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Rosasharn, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Skiatook

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About Me

I'm a very liberal, open-minded native Washingtonian looking to meet new people to date. I'm a psychotherapist in private practice, so if you aren't psychologically-minded and self-reflective, don't bother contacting me (sorry if that sounds really harsh). I'm incredibly independent, caring, and loyal. I believe in being authentic and genuine as much as is humanly possible, so I usually tell it like it is. I am also ridiculously organized and never forget a birthday ;-)Although I consider myself an intellectual, I also have a place in my heart for reality TV and silly pop culture.Having spent my entire life at a local private school, I have been blessed to know many of my best friends since elementary school. I am incredibly close to my family and consider my sister one of my best friends. I truly believe that happiness/joy starts from the inside out so I spend a lot of time working on myself. I'm tempted to write something on here about only wanting to connect with guys who've had some experience in therapy/counseling, but I realize that's a bit much!! If you aren't interested in knowing yourself more fully, then you're not the person for me. If you're a guy who thinks men shouldn't talk about or show their feelings, we aren't a good match. I'm looking for someone who is comfortable with himself and can show love and affection for the people around him.For me, life is about being present in the moment, taking (small) risks, and being vulnerable with the people who have earned the right to see that vulnerability. I try to have as many belly laughs as possible and consider a good day one that involves ice cream!I love yoga, the gym, photography, beaches, Target (said only with a French accent), all things purple, and bear hugs. I believe that the true judge of a man's character is how he treats those who can do nothing for him.I love going to the movies, trying new restaurants, going to a football/hockey/ baseball game, people watching, drinking wine, walks on the canal, visiting the monuments at night, and laughing until my stomach hurts.I like guys who are optimistic yet jaded, self-deprecating yet confident, funny yet thoughtful. I like guys who want to talk politics and pop culture. I like guys who are curious and ask thoughtful questions. I like guys who love football but don't spend 20 Sundays a year caring about every single game just because they have a fantasy team. I like guys who love their moms but aren't momma's boys. I like guys can be vulnerable without being overly needy. I like guys who aren't threatened by an intelligent, confident woman. Tanzania, and Ghana. Although I am dying to see other parts of the world (Thailand, South Africa) I've never met a Caribbean island I didn't love. I've climbed Mt. I like getting dressed up, but I like the feeling of getting into my pj's at the end of the night just as much. I like being with people and being alone.Motherhood is the hardest thing I've everdone and the most important. It has humbled me with its challenges and its joys. I try to push myself to take small steps outside my comfort zone in order to grow and learn more about myself and the people around me. Sometimes I stumble but I rarely regret having tried. I truly do believe that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. My greatest fear in life is that I will be 80 years old kicking myself that I didn't slow down, breathe, and just "be." I am a former-perfectionist who now focuses on whether I showed up with courage, not how well I did or didn't do. I truly hope I can *** value in my children above all else.My friends describe me as loyal, dependable, sarcastic, passionate, funny, strong, sweet, and feisty. I know I gesticulate too much when I talk and am overly confident about my skills on the dance floor. I know I try to surround myself with people with whom I can be my full self. I am incredibly passionate about social justice and truly believe that "injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."If you're still reading my profile, Mazel Tov! If my psycho-babble doesn't seem like babble, then I'd love to hear from you! Coffee, drinks, or a nosh!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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