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Oscar, 37
United States, Oklahoma, Sand Springs

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About Me

I am an easy going, laid back girl who is quiet and a little shy around strangers and peole I first meet. I do tend to open up if you are willing to take the time to get to know me. I am a single mother of 2 dauhgters who have to be my first priority. I generally tend to enjoy outdoor activities, but I am the girl who likes to wear her makeup, fix her hair and then go outside and get dirty...lol. I do expect someone to at least be my equal and responsible. I like to have a good time as much as the next girl, but I also live in reality and know my boundries and responsibilities. I am open to trying new things because never say never and how can you not like something if you have never tried it before? Ok, so if you would like to know more please feel free to ask.***Ok, so let's update this. If you are unemployed, live with your mother, are still arguing with your ex and ****ing about child support, or looking for a piece of ass, then I am not your girl. I am not inviting you to my home nor am I coming to meet you at yours. I take care of myself and am not looking to depend or have someone depend on me for thier exsistence. I thought, but have since learned different, that common sense would dictate that you might like to invite me to dinner, or the movies, or even out for a drink and at least take a shot a getting to know me, and don't show up with the expectation of thinking with your "little head". This may sound harsh, but let's be honest, I have been a single mother for 11 years, I have dated, but never found someone who appreciates me for who I am. I'm too old to change...lol, and I don't want to change you. I am self sufficient enough that although I may get lonely from time to time, I refuse to settle for less than what completes me. I'm independent, but shy...might you be willing to break beyond my barriers and atempt to get to know me before things are taken to another level??? I am seeking companionship and someone to spend time with as well as exploring the opportunity for more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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