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Sheilah
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I do tend to come across as a tough girl hard as nails with a rough exterior. But once you get to know me I have the biggest heart I just tend to keep it hidden. But it is just a defense mechanism. With that being said I am loyal to a fault. I would give you the shirt off my back if I thought you needed it and you and I were friends (or more). I like to do the little things. I believe actions speak louder than words. You can say I love you a thousand times but if you don't show it it doesn't mean a damn thing. I am sarcastic so watch out.I am looking for an equal loving partner, who is dependable, stable, hardworking with the same values who can communicate. Who is comfortable with himself and indepedant. Who likes to spend time together as well as with his own friends. I do not have to be joined at the hip with my man. I do not want a guy who already has children. I am sure you who have children are great guys and are wonderful dads I just don't want to date you. I want to come first in the relationship and my partner to be first. If you come with a child I will never be first nor would I expect to be. You also come with an ex who will always be part of the relationship and I just don't want to start a new relationship off that way. With my job I see all of the heartache this brings and I would rather be honest and just say I don't want to start off this way. I am sure I am missing out on some great guys but I am willing to take that hit to be a priority. It is hard enough starting a relationship with two people let alone more.If all you are looking for is to get laid? Crawl up a chicken's butt and wait. I look before I leap. I actually want to care about someone before I leap into bed with them. It makes it all that much better If that isn't your style I totally understand keep on looking. I respect your aproach to life, you respect mine. Plus let's be honest no matter how well you know someone that first time with anyone is always awkward and not the best. So it really should be with someone you care about so you can laugh about it and make it really rock the next time. I am big on family. I spend lots of time with mine. My parents have been married for over 42 years and have set a standard. There is nothing wrong with me being 35 and never married with no children. I only want to be married once and expect to stay that way. I want to raise my children in the same type of household I grew up in. I was never in a rush to do so. Yes I have been in long term relationships and I have had my heart broken. I have the strength to know what I want and not to settle. Life is too short.Each relationship I have been in has taught me something. Sometimes it was a harsh lesson to learn but it was obviously something I was supposed to know. (sometimes I had to learn the lesson more than once :) )I want to travel to Australia. I am scuba diver but it has been a while since I have dove. But I would really like to dive there. I would also like to see the galapogos (not sure that is spelled right) islands and swim with the turtles. I used to be terrifed of sharks. But my big brother being the loving brother he was made my first dive after certification a shark dive and a shark feed. So I am cured of that. LOL Our family is known for traveling together when we can. Which is awesome. I have been skiing (water) since I was 6. But spending the weekends with my brother and friends at the lake can be fun. But I will be honest and say I didn't go one time in ***. But this year is my year to return. Who knows? Depends on the person
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Izzie
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I like all kinds of music, mostly rock. I'm allergic to country tho, it makes my eyes water. I like to watch live local bands play and go to concerts. During the summer I try to go camping and floating whenever possible. I'll try almost anything once as long as it's legal and semi-safe. lol. I'm a positive person and try to distance myself from negativity. I'm usually always in a good mood. I'm rarely mad and don't hold grudges. Then, I hope to move onto a masters degree in Speech Pathology. I had to pick a career that didn't involve cotton balls because I absolutely cannot stand to touch them... eeks :-)I am a very independent woman. I take care of myself and my 14 year old son. I want to find someone to spend my time with without fighting or drama, someone who shares the same interest I do and likes to enjoy life. I'm looking for someone to be friends with first and then possibly a relationship.I believe that our life experiences and the people we meet help to mold us. We are constantly changing as life is constantly changing. With that said, I strive to leave a positive impact on the people I meet and in my search for my soulmate I look forward to making new friends.I'm hard to catch, but if you do catch me I fall fast so be careful with my heart. Also, I don't do the 'friends with benefits' thing. It's not in my nature and I have more respect for myself then that. A public place where we can talk.
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Alison
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Most people would say that I am a very down to earth person. I will try to put a smile on anyones face. I have been thru alot in a pass relationship. Cause me to built a tough outer shell. I am to the point in my life now where I am trying to break thru that shell. I am not getting any younger and life is not waiting for me. I have one child she is a good kid..Can have her days but she is a teenager.. Gotta love them days. My world is for her. But soon she will be gone and I will still be here waiting. Not sure what I am looking for. Not really the type of person to go out and just walk up to someone and say hey. I guess I am just one to hope that one day it will find me.I enjoy having fun.. Hangin out and just being happy. Life has givin me happiness and sadness. I am ready for more happiness.. First date... well I guess if u enjoy your company then anything u do would be the best first date ever.. you know when you get that feelin if it is right