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Hoa, 38
United States, Oklahoma, Shawnee

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I would despcribe myself as outspoken, opinionated, but down to earth and fun. What you see is, what you get from me. No smoke and mirrors of makeup and plastic surgery. I can get dressed up and look pretty hot (if I do say so myself). But hey I can put on sweats, a tank top and camo and not really care what I look like. I hate high maintenance. I can go from camping to a wedding in about a half hour. I make a decent living, and as much as money is not that important, the last thing I want to do is support someone. I really am looking to meet some great people, but the whole "chatting thing" is not for me. I would prefer to meet someone face to face, and decide if there is friendship or chemistry. I am not against either, I do have 2 children who are great, independent and fun. They are 11 and 14. Of course if you have kids, no problem, I would be a bit of a hypocrite, if it did bother me. I am not into meeting someone who wants kids. I sooooo do not want to start over. I really am about the most brutally honest person you will probably ever meet, and I don't apologize for that. I am 38 and figure I know what I want at this point in my life, and I am not about to fill you full of bullsh*tto get a date, I would not waste your time, or mine. Oh yeah, I also sometimes swear like a trucker. Not apologizing for that either. I really just want to meet great people who like to hang out, have a few drinks, do some camping, dancing and dining out. Patios, campfires, wherever. I do it all. (don't take that literally). Don't need to meet a one night stand. Those are easy to find and not really my bag. WOW! just read back my profile to myself and I sound a little rough around the edges. Maybe! But I really am just an average Joe (in women's terms) looking for an average Joe. If you want to respond, great. If not, happy hunting. Hanging out on an outdoor patio. Have a few drinks, and something to eat. Just chatting and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fishing French Japanese
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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