Total users: 60,488,213 Online users: 217,562
Aiko, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Shawnee

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Dec 2025 01:40:44

About Me

I want my next 40 years to be my best! That will hopefully include a man, but either way, enjoying them is my goal. So, here is my self description, for what it's worth... I am kind, loving, intelligent, thoughtful, responsible, affectionate, genuine, humorous, confident, and loyal. I have flaws too, as we all do. Here are a few... I am not a great cook, dread waking up early (but I do anyway), and sometimes I laugh so hard when telling a funny story, it takes a long time for me to finish it. I am looking for a wonderful man to be my best friend and more. He is Caucasian, at least 5'9", over 30 and under 50, has hair ( funny, but I am a hair snob), Christian, smart, sweet, thoughtful, affectionate, respectful, attractive, loyal, confident, responsible, witty, independent, and down to earth. If that does not sound much like you, then we are probably not a match. Please be honest guys, that is very important!I exercise ***times a week. I like being outside and prefer warm weather. I also have two amazing kids, 18 and 10. There is a lot more, but suppose that is good enough for now. I am looking forward to this new adventure:) I am open to anything really. I would like it to be somewhere that we can really talk and have a good conversation. Just a thoughtful date who communicates well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Romance Sci-Fi
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Karebear from Shawnee | Woman | 46 years old | Pisces
    Karebear

    Online

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-47

    Hi! My name is Karebear. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Shawnee, Oklahoma, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Kaykay from Shawnee | Woman | 27 years old | Sagittarius
    Kaykay

    Online

    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-29

    Hi! My name is Kaykay. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian woman without kids from Shawnee, Oklahoma, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Sparrow from Shawnee | Woman | 40 years old | Cancer
    Sparrow

    Offline

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I love to laugh but want to be serious sometimes too. I want someone who will challenge my mind but can be goofy and have fun. Music is a big part of me and so are my kids. All in all....I would love someone I could connect with on an intellectual level but not always have to be serious around, who will love my kids and accept me for all that I am.I will also tell you that I'm not "searching" the way some ladies are. I've been married, had kids, accomplished those "time sensitive" things already. If either or both happen again, that's fine, but if not, I'm OK with that too. Desperation is not part of my resume and neither are hook-ups. I like people and meeting new, interesting ones. Being on here is a bit of an experiment, I suppose. If I find someone that I enjoy being around and start a friendship with, that's great! If I marry again, that's good too. But finding forever is an elusive quest at best and I have no grand illusion that it will be easy or even happen at all. I'm a bit of a dichotomy, I suppose. I'm a romantic at heart and wish and hope for someone who will sweep me off my feet and change things for the better, but I'm also realistic and know that those sorts of things are subjective. It may not be a stereotypical, expected gesture that will do that, but something unexpected and unique, *** My perfect first date would be meeting somewhere for food and/or drinks (alcoholic or non, either is fine). Good conversation is a must! Laughter is also necessary and will happen if you let it. If I'm comfortable, we can talk for hours. If things go well, we'll want to see each other again and a little kiss might just end the night.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: