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Sheilah
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I do tend to come across as a tough girl hard as nails with a rough exterior. But once you get to know me I have the biggest heart I just tend to keep it hidden. But it is just a defense mechanism. With that being said I am loyal to a fault. I would give you the shirt off my back if I thought you needed it and you and I were friends (or more). I like to do the little things. I believe actions speak louder than words. You can say I love you a thousand times but if you don't show it it doesn't mean a damn thing. I am sarcastic so watch out.I am looking for an equal loving partner, who is dependable, stable, hardworking with the same values who can communicate. Who is comfortable with himself and indepedant. Who likes to spend time together as well as with his own friends. I do not have to be joined at the hip with my man. I do not want a guy who already has children. I am sure you who have children are great guys and are wonderful dads I just don't want to date you. I want to come first in the relationship and my partner to be first. If you come with a child I will never be first nor would I expect to be. You also come with an ex who will always be part of the relationship and I just don't want to start a new relationship off that way. With my job I see all of the heartache this brings and I would rather be honest and just say I don't want to start off this way. I am sure I am missing out on some great guys but I am willing to take that hit to be a priority. It is hard enough starting a relationship with two people let alone more.If all you are looking for is to get laid? Crawl up a chicken's butt and wait. I look before I leap. I actually want to care about someone before I leap into bed with them. It makes it all that much better If that isn't your style I totally understand keep on looking. I respect your aproach to life, you respect mine. Plus let's be honest no matter how well you know someone that first time with anyone is always awkward and not the best. So it really should be with someone you care about so you can laugh about it and make it really rock the next time. I am big on family. I spend lots of time with mine. My parents have been married for over 42 years and have set a standard. There is nothing wrong with me being 35 and never married with no children. I only want to be married once and expect to stay that way. I want to raise my children in the same type of household I grew up in. I was never in a rush to do so. Yes I have been in long term relationships and I have had my heart broken. I have the strength to know what I want and not to settle. Life is too short.Each relationship I have been in has taught me something. Sometimes it was a harsh lesson to learn but it was obviously something I was supposed to know. (sometimes I had to learn the lesson more than once :) )I want to travel to Australia. I am scuba diver but it has been a while since I have dove. But I would really like to dive there. I would also like to see the galapogos (not sure that is spelled right) islands and swim with the turtles. I used to be terrifed of sharks. But my big brother being the loving brother he was made my first dive after certification a shark dive and a shark feed. So I am cured of that. LOL Our family is known for traveling together when we can. Which is awesome. I have been skiing (water) since I was 6. But spending the weekends with my brother and friends at the lake can be fun. But I will be honest and say I didn't go one time in ***. But this year is my year to return. Who knows? Depends on the person
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Tish
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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Who wants to have a mature relationship while acting immature?I love to goof around. I'm not looking to have kids so my motivation for having and staying in a relationship is good times with lots of laughter. I like sports-both playing and watching. I'm very honest and communicative and you won't have to wonder what I want or what I'm thinking. I like to challenge myself on this journey. I'm not perfect but I'm perfect for someone.I think a good fit for me is someone who thinks outside the box about life and relationships. I haven't lived the normal life people are taught they are supposed to want. I've been pretty independent since I was 12, but I have enjoyed when I've lived with a boyfriend. I won't bug you about when you want to do your own thing because I like to do mine at times. I work until 9 at night right now, so someone who doesn't go to bed early would be super cool.I've challenged myself to only buy used goods when possible. Obviously don't want to buy someone's used underwear! Ha ha. I'd like to become partners with someone who wants to buy local foods and biodegradable items and live a cleanish lifestyle. There's always room for a little cheating by having a beer or peanut butter cup.I just strive to be a good person. Doesn't always happen as I am a flawed character. I like who I am though.So in a nutshell:I am happy, funny, intelligent, honest, spiritual, culturally aware, loyal, helpful, generous. I love to laugh, joke around, play in waves, explore new places.I want good communication, someone who is intelligent and makes me laugh.I would love to write more, but honestly, nothing is better than seeing in person for yourself if you like/are attracted to a person and then getting to know them if it feels right. Farmer's markets are pretty cool to walk around while chatting. But hey, if you want to sit and get a pedicure with me, I wouldn't object!
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Nu
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
Well I am a single never been married woman with no kids. I am proffesional business woman that takes a lot of my time. We make time for what we really want and for the right man I can make time. I have been on other sites and they were all about "hook ups". That is not what I am about and why I am giving this site a try. I am looking for a man that is funny, smart and that has goals. The man I choose must be able to make me smile and laugh, understand my goals and support them and be active. They must also want to do things not always spending money but I am very active. As well as I am content sitting at home with them having good quality time. If this sounfs good to you please reach out.