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Sawyer, 40

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About Me

I'm 40, blonde, happy, fun & sane. I work as the executive director of a nonprofit organization. I am (perhaps obviously) liberal-leaning politically. I am a humanitarian first and foremost, but I am fed by the arts. I could stand to lose a few pounds, but unless you are only into tight, yoga bodies (and aren't we all. . .sigh) you won't think I'm fat. I absolutely LIVE for my friends - they are the most talented, beautiful, energetic, amazing group of people I have ever known. I feel so lucky every time I see them singing, playing, dj-ing, dancing, performing on the silks/trapeze/rope/ring. I want you to feel excited to meet these people and to feel like you have a gift you can contribute, too. Even if you don't know what it is yet. Humor me, won't you? You are welcome to be older than me. By all means, be, like, 45 to 60 if you want, just be ready to have fun. You should love blissful, musical weekends with amazing people on the river, in the woods, in the city, in the desert. You should either have been to burning man, want to go to burning man, or think burning man sounds like fun. If you think burning man is just a bunch of naked hippies in the desert you should click on. You should have a job and an income - I cannot support you. I do not need you to support me. You should be open-minded and open-hearted. Smart, smart, smart. You should not be chemically dependent. You should not be a tweaker. Or bipolar. I am really, really sane and I would love it if you are, too. You should be open to an LTR, but not desperate for one. Cheers! I can't safely say coffee here, can i?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sparrow

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I love to laugh but want to be serious sometimes too. I want someone who will challenge my mind but can be goofy and have fun. Music is a big part of me and so are my kids. All in all....I would love someone I could connect with on an intellectual level but not always have to be serious around, who will love my kids and accept me for all that I am.I will also tell you that I'm not "searching" the way some ladies are. I've been married, had kids, accomplished those "time sensitive" things already. If either or both happen again, that's fine, but if not, I'm OK with that too. Desperation is not part of my resume and neither are hook-ups. I like people and meeting new, interesting ones. Being on here is a bit of an experiment, I suppose. If I find someone that I enjoy being around and start a friendship with, that's great! If I marry again, that's good too. But finding forever is an elusive quest at best and I have no grand illusion that it will be easy or even happen at all. I'm a bit of a dichotomy, I suppose. I'm a romantic at heart and wish and hope for someone who will sweep me off my feet and change things for the better, but I'm also realistic and know that those sorts of things are subjective. It may not be a stereotypical, expected gesture that will do that, but something unexpected and unique, *** My perfect first date would be meeting somewhere for food and/or drinks (alcoholic or non, either is fine). Good conversation is a must! Laughter is also necessary and will happen if you let it. If I'm comfortable, we can talk for hours. If things go well, we'll want to see each other again and a little kiss might just end the night.

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