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Aiko, 40

United States, Oklahoma, Shawnee

Offline, last seen Wed, 30 Sep 2026 18:27:24

About Me

I want my next 40 years to be my best! That will hopefully include a man, but either way, enjoying them is my goal. So, here is my self description, for what it's worth... I am kind, loving, intelligent, thoughtful, responsible, affectionate, genuine, humorous, confident, and loyal. I have flaws too, as we all do. Here are a few... I am not a great cook, dread waking up early (but I do anyway), and sometimes I laugh so hard when telling a funny story, it takes a long time for me to finish it. I am looking for a wonderful man to be my best friend and more. He is Caucasian, at least 5'9", over 30 and under 50, has hair ( funny, but I am a hair snob), Christian, smart, sweet, thoughtful, affectionate, respectful, attractive, loyal, confident, responsible, witty, independent, and down to earth. If that does not sound much like you, then we are probably not a match. Please be honest guys, that is very important!I exercise ***times a week. I like being outside and prefer warm weather. I also have two amazing kids, 18 and 10. There is a lot more, but suppose that is good enough for now. I am looking forward to this new adventure:) I am open to anything really. I would like it to be somewhere that we can really talk and have a good conversation. Just a thoughtful date who communicates well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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