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Sawyer, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Shawnee

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About Me

I'm 40, blonde, happy, fun & sane. I work as the executive director of a nonprofit organization. I am (perhaps obviously) liberal-leaning politically. I am a humanitarian first and foremost, but I am fed by the arts. I could stand to lose a few pounds, but unless you are only into tight, yoga bodies (and aren't we all. . .sigh) you won't think I'm fat. I absolutely LIVE for my friends - they are the most talented, beautiful, energetic, amazing group of people I have ever known. I feel so lucky every time I see them singing, playing, dj-ing, dancing, performing on the silks/trapeze/rope/ring. I want you to feel excited to meet these people and to feel like you have a gift you can contribute, too. Even if you don't know what it is yet. Humor me, won't you? You are welcome to be older than me. By all means, be, like, 45 to 60 if you want, just be ready to have fun. You should love blissful, musical weekends with amazing people on the river, in the woods, in the city, in the desert. You should either have been to burning man, want to go to burning man, or think burning man sounds like fun. If you think burning man is just a bunch of naked hippies in the desert you should click on. You should have a job and an income - I cannot support you. I do not need you to support me. You should be open-minded and open-hearted. Smart, smart, smart. You should not be chemically dependent. You should not be a tweaker. Or bipolar. I am really, really sane and I would love it if you are, too. You should be open to an LTR, but not desperate for one. Cheers! I can't safely say coffee here, can i?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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