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Ilse, 36

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About Me

I of course want to be able to give you guys some sort of insight of who the person I am, yet I am so much more than anything I write here. But, I'm hoping with this start you might feel interested to learn more about me and hear about you. First off I do not have a "type" of person per say. I get we all have our flaws and I like the honesty of owning them *** hiding behind them. Being yourself is the most important trait I look for. I appreciate your weird quirks and own personal life experience and hope we can mesh together. I like a person who has their own life. But, then we have ours too. I'm the total definition of an introvert..I tend to be sarcastic, in a total light hearted way. If you take me literally you may find me confusing. I'm not. :)I live alone, I smoke, I drink seldom but don't care if you do. I'm ***friendly . And again you can smoke all you want, no judgement here. I'm a vegetarian and animal rights advocate, I need my space sometimes. I love hole in the wall local coffee shops with bands. I like porn and strip clubs. I share my cigarettes and change with the homeless. I'm a clean freak, but accept my dogs hair on my pillows. I play the piano pretty damn well. I love hip hop. I have two college degrees and still not convinced I know what I want to do. I love hiking and being around water. Swimming, long boarding, waterfalls, I love it all. I am an avid reader and writer. I do a lot of "behind the scenes" But kinda like being a homebody. I'm not one of those TV is a waste of time people. There is to much terrible TV to miss. I am honest and speak my mind no matter what. I can't do passive aggressive. My family and close friends are super important to me. I love to paint, even if it does still resemble my work in first grade. In my life I hope to be surrounded by positive energy, laughter, love and lots of four legged buddies. Laughter a must.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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