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Sheilah
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I do tend to come across as a tough girl hard as nails with a rough exterior. But once you get to know me I have the biggest heart I just tend to keep it hidden. But it is just a defense mechanism. With that being said I am loyal to a fault. I would give you the shirt off my back if I thought you needed it and you and I were friends (or more). I like to do the little things. I believe actions speak louder than words. You can say I love you a thousand times but if you don't show it it doesn't mean a damn thing. I am sarcastic so watch out.I am looking for an equal loving partner, who is dependable, stable, hardworking with the same values who can communicate. Who is comfortable with himself and indepedant. Who likes to spend time together as well as with his own friends. I do not have to be joined at the hip with my man. I do not want a guy who already has children. I am sure you who have children are great guys and are wonderful dads I just don't want to date you. I want to come first in the relationship and my partner to be first. If you come with a child I will never be first nor would I expect to be. You also come with an ex who will always be part of the relationship and I just don't want to start a new relationship off that way. With my job I see all of the heartache this brings and I would rather be honest and just say I don't want to start off this way. I am sure I am missing out on some great guys but I am willing to take that hit to be a priority. It is hard enough starting a relationship with two people let alone more.If all you are looking for is to get laid? Crawl up a chicken's butt and wait. I look before I leap. I actually want to care about someone before I leap into bed with them. It makes it all that much better If that isn't your style I totally understand keep on looking. I respect your aproach to life, you respect mine. Plus let's be honest no matter how well you know someone that first time with anyone is always awkward and not the best. So it really should be with someone you care about so you can laugh about it and make it really rock the next time. I am big on family. I spend lots of time with mine. My parents have been married for over 42 years and have set a standard. There is nothing wrong with me being 35 and never married with no children. I only want to be married once and expect to stay that way. I want to raise my children in the same type of household I grew up in. I was never in a rush to do so. Yes I have been in long term relationships and I have had my heart broken. I have the strength to know what I want and not to settle. Life is too short.Each relationship I have been in has taught me something. Sometimes it was a harsh lesson to learn but it was obviously something I was supposed to know. (sometimes I had to learn the lesson more than once :) )I want to travel to Australia. I am scuba diver but it has been a while since I have dove. But I would really like to dive there. I would also like to see the galapogos (not sure that is spelled right) islands and swim with the turtles. I used to be terrifed of sharks. But my big brother being the loving brother he was made my first dive after certification a shark dive and a shark feed. So I am cured of that. LOL Our family is known for traveling together when we can. Which is awesome. I have been skiing (water) since I was 6. But spending the weekends with my brother and friends at the lake can be fun. But I will be honest and say I didn't go one time in ***. But this year is my year to return. Who knows? Depends on the person
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Malisa
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I usually resort to hypnosis, so this oughta be a bit tricky...I have spent the past while getting my grad degree and working my butt off. Now I can slow down a bit and find it isn't as fun to do this without a partner. I have great friends, but we hang out with their kids, not a great way to meet new people. Oh, there is work...with a bunch of kids, again not so great for this purpose!I am driven but find time for my friends and see the humour in most things. I have lived a lot of life, traveled and lived overseas, and can't wait to be introduced to more exciting things about the world. I find seeing someone else enjoy their passion opens your eyes further to great experiences. You will be sincere, have a great group of friends, are looking for something with depth, like to get out, and enjoy your career.So I recently went back to swimming in the mornings. I have been using it to work on Math with my students so I told them i started with 30 laps, then did 40 today, how many next. They said 50, then 60, then 70. I told them I'd slow down after 50, maybe halfway but couldn't so 55 because that would cause a problem for me. Anyone know why? "because you're getting so old?" ummmm...no. I CAN do it but why won't I? "Because you are so big?" eyeroll... "because you are not young and fast like us?" yeah, No!!! Finally i got the right answer but never thought it would be quite so painful. So anyways, not sure you can say anything wrong in comparison to my sweet k students! Plus I made into the 70s to show them!Send me a message if you like smart, sweet, funny, and down to earth women.
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Adallina
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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
I am a very happy sweet confident bbw. I am very busy with my boys. They are my life. We do most sports. I coach cheerleading. On a few sports boards. I love going to movies. Swim. I don't play games. I had knee surgery few months ago so I can't ride my quad or hike or anything hard. Want to know something just ask.