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Kya, 36
United States, Oklahoma, Sand Springs

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 05:51:24

About Me

I am an extremely independent person, I have my own thoughts and so do you (there is ALWAYS a happy medium).I fear being ordinary I am not a cookie cutter girl in any way.I believe in half of what I see and none of what I hear.I have 5 kids. Don't freak out, but yes I have 5 kids. If this freaks you out move on. (So I don't have to answer it later, and why it matters is beyond me, but yes they all have the same Dad. No Drama and I like it to stay that way!)I would like to meet someone with the personality type kind of like mine, sarcastic, unique, witty and bold.I love water, I love being in it, I love playing with it, and I love sitting by it. I am a cancer, its a crab. (wonder if that means something?)I sing all the time no matter where I am, I am either humming a tune, or singing a ballad.I am scared to death of big things, really really big things!! My thoughts are free and I like it that way.I truly enjoy listening to people. I embrace change and I love it.I feel things deeply, very deeply. I can and do enjoy simple things I am easily pleased.I am able to take healthy risks life is too short to miss out.I have a desire to be needed and wanted but I am also plenty content to be alone.I love life just to love it, life is just way too short.I strive to un-complicate the complicated.I enjoy going down the road nobody went down, adventure is fabulous.I try to stay as positive as possible, all the time. I have amazing friends, I'm lucky; friends that I have had since I was a kid, my friends are my family.I try my absolute best to learn from my mistakes, whether they be small or large.I have tattoos. For some this is a turn off. Figure why not get it all out on the table before we move forward.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Cooking Boxing
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I usually resort to hypnosis, so this oughta be a bit tricky...I have spent the past while getting my grad degree and working my butt off. Now I can slow down a bit and find it isn't as fun to do this without a partner. I have great friends, but we hang out with their kids, not a great way to meet new people. Oh, there is work...with a bunch of kids, again not so great for this purpose!I am driven but find time for my friends and see the humour in most things. I have lived a lot of life, traveled and lived overseas, and can't wait to be introduced to more exciting things about the world. I find seeing someone else enjoy their passion opens your eyes further to great experiences. You will be sincere, have a great group of friends, are looking for something with depth, like to get out, and enjoy your career.So I recently went back to swimming in the mornings. I have been using it to work on Math with my students so I told them i started with 30 laps, then did 40 today, how many next. They said 50, then 60, then 70. I told them I'd slow down after 50, maybe halfway but couldn't so 55 because that would cause a problem for me. Anyone know why? "because you're getting so old?" ummmm...no. I CAN do it but why won't I? "Because you are so big?" eyeroll... "because you are not young and fast like us?" yeah, No!!! Finally i got the right answer but never thought it would be quite so painful. So anyways, not sure you can say anything wrong in comparison to my sweet k students! Plus I made into the 70s to show them!Send me a message if you like smart, sweet, funny, and down to earth women.

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