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Lavina, 36
United States, Oklahoma, Sapulpa

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About Me

I try very hard not to judge a book by its cover and expect the same of others. I really don't like trying to summarize myself in a few lines. I am stubborn, opinionated, honest to a fault, realistic, logical, and cute. I am usually laid back, easy-going, a bit shy in new situations, loud around my friends, serious when needed, and pretty awesome to spend time with. I love to debate about most anything. I am pretty open about myself, so just ask. It's a good way to start a conversation.So, that all being said, let's go back to the honesty thing... I am not sure exactly what I am looking for on here. I am always interested in meeting people and making friends. I am past the point of trying to force anything. I love hanging out. I don't mind being single (most of the time). There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely...I do miss cuddling with someone when I am in the mood. Be upfront about what you are looking for.Here is your reality check for the day: We all come with baggage, otherwise you probably haven't lived long. I am not perfect and do not expect perfection. If you are after drama, really into psycho-chics, or don't like animals, then you probably won't like me much.Something a little unique about me....I actually like cold weather. I will gripe a bit like everyone else, but I prefer the cold to hot. I love snow. I would rather cuddle up in front of a fire than lounge around on a beach. One of the most amazing experiences is to be cozy in a hot tub with the snow falling on your face, especially if you can see the stars too. I have been known to take walks during a cold, clear, calm night in winter. I plan to go see the Northern Lights sometime, hopefully soon, during my life.If you are willing to "Meet Me," then message me...duh. First date....that's a toughie. I like to do so many things. I love exploring the different restaurants around this area, especially local. I will usually try somewhere new on a recommendation. I like music, whether it is a cover band or local original. I like to shoot pool and play cornhole. I am a coffee fiend. First dates can be as simple as meeting for a cup at Starbucks to going out and doing the whole "routine." I don't always like calling it a first date as much as a first meeting because some people just don't click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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