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Valerie, 38

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About Me

It has been a long time since I have had a serious relationship. I have an 18 year old daughter who I have raised on my own. I am spontaneous and fly by the seat of my pants type of girl. I am usually up for anything as long as fun is the intention. I enjoy riding on the back of motorcycles, passenger when mudding etc..-- I enjoy learning new things. I enjoy listening to all types of music, country being my favorite. I enjoy going to see music played live, local bands are just as much fun. Family is important to me and mutual respect for others is a given. In the past year I have joined a gym and I am attempting to pick up running. I am not a die hard athletic but I think health is important but love to eat appetizers for dinner once in a while. I try not to take life too seriously, but there is a huge difference between responsibility and seriousness.I am a smoker with no intention of quitting anytime soon. I will not entertain a message or reply to non smoker's. Avoiding a future unnecessary argument. Also, occasional and social drinking does not mean you go to the bar every weekend to socially drink on the occasion of a weekend. If you do drugs at all do not waste my time or yours, the truth always comes out. Definitely something fun where we can be goofy and not so serious. Bowling, mini golf, air hockey. Movies and Dinner are out because there always seems to be the dreaded awkward silence.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jacelyn

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    How long is it going to take us to find each other? How many toads must we kiss? I'm done kissing toads, lol. Where is the apple of my eye, my love....I hope you know that you are SO worth the craziness of this online dating... You too are exploring the ends of the earth to find me-- your partner-in-...you too are a Romantic w/great depth and passionMy quest is still progressing..... What is life without PASSION? (Yum! Red, hot passion!) I think it is essential to live life as if there were no tomorrow. Love like you have never loved before. I love music. I am a happy-go-lucky gal who also enjoys an intellectual coversation. I'm PLAYFUL, down to earth, FUNNY, and have to LAUGH at least twice a day. I am very into growth and development. I would get ever so bored in life, if I were not learning something new. I love Jazz, RB, 80'S, classical, but I also love Rock/Heavy Metal music. I love fine dining but I also love a hot- I enjoy being sensual and classy. I equally enjoy being silly and child-like in my amazement of life. I love getting dressed up in formal gowns for an evening out at an Opera or a Play. I also enjoy walking barefoot in grass by the lake, having a picnic under a shade tree....gazing up at the blue skies. I am a lady w/dignity and self-respect, but equally enjoy the liberty of being uninhibited behind close doors w/the one i love and cherish! ...I enjoy social functions, charity events and gatherings, but I also enjoy solitude or 1-on-1 time....I'm ever so inquisitive and curious about life. I love the sun and hanging out at the beach on a hot day. I equally love thunderstorms and rainy days. Lightning excites me! I like wine, a fine Scotch, but sometimes i like a cold beer. Although I prefer to drink only on occasions. I am physically, emotionally, and mentally healthy! with no hang-ups with former S/O. I like to get up early, but i equally like to stay up late-- lol, it's kind of hard to do both. Maybe, I just embrace the dichotomies of life.....lol, i just thought of that right now. I believe in yin and yang (here is a secret: i have a small tattoo of yin/yang on my wrist; in which well, i am the yin....and well, i'm still trying to find my yang in life...) I suppose maybe I just appreciate the whole effort for balance in life. For every negative experience, I believe you can walk away w/at least 1 positive lesson learned. The quality of our life depends on the glasses we view it through. We create our own reality based on how we choose to perceive our experiences. BOTTOM LINE (ME): i'm a sassy, fun-loving, funny/witty, clever, PASSIONATE, sensual, CLASSY, TENDER HEARTED, and a firey spirit always on the move. i'm straightforward, don't play games in the arena of hearts/relationships, honest, and have definitely lived an adventurous life! NOT interested in hook-ups, fly-by-nights, etc. I'm down to earth and truly want to meet the man who appreciates what i'm about and connects! I'm easy to get along with-- quirky, HONEST, Cultured, fun, INTELLIGENT, gregarious, LOVING, and respectful.WHO AM I LOOKING FOR? The man who shares many of my desires, yet complements or balances out the relationship by being who he is-- genuine/authentic. YOU are my best friend, and are loyal to me. YOU are honest, thoughtful, passionate, sexy, intelligent, driven, funny/witty, and YOU keeps me on my toes-- which in essence makes me smile and laugh! YOU love music too! Well, if we meet up for a first date then we hit it off really well! A first date should take place in a setting that is conducive to dialogue coupled w/dinner or/and a drink.

  • Della

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Here's me in a nutshell: I am the mom of two incredible boys, ages 11 and 6. They are my world. I am also an elementary school teacher at a Christian school. I love my job. I can't imagine doing anything else. I am a bit quirky, I can be a little goofy...ok, sometimes a lot goofy, I'm a mom and the teacher of children, it just comes with the territory!! :-) I believe that every single day that I open my eyes and put my feet on the floor is a gift, full of brand new mercies from God. My faith is my foundation and the source of my strength and happiness. I believe in forgiving people for their mistakes and putting the past behind you. I believe in working hard and playing hard. I believe in laughing at yourself...if you don't, someone else will! I believe it's ok to cry, and I do...not just when I'm sad but often tears of joy. I am passionate, romantic, fiercely loyal, more than a little stubborn, a bit more clumsy than graceful, always have the best of intentions even when things go completely wrong, a thinker almost to a fault but in the end will be led more by my heart, and perhaps most importantly...I sneeze really loud :-)I am not 20 years old. I don't have the body of a 20-year-old. I am not a stick figure. I have never been a stick figure. I don't want to be a stick figure. I will never be a stick figure. I am 40 years old. I am curvy and soft. A little curvier and softer than when I was 20 years old...I have proudly carried 2 babies in my tummy since then. I do take care of myself. All of my pictures are very current. What you see is what you get. My ideal man is compassionate, has a tender side, not only has all of his teeth but they are in the right places, has nice hands, is kind to my children (and all children), can be serious when necessary but embraces his playful side, will sit on the floor and play cards and board games with me and understand that I WILL gloat when I beat him :-)I'm not looking to rush into a serious relationship. I would simply like someone to spend time with...to enjoy each other's company. I enjoy dinners by the water, days on the beach, nights on the beach!, going to football games, live music, dancing, grilling at home and watching movies on the couch...it's not so much about what you do as about enjoying being together. If something more than friendship develops then great but no pressure!) I'll happily go to your games if you'll go to mine!**One more thing...By the way, I rarely make first contact. There was a time when I would but my *** often went unanswered. So, if I've viewed your profile and didn't *** isn't necessarily because I wasn't interested. I just may be :) Whatever makes me want a second date :)

  • Petunia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Im a single mom of 4 so i dont have much time for hobbies i like all kinds of music i like hangin out with my friends nd spending time with mykids they are my life they keep me on my toes i like goin out nd havin fun when i have a free moment

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