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Frieda, 38

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About Me

I'm a gal who knows what she wants....I'm laid back - know how to have fun - love to cycle the canal..I'm a little hippie, preppy, country...- with confidence...but humility to see their deficits - I'm very independent and very feminine.....and desire a man with whom I can relax and let him be the man and me be the woman.-) Also, even though two of my photos were taken in a bar - I rarely go - am not a barfly - and very rarely drink. One of those pics was Thanksgiving ***and the other New Years ***and I was the designated driver both times. Those two trips to the bar are the only ones in the last two years. So I've been told, time after time, what I search for does not exist.... I believe it does, and I don't mind waiting for it! :)Tired of the same old thing. Looking for something with meaning. I want the whole package. Physical, emotional, sexual, mental, and chemistry. All or nothing. A mind blowing connection. Romance, sharing, pillow talk, passion, loyalty, companionship, intimacy, lust, longing, butterflies, good conversation, friendship, no lies, complete trust, sincerity, total honesty, and most important, no BS. So tired of the games that come with dating in general. Loyalty, truth and honesty are the "MOST" important things to me in a relationship. If you lack these very important qualities, please don't waste my time. Jealousy, and controlling personalities are a big turn off!! Someone who always has my back, as I will his. Even if we do not always agree or find ourselves annoyed with each other (as happens in any relationship from time to time).My deal breakers-jail bird-too short for me-lacks desire for adventure-looks to me to plan everything-alcoholic or drug addict-not self aware-complainer-doesn't know how to live and manage his life and achieve most goals-lacking security in his passion-lacks intelligenceMy preferences-active-tall-easy to laugh-self fulfilled-secure in who you are- a man's man-enthusiasm for lots of things especially the passionate sortsWhat I bring to the table-confidence-intelligence-great passion and enthusiasm-I say what I mean and mean what I say-when I give my word - you can bank on it-easy to laugh-independent-loyalty-education (BYU grad)-a soft and safe place to come home to-nurturing - and I'd like for you to be that way too - but not to a claustrophobic intensity-know how to appreciate and show appreciation-loves adventure-would love for the right guy to take me fishing - I love it....and I've never hunted...but would enjoy that, too! But I hope that isn't your only hobby...The sooner we meet - the sooner we will know if there is chemistryWill write more later.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Piedad

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm not in a hurry or a serial dater. I'm just looking to meet one man i'd like to call my boyfriend someday. My profile says I do not want children but that just means at my age I'm not planning on birthing any, It's totally fine if you have children. My bestie has 5 kids ages 3 to 15 and 3 of them are special needs that she adopted and I love them like my own and will be taking some or all of them if something were to ever happen to her. I'm kid friendly and they love me like i'm candy flavored or something, lol. I just never had any of my own.I'm very loyal to those who are close in my life. I love the water and being near the water. It's like my version of church to be on the shore of an ocean or great lake. I dont need you to bait my hook or take my fish off. I'm a pro. meetville keeps putting my zipcode in the wrong city... by alot. Also I have a manufactured home/Trailer on a small lake and i love it! So if you are a property snob or have an issue with where or how i live then stop reading now and move on. I've been here 13 years by choice. I can catch 20 inch bass in my backyard and there are ducks and geese that live here so tame and friendly they eat from my hand and can be petted and held. It reminds me of being up north in our old cottage and thats why I chose it. I have some of the best neighbors that always looked out for me the 11 years thatI lived here alone. My dad lives with me now . I moved him in 18 months ago because his health was poor and he wasn't doing well living alone.I guess I sort of have a type. I'm a blue collar gal generally. Guys who can fix stuff, wear work boots. 5' oclock shadow, goatees , basically facial hair, not clean shaven, but not grizzly beards.... Also Rescue workers and firemen, AND truck drivers.. I dated a trucker and spent a summer on the road with him and loved every minute of being out there... fast food got old but that's my only complaint. I am intelligent and a bit of a closet nerd in the fact that i love sciences, documentaries, and battling my best friend while watching Jeopardy. I also love puzzles and games of skill. Just because I like blue collar men in general does not make me dumb nor does it mean I like "dumb" men. I've known tons of hard working, blue collar, strong men without "college desk jobs" who are extremly intelligent, witty and full of integrity. Being a blue collar guy isn't a requirement or a "must have" for me, it just tends to be what I gravitate towards. If you are not blue collar and you like my profile, send me a message. you never know. :)

  • Peter

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Very skeptical. ... im a real southern woman,,,, don't come at me with no bull shit.... dont ask me out and on our first date tell me u love me, and dont ask me if i wanna see your nude pics cause chances are your a damn perv..... other than that just talk to me like you would want a man to talk to your mother or daughter...... if ya wanna know ask..... Who knows

  • Lesley

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I can be a little shy and reserved at first, but before long I'll be joking and laughing up a storm. You'll find I am a good listener, honest communicator, supportive friend, and I surround myself with people who are as well.I'm driven by intellectual pursuits and my career, but I also enjoy being active, working out at least 3 times a week (mostly Zumba). Nothing is more important than friends and family.- the neighborhood festivals, the restaurants, the theatre, the virtual absence of snow! What's not to like? (Don't say "the traffic"!)In my free time I enjoy watching movies, tv, and live theater, Zumba, Pilates, swimming, trying new restaurants, going to baseball games, playing trivia games, cooking, golfing, and reading. Favorite bands - Ben Folds (Five), Weezer, 10,***Maniacs, Matt Nathanson and the like. Also gotta love the classics like The Beatles and Stevie Wonder!Movies - Mob movies and comedies! The Godfather and Anchorman are both brilliant in their own rights!TV -Sports - Baseball and basketball for watching. (Go, Cubs, go!) For doing it's cycling, hiking, and swimming. My ideal match will share most of my interests, broaden my horizons with additional interests, and challenge me intellectually. He'll appreciate that I'm independent, successful and grounded because he is, too. We'll have both witty banter and serious talks as we get to know each other. Ok, I've thrown a lot out there - probably too much - so I'll leave you with this:Overall, my friends describe me as being smart, funny and compassionate. If that's the type of person you're looking for, write to me! The actual activity of the first date could be lots of things - bar trivia, baseball game, museum visit, bowling, etc. What's important that it allows for conversation but also provides an activity to take off any pressure. If we're a good match, we'll have fun doing just about anything!

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