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Abegayle, 40
United States, Oklahoma, Shawnee

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About Me

I think I speak for most people when I say we are all looking for happiness and someone that compliments us. We have all had toxic relationships and hopefully we learn from it enough to know what you are not looking for or will accept from a potential partner. I am not a serial dater nor do I have any interest in being with anyone that is. I will not settle or be disrespected. To those that are looking for a quick hook up or a one night stand I am not your girl, I really think its sad that I have to include that in my profile. I have been in two long term relationships and for the lack of a better term, it just didn't work out. I have three children who are the light of my life and I am very proud of the intelligent, kind people they are becoming. I am looking for a man that will not only be good to me but to my children as well. I do not really have a specific type but there does have to be a mutual attraction lets face it there has to be chemistry. I will know when I find it. I do prefer a non smoker, caucasion, taller men (much taller than myself), that is clean cut, trimmed and shaved (some facial hair can be attractive), and a head full of hair. If you would like to know more send an *** I am interested in you I will respond, if not please do not be offended it is just a matter of preference. While I do understand job discretion please at least upload or attach a face photo ONLY there is no need for body parts or sexual innuendoes with your *** am not interested in attached or married men, I have no respect for people that are dishonest and unfaithful, I will never help you cheat. I also must add if your still really good friends with your ex's and you cant let go of that past relationship then we probably wouldn't be a good match. Being civil for children's sake is one thing but hanging around and getting together for dinner and drinks is another. Good luck in your search. Play it by ear.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Gardening Korean Turkish Adventure Mystery Drag Racing Golf
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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