** (do not have a cell phone). I like to keep things simple. If we both feel like it, I'll be happy we meet and have a great conversation over a drink/good wine. Anything casual and relax.

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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