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Heleen, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Shawnee

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About Me

We only have one life to live so my mantra is live llife to the fullest. The old expression "Carpe Diem" live every day as if it were your last... so on that note I am looking for someone who is positive has a zest for life can enjoy themselves..doing low key things like ..relaxing at home on the couch and watching TV..but is also interested in learning and exploring new places different foods differnt cultures, willing to try new things...maybe even meringue lessons . I would love to learn Salsa...As much as I like trying new things, I also can be a homebody when I want to - since I love cooking - Always looking up recipies on line especially love BBquing. ..Not too big on winter usually thats when the homebody in me comes out and I relax . Like to hybernate indoors.. I hate being cold, but I do like watching snowfall from indoors. I am definitely a summer baby- love the beach picnics swimming rollerblading jetskiing...boats..As far as some of my hobbbies all year round ***like kickboxing do it ***times a week so I woudn't mess with me - I have sharp right hook. LOL (: Love decorating like to be in a cozy envirement. Interested in Fengshui placement of objects to create postive atmospheres- I enjoy reading too just about anything except sports sorry but I can only tolerate 3 innings of Baseball and then I am maxed out.. Howver I do not mind partcipating in some sport acivities. Ok I do admit I do like some reality shows ... sometimes you need a little fluff in life it's entertaining. I also love to shop... from shoes to furniture... love music - Always downloading tunes on my ipod ... open to all music classical... classic rock "50s' 60" 70" 80's 90"s pop rock, rap reggae- not too big on jazz or heavy metal ***Love, intelligence, confidence, charisma & and ; chivalry.....A sense of humor is great, since I love to laugh..love passion, sensuality affection. &; romance...Once again would like reiterate the importance of sincerity- without honesty there is nothing to build on.* IMPORTANT TO READ * as this may not be what some of you are looking for..Although I do not mind exchanging a several *** so on here, however I am NOT looking for a pen-pal by *** will I accept any invitations for dates under this form of communication. .as I find it to be impersonal . Guess you can call me old fashioned- but If we hit it off on here and exchange phone numbers-- I would like to talk live- not graduate to further writing by text messaging-- How else can you really get a sense of each other and get to know each other better ? If this is too much of a burden, or a daunting task-- then we are not a match-If this is something that seems reasonable with you and we hit it off through *** look forward to hearing from you! Let' go with the flow on this one..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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