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Shyann, 37

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About Me

Hello! Hard to know what all to write but I'll do my best. I have been a Graphic Designer for over 14 years now which I enjoy most of the time. I consider myself a fun person, I love to laugh and not get entangled in drama or gossip. I am a geek with most things. I enjoy watching movies, TV and reading books that are fantasy and sci-fi for example X-Files, X-Men, LOTR, Game of Thrones, etc. I like to go out sometimes to play pool, throw darts, laugh and drink. I also like to just vegg at home watching a movie and eating dessert. I love to eat desserts and make them. I am very affectionate and like to cuddle on the sofa, touch is important. I like most kinds of music but hard core rap and country aren't my favorites. I enjoy classical, alternative, rock, dance, 80s, 90s, etc. I love to dance so music is important. I also like speakers and amps, etc to really enhance music and TV.I am not the typical girl, I consider myself more of a tomboy. I would say that I enjoy more the "guy" activities over the typical "girl" activities. Shopping isn't a fun thing for me, I don't fuss over my clothes or hair, I don't mind getting dirty, don't care about my nails, etc. I dress casual but I do like to dress up when time calls for it, who doesn't want to feel sexy?I think working out is important, I hit the gym at least 4 days a week to stay healthy and strong but I am far from being obsessed with it, if I cant go then that's ok.I like the simple things in life, I am not complicated and want someone who I can respect and will give respect in return. If a man has tons of rules for his lady then I am not the one for you, life and love shouldn't be so complicated. Communication is important to me too, no assumptions...I don't read minds!Hope I have given a small window into my world, I know there is more I can say but this is already too much of a novel! I think a good first date would be something simple like meeting for drinks at a restaurant to talk or having dinner somewhere would be fine too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Frieda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm a gal who knows what she wants....I'm laid back - know how to have fun - love to cycle the canal..I'm a little hippie, preppy, country...- with confidence...but humility to see their deficits - I'm very independent and very feminine.....and desire a man with whom I can relax and let him be the man and me be the woman.-) Also, even though two of my photos were taken in a bar - I rarely go - am not a barfly - and very rarely drink. One of those pics was Thanksgiving ***and the other New Years ***and I was the designated driver both times. Those two trips to the bar are the only ones in the last two years. So I've been told, time after time, what I search for does not exist.... I believe it does, and I don't mind waiting for it! :)Tired of the same old thing. Looking for something with meaning. I want the whole package. Physical, emotional, sexual, mental, and chemistry. All or nothing. A mind blowing connection. Romance, sharing, pillow talk, passion, loyalty, companionship, intimacy, lust, longing, butterflies, good conversation, friendship, no lies, complete trust, sincerity, total honesty, and most important, no BS. So tired of the games that come with dating in general. Loyalty, truth and honesty are the "MOST" important things to me in a relationship. If you lack these very important qualities, please don't waste my time. Jealousy, and controlling personalities are a big turn off!! Someone who always has my back, as I will his. Even if we do not always agree or find ourselves annoyed with each other (as happens in any relationship from time to time).My deal breakers-jail bird-too short for me-lacks desire for adventure-looks to me to plan everything-alcoholic or drug addict-not self aware-complainer-doesn't know how to live and manage his life and achieve most goals-lacking security in his passion-lacks intelligenceMy preferences-active-tall-easy to laugh-self fulfilled-secure in who you are- a man's man-enthusiasm for lots of things especially the passionate sortsWhat I bring to the table-confidence-intelligence-great passion and enthusiasm-I say what I mean and mean what I say-when I give my word - you can bank on it-easy to laugh-independent-loyalty-education (BYU grad)-a soft and safe place to come home to-nurturing - and I'd like for you to be that way too - but not to a claustrophobic intensity-know how to appreciate and show appreciation-loves adventure-would love for the right guy to take me fishing - I love it....and I've never hunted...but would enjoy that, too! But I hope that isn't your only hobby...The sooner we meet - the sooner we will know if there is chemistryWill write more later.....

