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Finella, 37
United States, Oklahoma, Sapulpa

Offline, last seen Sun, 01 Feb 2026 01:51:12

About Me

I have a great job and I have worked hard to get where I am. I don't need a man, but I would like to find someone to grow old with. I enjoy a great conversation and if you can banter that's even better. I laugh often. I am the girl who would give her shirt off her back to someone in need even if it's the only one I owned. I am happy with myself and love the direction my life is headed. I would like to find a friend first. Someone that I enjoy being with and talking to. If it builds into something more that is great, but I don't have the expectation that it has to either. I hope to find someone who sees my true beauty lies within me.Here is what I am looking for...First I believe conversation is the key to any relationship whether it is friends or partners. I enjoy an intelligent conversation and if you can banter, well that's even better. I prefer confident men, but not arrogant. I tend to be attracted to taller men as I like to wear my heels. I want someone who isn't afraid to show how they feel. To me the little things mean more than anything you could buy. I would like a friend who can make me laugh and a man who will hold me when I am weak. This last one is the biggest of them all... I am an affectionate/passionate woman. I will not live my life without it.With all of this said here are the few things I have found that don't make you a match for me. If you have your shirt off in your pictures, I'm not going to be the right girl for you. If you are standing with other women who are not family members, I'm not going to be the right girl for you. Please take the time to message me with more than "hi". I have written enough written here to start a conversation so please show some effort as I would do the same for you. And lastly please don't message me for a hookup, asking if I want a sugar daddy, or anything sexual related. I am a lady.... I do not hookup, I can take care of myself and I cannot be bought, and the last one is just wrong.Anything else you would like to know, please just ask. First meeting should be somewhere we can talk. First date... Should be something we both would enjoy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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