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About Me

I know it's a long profile but I'm worth it ;)I signed up for this a while back and am starting to think it's all a waste of time. I don't want to sound negative... but it may be about time to chalk this up as my own little social experiment gone awry.I guess at this point I am supposed to tell you a little about me… sorry but it is going to seem like a list. I don't know any other way to do this. I can be sarcastic at times, and have a slightly dark sense of humor. I enjoy hanging out and laughing with friends. When I have the time, I love to travel. I am independent but at the same time I love others to take the reins every once in a while. I expect to be treated well but don't expect a guy to shower me with gifts (if I wanted it I probably bought it already LOL). I'm pretty easy going... Or at least think I am ;)Wanna hear a deep dark secret? One that no one in BC is supposed to admit to? I DO NOT CAMP. I tried it once and ended up in a hotel. Before you say "but if you only tried it once how do you know you won't like it?", I love the camp fires and being outside but I prefer the comfort of a bed and can't stand bugs! If you like to camp that's cool... just go with your buddies and I will see you when you get back. At some time in my life I may actually try again but you would have to be pretty damn persuasive to get me to do it.As you can see I "have children"... well... one. He is 16 years old and already has a great dad so I am not looking for a "father figure" for him. I am not interested in having more kids of my own but if you have children I am not opposed to that.I'm a bit of a SciFi geek. I enjoy shows like Star Trek, Doctor Who, Game of Throwns, etc. I will go see any Super Hero show (even if its bad I still enjoy it). My son and I play board games like Carcassonne but still enjoy old school games like Clue ;) OK. That's enough about me. What am I looking for? I am looking for companionship, whether it ends in friendship or more. I like guys who are witty, have a great sense of humor and a nice smile. I am looking for someone to bring a little more levity into my life 'cause all work and no play make's me a bored girl :) The ideal guy would understand that chivalry is not dead. I’m not looking for a knight in shining armor, but someone to hold the door open for me would be a start.(September ***A lot of you are asking where the full body pics are. There is a good reason but probably not the one you think. Over the past 3 months I have gone from a size 2XL to a size M. I've dropped 30 pounds (and counting) by eating healthy (well... I still enjoy some chocolate but that's healthy right?) and getting active. I am almost at my ideal weight and will post LOTS of photos then ;) My main activity at the moment is speed walking but if you enjoy an interesting activity I would love to hear about it! BTW, I still want to have some curves so if you are looking for a stick thin anorexic I am definitely the wrong girl for you.I am an overall happy person. My choice to loose weight had nothing to do with trying to be happy or feeling more attractive. I have always felt sexy no matter what my weight was. This was simply a choice I made at this time in my life and I have been enjoying every minute of it. If you are interested in a positive, outgoing girl who is comfortable in almost any situation then send me a message. My idea of the perfect first date depends on my mood, but it’s all about finding something to do during those awkward silences that inevitably show up on dates to start with. It's doesn't have to be complicated or expensive.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chyna

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Online dating is a new adventure for me. I have 2 busy children and a busy career which can make it difficult to meet someone. So here I am. :)I love to be active and am often hiking, biking, or walking with my kids. I also enjoy being at home cooking, watching movies, or playing games. I love music and listen to it every chance I get. I have my yoga certification and used to give free yoga classes to the women at my church. I have a humanitarian spirit and love to help whenever I can. I have wonderful friends and family whom I try to spend time with as much as possible.I have a sweet demeanor and have always been honest and loyal in every relationship. I am kind, nurturing, and my friends say that I always see the best in others. I can honestly say that I truly appreciate life and I try to enjoy every moment. I would love to meet a christian guy who I can share life with and who also loves to laugh. To be honest, I'd be up for almost anything. I love to try new things, however, I also enjoy the traditional romantic dinner and moonlight walk.

  • Michell

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    ***Time for an update!! Ok..so..we can see how "my best friend" has not arrived! Would still love to find him, but until then, I'm just gonna have to go with life and see what's in store for me. We never know what life is gonna hand us unless we get out there and take chances. Besides...we can never havetoo many friends...right??? So let's start with friends....might turn into Best *** .I don't put up with liars,cheaters, thieves, or any kind of abuse toward my kids or myself! So if you are still reading this, that's a good thing. If you are any of the above, MOVE ON!.I would love to actually find someone worth spending time with...you know...someone REAL! NOT FULL OF GAMES.I love to have fun, & all I want is MY special someone to spend time with. I have been divorced for 11 yrs. I have 2 sons....17 & 21. I don't want to grow old alone, however, I will not settle just because I don't want to be alone either. All I want is my best friend to grow old and enjoy life with. I love my friends, that is why it is SO important to me to meet my BEST FRIEND...my SOUL MATE if you will ;-). Traveling, Camping, Fishing, Hiking, or just a nice evening either going out to dinner and a movie or a Comedy Club or catching a concert. Cooking in and watching a movie snuggled together on the couch sounds great too! I am very easy to get along with. I know my Best Friend/Lover is out there somewhere....and obviously I haven't done such a great job at finding him....so I am leaving it in GOD'S hands...AND YOURS...LOL;-} .....here comes the fine print...please read carefully....(must like kids & me..lol ;-) If you DO drink MORE than just "SOCIALLY"...PLEASE STATE SO...OR JUST PLAIN SAY "YES"!!...DON'T SUGAR COAT IT!! This means, if you have more than ***drinks *** our FIRST meeting, WHAT THE HECK IS THE REST OF IT GONNA BE LIKE???!!!)...OK, OK, I know..most of that wasn't SO FINE!!! Just don't want an alcoholic or druggie in my child or my life!! I definitely love my family & friends & yours would automatically fit right into mine ;-} I don't have alot of family left...but would be willing to adopt yours if you would let me ;-) Anything Fun....You now know what I enjoy....so surprise me! LOLBy the way, I do love going to Sporting events! Baseball, Basketball, & Football, Nascar...those are the only pro games I have been to....but I would love to go to other games as well! I also love hunting & camping. I guess you could say I am a Girlie Girl with a bit of tomboy in me...LOL You never know what you like until you try it...RIGHT? But it would need to be somewhere we can talk and get to know each other on our first date. And if you are the romantic type that likes to bring flowers,, my favorite is Orchids ;-)

  • Lilliana

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    A solid friendship is what I feel leads to a solid relationship. My friends and family are important in my life. The unplanned times are some of the best times. A first date should be something comfortable for both people. Just taking the time to get to know a person is the most important part of a first date.

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