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Phillida, 37
United States, Oklahoma, Sand Springs

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About Me

I am 37, I have 3 kids and 3 dogs. I am overweight, I am a size 18 so if you have ANY issues with weight you won't like me. *Please do not message me telling me "You don't look fat" or "What do ya weigh"...Dating is exhausting and it almost takes a miracle to find someone that you can connect with and you both feel the same about each other and you both want the same things. So I don't want to waste your time or mine. I am a very laid back, easy going person. I hate arrogance, so the shirtless mirror pics or the gym pictures are just a major turn off. I am not city or country, I am quite, middle of the road. I hate crowds, don't like bars and I don't like hunting or anything like that. I am not looking for a husband or a father for my kids. But like I said, dating is exhausting, I do want someone who does want a future with someone. If you are hung up on someone or if you are all damaged from a past relationship I am sorry for you. But I am not wanting to repair anyone, we have all been treated bad at one time or another and it sucks, but you have to look forward. So anyway, if you wanna know anything else just ask...:) Anything other than sitting on my couch.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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