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Lavina, 36
United States, Oklahoma, Sapulpa

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About Me

I try very hard not to judge a book by its cover and expect the same of others. I really don't like trying to summarize myself in a few lines. I am stubborn, opinionated, honest to a fault, realistic, logical, and cute. I am usually laid back, easy-going, a bit shy in new situations, loud around my friends, serious when needed, and pretty awesome to spend time with. I love to debate about most anything. I am pretty open about myself, so just ask. It's a good way to start a conversation.So, that all being said, let's go back to the honesty thing... I am not sure exactly what I am looking for on here. I am always interested in meeting people and making friends. I am past the point of trying to force anything. I love hanging out. I don't mind being single (most of the time). There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely...I do miss cuddling with someone when I am in the mood. Be upfront about what you are looking for.Here is your reality check for the day: We all come with baggage, otherwise you probably haven't lived long. I am not perfect and do not expect perfection. If you are after drama, really into psycho-chics, or don't like animals, then you probably won't like me much.Something a little unique about me....I actually like cold weather. I will gripe a bit like everyone else, but I prefer the cold to hot. I love snow. I would rather cuddle up in front of a fire than lounge around on a beach. One of the most amazing experiences is to be cozy in a hot tub with the snow falling on your face, especially if you can see the stars too. I have been known to take walks during a cold, clear, calm night in winter. I plan to go see the Northern Lights sometime, hopefully soon, during my life.If you are willing to "Meet Me," then message me...duh. First date....that's a toughie. I like to do so many things. I love exploring the different restaurants around this area, especially local. I will usually try somewhere new on a recommendation. I like music, whether it is a cover band or local original. I like to shoot pool and play cornhole. I am a coffee fiend. First dates can be as simple as meeting for a cup at Starbucks to going out and doing the whole "routine." I don't always like calling it a first date as much as a first meeting because some people just don't click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Tresa from Sapulpa | Woman | 36 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Coming up with something clever/witty/charming to say is much harder than I thought! So, I am going to start with that. I am way more clever/witty/charming in person, promise :) And l don't think one of the descriptive words suited me best, but I do love to hug trees!This is my first time on a dating site so feeling a little weird about putting myself out there but I also have no expectations from this so I guess I have nothing to lose! I am a mother to 10 yr. old twin boys (my life), which I have half of the time. I am not looking for a man to take care of them, or myself. Just hoping for the possibility of finding someone who shares some of my interests.. which include, but is not limited to: living a healthy lifestyle (I run, exercise several times/week), being kind to othes, and just loving life!! :))A few things about me....I am super laid-back with a sweet temperament. Before I was married I always had mostly guy friends (before jealousy was a factor!), so I'm down with watching sports on TV and love going to any kind of sporting event. ;) Concerts are one of my favorite things in life! My faith is very important to me as well, I guess you could say I am a liberal-christian type (no, not an oxymoron..some of us do exist!). I do not have a lot of free time between work and children so any guy interested would have to understand this up front. But, enough about me. I already feel weirded out talking about myself so much! My ideal date would be with someone who is an active, outdoorsy type, smart, open minded, out-going, financially secure, and a really, super NICE guy. And can you be funny please? Thanks :)

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  • Christen from Sapulpa | Woman | 36 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hey there- First and foremost, being a mother to my son is the best part of who I am. He is 16, and I have raised him to be a stand up young man. I couldn't be more proud. My match would be.... Physically, I'm a SUCKER for nice arms....protective, and masculine :)As for me.....I am very outgoing, and happy. I always say that "laughter is the key to my happiness". People would describe me as very honest, compassionate, loving, funny, selfless, optimistic, and goal orientated person. I am blessed everyday with the people I have in my life. Although, I would really like to meet someone who enjoys doing things together. I want my best friend, someone to laugh often with. I will not settle for less than I'm willing to put into a relationship, because like with any relationship I give all. My friendships, and family mean the most to me. I do not prefer to ***, because I like a man who makes the first move. It's just what I'm attracted too. Good luck in your search.....UPDATE: If you have a pic in your underwear do not contact me, because I won't respond. You are clearly not my type of man. UPDATE: I do not want to meet a man that doesn't know what he wants, and who isn't open with his feelings. We are grown. I do not need a man to be happy. My life is so full of love. I will not grow old alone, because I have so many people that show me how important I am to them. I would like a relationship, but its not a necessity to make me happy. That being said, I do think its wonderful when you have a best friend and partner all in one. That's what I'm hoping to find :) Surprise me......I love surprises!

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a fun caring person, looking for someone who likes me the way I am. I have a daughter and my own business , both which keep me busy. I just want someone to laugh and enjoy life with. I dont believe there is a perfect match , I believe its a persons imperfections that makes them perfect for you :)

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