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Alani, 40

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About Me

*****update***** IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A BOOTY CALL OR FWB I AM NOT INTERESTED!! I am a stay at home mom to a beautiful little girl. I am a fun loving person and I enjoy travel and spending time with my friends and family. After all the 3 "Fs" are so important Faith Family and Friends. I listen to all kinds of music (anything I can sing along with(off key lol) and dance to). I like going to concerts and the comedy club ( I love to laugh) . I like to cook and read. I love watching sports, especially college football ROLL TIDE!! and hockey GO Blackhawks!!I LOVE the water, I should've been born a fish! If you want to hang out at home and watch tv or movies, I'm good with that too. I am a girly girl that likes to dress up and go out to a nice dinner or movie, but can also throw on a pair of jeans and a tshirt and get dirty!I am looking for someone who is kind and loving. A romantic man who will be generous with love and affection, is not afraid to hold my hand or kiss my socks off! Who will accept me as I am, and know that I will treat him the way I expect to be treated by him. When I find him, or he finds me, he will know that I will be myself and give myself only to him. He has to like to snuggle and get lots of kisses. I hope he likes to eat, cause I like to cook and I will feed you!! a nice dinner and conversation. I want a gentleman to treat me like a lady.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dina

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Independent busy single mom. I love being in the moment...everything from the loud night life to quiet days on the couch. Looking for an equally busy guy that wants to share an occasional date night once and a while. Please don't interpret this to mean I am looking for a hook up. I am not interested in casual sex. I would like to find a man, preferrably a man that is raising children because he understands that kind of busy, that wants a woman he can go out with from time to time and see the latest movie, try a new restaurant, or meet for a drink. Men more than five years younger than myself need not apply.

  • Fairuza

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    " To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, not, rich; to listen to stars and birds, babes and sages, with open heart; to study hard; to think quietly, act frankly, talk gently, await occasions, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the common--this is my symphony." *** (for the most beautiful interpretation of the Chopin!)*********************************************************************************************************************************************************************Hello, I am a happy, energetic, intelligent woman who's passionate about living. I look regularly into the mirror and ask myself if I am doing a good job as a human being. I continuously seek to improve myself - physically, mentally. emotionally and spiritually. Do you? It matters. Your attractiveness might make me feel chemistry for you; but your intelligence, personality & character will make me want to stay near you. Let's not message forever before meeting! I don't do mobile and simply can't be strapped always to my computer, nor want to. This site is an emotional vacume...let's see blinking, breathing, smiling, mannerisms, hear one another's voices! A week or a bit longer before meeting/phoning - tops, unless extenuating circumstances... :)The arts are my line of work, and I am indeed an artist at heart - but I've a scientist's mind and an intellectual's soul. Proud? Yes. But obnoxiousness or mean-spiritedness is not a part of me. I work as part of a close-knit community, surrounded by people who inspire me daily. My multi-faceted background has me working in several different creative capacities, and I work hard at my career. Each day, week and month is not quite the same! I love that about what I do. There is a certain amount of cross-over between my work and social life and sometimes my schedule gets hectic, but it always soon settles down. :)I strongly value my private life - my relationships among family and close friends - and above all, making time for a partner...so long as he is making me an equal priority once a relationship is established. I love conversation, among other forms of sharing, in a relationship. So you should be intellectually inclined. And you MUST be able to laugh with me! I enjoy bantering at times with someone who's like-minded. It's either there between two people or it's not, it can't be forced. It's a way of connecting...a means of showing fondness...it can be a verbal foreplay, too ;) So a fellow who can tolerate, if not outright appreciate, my silly antics would be ideal :) I believe that life is a combination of the choices that we make AND the intuitions that can guide us in making them. I see my own life as a reflection of this. I enjoy the independence of living in my sweet little place in the heart of downtown. However, nature/the outdoors is in my soul, and I usually escape the city on a weekly basis - to the ocean, a lake or a beautiful forest. Horses and riding are a passion of mine. I like to keep active all year round. I'm a significant foodie and love trying all different types of exotic cuisine, the spicier the better, especially when paired with a good wine :) Red,please. Cooking just for one gets tiresome though, doesn't it?Did someone say "travel"?- I have a kooky streak, with a dash of silly. Please do NOT confuse this to mean "flake".- I am principled, affectionate, strong-willed and smart. - Passionate, whimsical. tenderhearted, confident, kind. - I love decorating/fixing up and being a homebody - very happy right now over my new laminate floor! - reading, puttering - when not socializing...- I grew up with animals; I adore them and will always need them in my life. - After many years of doglessness, I adopted a Labrador retriever this past spring...I am seeking a man who:- Is also open to something that could become a long term relationship with a promising future!...Like me, he's willing to start with one date at a time :***Can handle finances/financial obligations. - Is in a job he loves. - Was taught honesty and integrity; it's a part of his personal character. - Is insightful into how the world works, yet he STILL chooses to be an optimist (not easy to do in this day and age) :***Is communicative and emotionally mature (HINT: tantrums, sulking and passive-aggression are examples of the opposite).- Enjoys conversation; intellectual and emotional closeness.- Is up for trying both new things together - along with the more comfy, routine things :)- Is comfortable giving and receiving affection.- Is open to the unknown in life; the magic. Is PLAYFUL! - More days than not, is HAPPY :) ********************************************************************************************************************************************************PS: - My health, fitness and eating habits are a priority. So while I love how we come in all shapes and sizes, I am honestly only personally attracted and can commit to men who are slim/fit in build, who take care of their diet and health, and plan to keep doing so in future. Artists never really retire, and I plan on still dancing, riding, and mov'in when I'm 75+...you would need to keep up! - I sincerely plan to leave the door open on children; this all depends for me on the relationship's future and what kind of father my future partner would be, quite frankly. It's a decision two people reach together. Please do NOT message me if your choice is NOT to have children. I should also add that I am not seeking to hear from men who already have children. Thank you! :)- I've had the good fortune of spending a fairly equal amount of time both in relationships and single. I've learned many things about myself from both, as well as what I am looking for in a man going forward. I am excited for what the future holds personally and professionally, hope you are, too! :)I am ready to cross paths with someone who's in a similar place and loves the idea of getting to know a woman who can challenge him - but more importantly, support him - while offering back absolutely the same in return :) Next step: message me! I look forward to hearing from you :) The Three C's:Casual-Classy-Conspiratorial. It's quite a lot of pressure for either person - and not truly possible - to try to determine compatibility in just an hour or two...Rather the first time spent together should tell us if there's enough chemistry to want to see more of each other! :)

  • Chung

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a free spirited young women who is looking to find someone who wants to date casually. I like to go to the movies and eat at great restaurants. I like to read and hang out with my friends.

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