  • Rosasharn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm a very liberal, open-minded native Washingtonian looking to meet new people to date. I'm a psychotherapist in private practice, so if you aren't psychologically-minded and self-reflective, don't bother contacting me (sorry if that sounds really harsh). I'm incredibly independent, caring, and loyal. I believe in being authentic and genuine as much as is humanly possible, so I usually tell it like it is. I am also ridiculously organized and never forget a birthday ;-)Although I consider myself an intellectual, I also have a place in my heart for reality TV and silly pop culture.Having spent my entire life at a local private school, I have been blessed to know many of my best friends since elementary school. I am incredibly close to my family and consider my sister one of my best friends. I truly believe that happiness/joy starts from the inside out so I spend a lot of time working on myself. I'm tempted to write something on here about only wanting to connect with guys who've had some experience in therapy/counseling, but I realize that's a bit much!! If you aren't interested in knowing yourself more fully, then you're not the person for me. If you're a guy who thinks men shouldn't talk about or show their feelings, we aren't a good match. I'm looking for someone who is comfortable with himself and can show love and affection for the people around him.For me, life is about being present in the moment, taking (small) risks, and being vulnerable with the people who have earned the right to see that vulnerability. I try to have as many belly laughs as possible and consider a good day one that involves ice cream!I love yoga, the gym, photography, beaches, Target (said only with a French accent), all things purple, and bear hugs. I believe that the true judge of a man's character is how he treats those who can do nothing for him.I love going to the movies, trying new restaurants, going to a football/hockey/ baseball game, people watching, drinking wine, walks on the canal, visiting the monuments at night, and laughing until my stomach hurts.I like guys who are optimistic yet jaded, self-deprecating yet confident, funny yet thoughtful. I like guys who want to talk politics and pop culture. I like guys who are curious and ask thoughtful questions. I like guys who love football but don't spend 20 Sundays a year caring about every single game just because they have a fantasy team. I like guys who love their moms but aren't momma's boys. I like guys can be vulnerable without being overly needy. I like guys who aren't threatened by an intelligent, confident woman. Tanzania, and Ghana. Although I am dying to see other parts of the world (Thailand, South Africa) I've never met a Caribbean island I didn't love. I've climbed Mt. I like getting dressed up, but I like the feeling of getting into my pj's at the end of the night just as much. I like being with people and being alone.Motherhood is the hardest thing I've everdone and the most important. It has humbled me with its challenges and its joys. I try to push myself to take small steps outside my comfort zone in order to grow and learn more about myself and the people around me. Sometimes I stumble but I rarely regret having tried. I truly do believe that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. My greatest fear in life is that I will be 80 years old kicking myself that I didn't slow down, breathe, and just "be." I am a former-perfectionist who now focuses on whether I showed up with courage, not how well I did or didn't do. I truly hope I can *** value in my children above all else.My friends describe me as loyal, dependable, sarcastic, passionate, funny, strong, sweet, and feisty. I know I gesticulate too much when I talk and am overly confident about my skills on the dance floor. I know I try to surround myself with people with whom I can be my full self. I am incredibly passionate about social justice and truly believe that "injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."If you're still reading my profile, Mazel Tov! If my psycho-babble doesn't seem like babble, then I'd love to hear from you! Coffee, drinks, or a nosh!

  • Thomasina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    My friends made me do this!!!! Tired of DRAMA!!! I love to dance, go out to clubs, bars, outdoor concerts, festivals, wine tastings, ride four wheelers, horseback riding, go to the lake, go camping, go fishing, blah, blah, blah. I have a job, 2 vehicles, my own house, & I am an independent well established woman looking for the same. NO MOOCHERS, closet drinkers, crackheads, unemployed, non licensed, liars, cheaters, stalkers, married persons!!!!!!! I love to dance. I don't care if you can but just be willing to go with me to try. I can line dance, flatfoot (for all you bluegrass music lovers you know what that is),dance to rap, hip hop, & dance music. When I say I am looking for an independent person, I mean someone that actually takes care of their own needs & has actually had to be totally independent. Someone that is not afraid to cook, clean, & do the grocery shopping on their own. I'm not saying you have to be a gourmet chef but anybody can throw a hot dog on the grill. It's hard to describe myself & its hard to put into words what I am looking for. When I meet the right person I will know. I fell in love twice & I really can pin point why I fell in love with them. All I know is the feeling I had when I was with them & I couldn't get enough time with them. I'm praying that I will find that again... Whatever..usually let the guy decide..

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